software symphony 35 Maanvi - Page 90

Ddda2006 - Welcome on board!

Originally posted by: Ashu25

Ddda2006 - Welcome on board!

Hoe to see you interacting more often!

Anu - Been gushing since ages ya.. Check out my signature 😉

SR

Originally posted by: Belly_Button

"I am lazy, the youngest, so I got pampered, by Appa, Amma doesnt... she made me cook two nights a week however busy I was, not weekend nights but

weeknights, she would say "this is EXACTLY how returning from work after wedding will be" II said

My affections for this ardent and speeding tale always find a mixed ground. Most authors find success by showing what it is rather than what it should be.

Mostly what it should be is in our heads. People mock when one says that a girl, if working doesn't have to cook, clean and cry. People mocked when VA Shiva Ayyadurai said that you can send a virtual message to people across globe using electronic mail.

Mock me.

Really? So a working girl has to work on the conditions that she still has to cook and clean?

I am not referring to this story in any way other than this because I haven't read it. I have had the pleasure of narrations, though. The author 'shows' truth. But women like Amma need a reality check. Pleasuring husband and the in-laws, not meeting your parents unless the people who own you now grant the permission, becoming pregnant because people want you to, husband regulating wife's money. All of this is true and NOT NECESSARILY in II's regard but in every other girl from a conservative background.

No I am not another freak who is obsessed with Deepika's "My Choice". I don't really support that either.

What I am saying is that II doesn't have to cook so she has a demo experience of her post-marriage reality. She can cook to help her mother. Appa can cook lemon rice. I am referring to all examples from the story, I hold no grudges against the story, I am happy to have been educated of all other stuff that I didn't already know of.

BEING A WOMAN DOESNT TRADEMARK YOU TO BE A HOUSEWIFE AS WELL.

And thats why they don't use the word HOUSEWIFE anymore. Its HOMEMAKER.

Nor is taking your in-laws shit a trademark. II's sister reminds me of that. As a pregnant woman too if you are supposed to be working, I wonder how far the limits go.

I am a firm believer of shared responsibilities and equal importance to both parents.

I see girls saying "Why to keep a job if homely duties will always follow as ghosts?"

Not all are perfect or lucky like II to nurture both or be granted leave out of it.

You can opt out of it.

If a wife works and does the home jobs too, its her choice, not her duty. What other life-ly pleasures does she hold when all her time is consumed in feeding her good-for-nothing husband; having sex and making his kids sleep? Woah!

I am a columnist. I came on IF to sit back and relax but well this stirred my wit so here I am.

Commander and Captain are both online 👏

Originally posted by: Seriousreader

Commander and Captain are both online 👏

No matter how choppy the sea is...We'll make it😊

Kapoor Connection
Oh ! I absolutely loved the title. Twice now, the dude has used his good books and has pulled strings to make things comfortable for the people he cares about. He did it for vandu and now for his wife. I choose to conveniently ignore the one time he did it for his cousins wife a wannabe starlet, that came to my mind only cos, it left his wife thap thaping in the bathroom, fuming.
But I really like the subtle way he goes abt doing that.

Along with love, Care at appropriate times in whatever form, is what makes marraiges work is my strong belief .. I believe in that 100%.

Ranjanji has made his presence and is smiling too, me liking it.

I am sure of one thing, while dude and II will take time to work their distances between them, he will be there for her when she needs him the most to hold her and then may be the distances wouldn't matter .
Premonition... Premonition

Hey girls, hope everyone is doing as well as they can. Its a weekend... and it might be tougher for some like me... since she would be online more. Readying for dates or telling us about a visit to her parents

jo bhi ho...i saw nisha using smiling emoticon...thanks a lot belly button...even i dont know u... hifi...and thanks again...we were trying to do that for past many days and u did that!!!!
(dristi...again bye!)