Originally posted by: VeeIyer
Everyone...Thanks for the caring enquiries !! Had to respond...
Orangen ...You don't know me ...but your story is inspiring...was awestruck reading about what you have made of your life !
Sudhi...I think SOSY has become a kind of catharsis for all of us...Truly the best gift you can give your father on Father's day by writing about him
Hershey...Life is full of hurdles and somehow, we still find the strength to cope however much we feel that all is over
Please give me a couple of days to get back ladies...Two of my students need my emotional support...they are dealing with life changing issues...
I was on an adrenaline overdrive for managing the Retreat and now am on a total slump..Need time to recoup a bit...
R&B and II's situation does not help as I have a plateful of real woes to cope with,,,their virtual woes seem to be eating into my sleep too !!
And Nisha..I have a 3 hour part time help to clean the house...Thanks for caring..I know if I had been a 100 miles within radius you would have cooked khana, brought it along, chatted with me and picked my spirits up...Thanks for being who you are 🤗
I LOVE to cook, so its not a big deal at all for me. The friend I was cooking for the lady that has cervical cancer... I stopped sending food because she was really mean to me in a very matter of fact sorta way... I was sending a portion of every meal I was cooking for a week or 10 days... my 16 year old will drive over and drop it off
Then one Sun evening when we went to check on her she was like "Roz mat bhejo achha nahi lagta, aage se bilqul nahi"
I was very hurt I dont send any more
And when the grand kid, the 19 year old came home from college, one day he came to hang with my 16 year old and the aunty had sent a bag of SUBZI😡 like a bunch of potatoes, bell peppers tomatoes etc
I was like "WHAT is this?"
The kid goes "dadi ne bheja"
I was SO MAD I said "Waapis lekar jao, apni Dadi ko kehna when I need money for food I will advertize it😭"
YET when she needed radiation I showed up last Thursday
Thats why I said Vani... I DONT KNOW why I do it
I am not made for the blunt, matter of fact, rude ways of this world I belong in a different era where kindness got kindness😭
when I dropped off the lady and her grandson I told the grandson "come on over whenever u want to eat, u can eat and take food for ur Dad and Dadi" "Its no big deal"
I bet the lady told the kid "Dont u dare go there" or something...
Who knows...
I CANT HELP MYSELF
I am like II I think, atleast I am not 27
NEVER THOUGHT I WOULD SOMEDAY BE GLAD NOT TO BE 27🤣
Edited by Nisha0604 - 10 years ago