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harshita

@harshita27

Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

#1091

Originally posted by: Errantnomad
You can demand all the pampering you want but dish out courtesy by telling the person who is putting the food on the table and when being asked that you hv an alternate plan and atleast not dismiss the effort. That's rude and not exactly tact.
You eat , don't eat , take away go out but don't dismiss the other persons effort by saying agar yeh Kaoege tho how will you eat what the deeds getting

Net net baat ye hai Errant that Manny is a rich spoilt bitch... She has lived her life not worrying too much about curtesies beyond a point with the cook etc..so it might not even get in her psyche that not eating is sucha big deal. She didnt say "II TUM YAHI BANAYI HO?!? Ye kyu banayi ho?!? Its soo bad etc etc"

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harshita

@harshita27

Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

#1092

Originally posted by: swathi1990

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Harsh

My thing is only this...she has come for a week to paris...I want her to enjoy with the dude for the maximum extent...and not stress herself or spoil the mood thinking abt manya...

Its not like the dude doesnt take time for her...so pls use that time, go out...walk in champs elysees holding hands...may be see swiss over the weekend...let him feel the baby...make moments...have fun...have lots of sex...

pls dont let manny affect you...she will be there...shw will want time with R&B...let her...and the dude will give time for u as well...

Sure u shud throw a tantrum if he doesnt give u time...no for stupid breakfast thingy...

Thats what!!! If Indians chose their personal battles better, we would never have the saas-bahu-nanad drama... The worst idea is to bitch n bitch n bitch n then throw tantrums about it to your husband...who was not even there when the tamasha happened.. II doesnt bitch..but she is now guilty of throwing tantrums... R&B is humoring, thank god!! Humlog aise kyu hain?? Angrezon ko dekho... Nahi banti... Bilkul muhfatt kindz bol dete hain.

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Errantnomad

@Errantnomad

Inactive

Posted: 10 years ago

#1093

Hershey being a rich spoilt bitch is ok all the time ? Expectations are both sides.
An attempt to understand the psyche behind a persons thinking cannot be one way has to be both ways.

Nisha this will go on but can we get another update please so that we can rant more 😆

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Nisha0604

@Nisha0604

Sparkler

Posted: 10 years ago

#1094

Hersh and Swathi

Television is filled with women that are reasonable sane mature and rational

Sorry II will be none of it

She is not a politician or a diplomat to use clever Chanakya like manouverings you know to shame Manya

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Errantnomad

@Errantnomad

Inactive

Posted: 10 years ago

#1095

Originally posted by: swathi1990

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Harsh

My thing is only this...she has come for a week to paris...I want her to enjoy with the dude for the maximum extent...and not stress herself or spoil the mood thinking abt manya...

Its not like the dude doesnt take time for her...so pls use that time, go out...walk in champs elysees holding hands...may be see swiss over the weekend...let him feel the baby...make moments...have fun...have lots of sex...

pls dont let manny affect you...she will be there...shw will want time with R&B...let her...and the dude will give time for u as well...

Sure u shud throw a tantrum if he doesnt give u time...no for stupid breakfast thingy...

This is what we all wish Swa. For everyone to enjoy their time and different pockets of time can always be made to not feel ignored but then everything would be so rosy...
How we wish they make more moments pleasant. 😛

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swathi1990

@swathi1990

Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

#1096

Originally posted by: Nisha0604
Hersh and Swathi
Television is filled with women that are reasonable sane mature and rational
Sorry II will be none of it

She is not a politician or a diplomat to use clever Chanakya like manouverings you know to shame Manya

Oh Its nothing Nish...

We know II is not perfect, infact more immature...

When she visited paris, I was expecting soo much fun...

now she is sitting at home bitching / spoiling her and inturn my mood with manya...there comes the frustration...

well life is bitch and things dont happen our way I guess

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swathi1990

@swathi1990

Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

#1097

Originally posted by: Nisha0604
Hersh and Swathi
Television is filled with women that are reasonable sane mature and rational
Sorry II will be none of it

She is not a politician or a diplomat to use clever Chanakya like manouverings you know to shame Manya

and we dont want her to shame manya...pls let her stay away from manya...and lets have happy moments in paris 😊

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Srividya

@moonwearer

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 10 years ago

#1098

I guess despite all the warmth and affection Manny would always resent II as she is not comfortable with the change she sees. From the beginning she has triggered IIs insecurities and fears. II is guarded in her responses and walks away whenever Manny is the topic of discussion. Seeing her in the flat she tries her best to make her feel welcome but there is no effort to be warm to her from Manny. Whenever she sees her brother she wants to prove a point to her. II had repeatedly asked of Mannys breakfast there was no attempt to include her in the conversation.

In the dudes response to Appa you find II anxious ready to go away avoiding confrontation and it is the dude that stays showing nothing matters more than his II. When it comes to Chachu and Manny II wants their acceptance and approval she cannot turn a blind eye to the way they treat her. She wants her marriage to last. The effort the dude has gone into to pick the bookmarks reflecting his intent when acted out will reassure his II.

She has no mug or childhood memories to voice her sway their sizzling chemistry can't be discussed in public what she needs is her dude to tell her what she means. He will not speak. Sam has revealed how dad was ready to give up chicken and lamb and we know the reason. She hates the smell of egg cooking in her present state. The dude cannot make it in the kitchen he has to find a way to balance a demanding wife and sister they are like the mistrust between a new bride and

Mil over a son