Originally posted by: Nisha0604
Shru, and Sudhi fully agree
They both knew who they were marrying. Hes not cheating on her, hes just pursuing his hobby. Hes missed the mountains for 7 months, hes just going to reconnect
II in a selfish sorta way wants him to pine for her. Its cute and romantic, but he is planning to take off. II's wishes are not wrong. At the same time, he is by himself, he wants to relax and so has planned this thingie... hes pissed she misunderstands him
I will also write my two cents here...
i agree that u need to give space to each other in marriage...but whats wrong in II getting angry...he went to Paris for his work and its not even 2-3 days, he goes back to his old self, what do you expect anyone else to think...she is surely going to get angry, if it was atleast 2-3 weeks after or if the dude had atleast spoken to her saying its been so many months since i went hiking, I am planning to go, I think she wouldn't have so overreacted. He just went, worked for one day and just signed up to go. So no i dont agree with dude and I am still angry...
As the marriage becomes old, we need to give or think that we should give each other some space, let them do their thing now and then, but a 3 month old marriage should be nurtured...but saying all this...its actually typical for these two, they r behaving the exact way thats expected of them. Never mind they will learn slowly, cant expect them to change immediately.
Anu...I agree with u...when wife is not there only thing u shld say is i miss u...well it certainly took my hubs 11 yrs to realise what an important part ur wife is in ur life. Now he will just say take care of ur health Shilpa, what will I do if something happens to u, who will take care of kids, I will not be able to anything without u...then I will say...see u only want me to take care of kids, home and cook. Selfish person...typical wife response hmmm...😆