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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Nisha0604



I LOVE to cook, so its not a big deal at all for me. The friend I was cooking for the lady that has cervical cancer... I stopped sending food because she was really mean to me in a very matter of fact sorta way... I was sending a portion of every meal I was cooking for a week or 10 days... my 16 year old will drive over and drop it off

Then one Sun evening when we went to check on her she was like "Roz mat bhejo achha nahi lagta, aage se bilqul nahi"
I was very hurt I dont send any more

And when the grand kid, the 19 year old came home from college, one day he came to hang with my 16 year old and the aunty had sent a bag of SUBZI😡 like a bunch of potatoes, bell peppers tomatoes etc

I was like "WHAT is this?"

The kid goes "dadi ne bheja"
I was SO MAD I said "Waapis lekar jao, apni Dadi ko kehna when I need money for food I will advertize it😭"

YET when she needed radiation I showed up last Thursday

Thats why I said Vani... I DONT KNOW why I do it

I am not made for the blunt, matter of fact, rude ways of this world I belong in a different era where kindness got kindness😭

when I dropped off the lady and her grandson I told the grandson "come on over whenever u want to eat, u can eat and take food for ur Dad and Dadi" "Its no big deal"

I bet the lady told the kid "Dont u dare go there" or something...

Who knows...
I CANT HELP MYSELF

I am like II I think, atleast I am not 27

NEVER THOUGHT I WOULD EVER BE GLAD NOT TO BE 27🤣


Its like Nallathuke kaalam illa Nish 😭 😭 The more we maintain distance the better I guess...
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Nisha0604



I LOVE to cook, so its not a big deal at all for me. The friend I was cooking for the lady that has cervical cancer... I stopped sending food because she was really mean to me in a very matter of fact sorta way... I was sending a portion of every meal I was cooking for a week or 10 days... my 16 year old will drive over and drop it off

Then one Sun evening when we went to check on her she was like "Roz mat bhejo achha nahi lagta, aage se bilqul nahi"
I was very hurt I dont send any more

And when the grand kid, the 19 year old came home from college, one day he came to hang with my 16 year old and the aunty had sent a bag of SUBZI😡 like a bunch of potatoes, bell peppers tomatoes etc

I was like "WHAT is this?"

The kid goes "dadi ne bheja"
I was SO MAD I said "Waapis lekar jao, apni Dadi ko kehna when I need money for food I will advertize it😭"

YET when she needed radiation I showed up last Thursday

Thats why I said Vani... I DONT KNOW why I do it

I am not made for the blunt, matter of fact, rude ways of this world I belong in a different era where kindness got kindness😭

when I dropped off the lady and her grandson I told the grandson "come on over whenever u want to eat, u can eat and take food for ur Dad and Dadi" "Its no big deal"

I bet the lady told the kid "Dont u dare go there" or something...

Who knows...
I CANT HELP MYSELF

I am like II I think, atleast I am not 27

NEVER THOUGHT I WOULD EVER BE GLAD NOT TO BE 27🤣




One lesson I have learnt very well in life DONT BE A FOOTBALL OF ANYONES OPINION And do not get hurt. Only allow yourself to be hurt by those who are really close to you. Do what makes you feel good, don't voluntarily hurt others, if they appreciate fine if they don't...you have done your bit.
So many people, have taken advantage of me but I help because it makes me feel good and I like to. Kisi ko appreciate karna hai to fine agar nahin to just too bad. Gently withdraw.
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: blue5sky

Seri update eppo??

idhuku mela cant wait for the lift. Privacy vera venum padikardhuku..

Are we going to cry more? Tear alert dal do please ...my cheat ( table ke neeche / life me) karke nahi paduoongi phir...



IAM 🤣 ON THAT ONE

Yedo "Dress maathikka privacy venum" types

Like u need privacy to change

AYYO!! U CRACK ME UP BIG TIME. APDIYE ASALTA adikarey ne, effortless humor👏
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Nisha0604



IAM 🤣 ON THAT ONE

Yedo "Dress maathikka privacy venum" types

Like u need privacy to change

AYYO!! U CRACK ME UP BIG TIME. APDIYE ASALTA adikarey ne, effortless humor👏


Yaar kuchch kuchc Tamil to aa gayi Lekin itni bhi nahi...translate Karen please.
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: blue5sky


👏 Absolutely!!

I was just going to type out that we need to turn the spotlight to Nivi and others in the pipe line.



Absolutely...I want to know what I should do when I get my R&B...😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
Shru

MERI glati kya hai maloom I CANNOT BE INSINCERE. Its a failing. Whatever I do it SHOWS in my demeanor I cannot do a half ass job and send it with my 16 year old, and then quietly withdraw... and act like I am busy

MUJHSE kisi ne help maangi to main tab tak karoongi jab tak woh mere pair padhkar ro nahi dete (maaf kar ab aage se help nahi mangoonga types) I FEEL VERY HAPPY TO BE USED

I feel a sense of rejection when people decline, if its a rude decline then it hurts like hell

I havent sent food in three weeks, the grand son apparently loves phulkas the guy said "when my 19 yr old comes home from college u shud send phulkas everyday"

I was happy to but dadiji said "No no we will manage"
So I didnt

Itni cheap bhi nahi hoon na
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Posted: 10 years ago
Nisha.. How mean is that!!!
Asma - No spotlight turning biz... Its on you now. So you will remain our target 😆
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: taramira


Yaar kuchch kuchc Tamil to aa gayi Lekin itni bhi nahi...translate Karen please.



Shru maaroongi tujhe, Tamil ke NEECHE translate kiya hai maine... she says "I need privacy to READ your story" Like its a po*n or like she is changing in her conference room, going under the table🤣

AYYO! my tummy hurts
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Nisha0604

Shru

MERI glati kya hai maloom I CANNOT BE INSINCERE. Its a failing. Whatever I do it SHOWS in my demeanor I cannot do a half ass job and send it with my 16 year old, and then quietly withdraw... and act like I am busy

MUJHSE kisi ne help maangi to main tab tak karoongi jab tak woh mere pair padhkar ro nahi dete (maaf kar ab aage se help nahi mangoonga types) I FEEL VERY HAPPY TO BE USED

I feel a sense of rejection when people decline, if its a rude decline then it hurts like hell

I havent sent food in three weeks, the grand son apparently loves phulkas the guy said "when my 19 yr old comes home from college u shud send phulkas everyday"

I was happy to but dadiji said "No no we will manage"
So I didnt

Itni cheap bhi nahi hoon na


I agree. ..people can be very cheap they will use use use and jab tumhe zaroorat paregi, koi nahi aayega, isliye I do as much as I can for others but I ensure that I am not dependent on anyone so that they can't hurt me. Expectations always reduce joy isliye main to koi rakhti hi nahi...


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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Nisha0604



Shru maaroongi tujhe, Tamil ke NEECHE translate kiya hai maine... she says "I need privacy to READ your story" Like its a po*n or like she is changing in her conference room, going under the table🤣

AYYO! my tummy hurts


Achcha Lekin wo dress ka kya reference tha..ab SAMAJH aaya! Sorry

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