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Posted: 10 years ago
#41
Awww so sweet
Congrats on the new thread ..
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Posted: 10 years ago
#42
Congrats for the new thread !!!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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How

Aww we turned 22 sooo fast 👏👏
Loved this update and glad she told him he cant let her sleep alone that was plain mean of R&B.. yes the R&B bhakts will say its right she needs to be taught a lesson but he knows she cant sleep alone well likes to cuddle and leaves her.
It better be a one off incident nahi toh mere danda padega😆😆

Regarding Meany Bala no no no i dont believe he has the right to put the entire blame on his sons actions on an aunt who buys him gifts ..
where was this iyer father upbringing for the last 9 years.
Aunts/grandparents only role is to spoil ur child and actually its a good thing to feel a sense of belonging to someone else so later when they are scared to tell the parent something they can tell some other adult..feeling that close to someone else in US we strive for it...I just learnt a friends friends SIL's son committed suicide he was a loner and my friends friend is devastated and wishes she had been close to him..

Shravu stealing had nothing to do with II , it was a normal reaction Nandu has 4 Ipads , he is my friend i took one until now he didnt know he was not supposed to now he will know and learn.. at 9 there is a confusion but 11 they know each families dynamics.
Shravu will learn his boundaries..pavam suspension at 9 is more traumatic all because of Balas pride, like II said daato,take away electronics ..my kids every day tell me this kid went to principals office like that kid was put in jail imagine Shravus plight in school ,high schoolers wont care a 3rd grader good student , poor kid all because of some stupid IYER PRIDE.Kids dont have egos , dont believe in class differences and are innocent why spoil that ..

Bala lashing out on R&B's wife is a disrespect to R&B just like Manny going Meany on II ..
Guess Bala can only handle his brother like people who dont show up, who dont care they enable perfect upbringing of kids..👏
II is a fool she is nice so every soul under this sun other than Ranjan will scream at her , take liberties ,she has to understand everyones POV but nobody will understand her..

No Hershey/Swathi what Bala did was wrong ,he cant take his insecurities and put the blame on II and use rude words..
After marriage there is a very thick line of what can be said and what cant between the 2 sides ..i can fight and kill my brother but if my husband says a word about my brother even indirectly he is dead meat 😃

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Posted: 10 years ago
#44

Originally posted by: SAKIV-RAM

congracts for 22 thread buddy.

sorry for problem caused by me


hey vikas.that was not a big deal.ashu will take care of the index in this thread.you can do that in the next... 😊
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Posted: 10 years ago
#45
putti,this was your post in the previous thread
"Vikas, where are you? Page no
31 pe chotusa and bahut pyarsa
update hai. Please update the
index yaar.
People are going miss it."
but i didnt found any...may be my mistake.will you pls specify??
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: TanjoreGirl

How

Aww we turned 22 sooo fast 👏👏
Loved this update and glad she told him he cant let her sleep alone that was plain mean of R&B.. yes the R&B bhakts will say its right she needs to be taught a lesson but he knows she cant sleep alone well likes to cuddle and leaves her.
It better be a one off incident nahi toh mere danda padega😆😆

Regarding Meany Bala no no no i dont believe he has the right to put the entire blame on his sons actions on an aunt who buys him gifts ..
where was this iyer father upbringing for the last 9 years.
Aunts/grandparents only role is to spoil ur child and actually its a good thing to feel a sense of belonging to someone else so later when they are scared to tell the parent something they can tell some other adult..feeling that close to someone else in US we strive for it...I just learnt a friends friends SIL's son committed suicide he was a loner and my friends friend is devastated and wishes she had been close to him..

Shravu stealing had nothing to do with II , it was a normal reaction Nandu has 4 Ipads , he is my friend i took one until now he didnt know he was not supposed to now he will know and learn.. at 9 there is a confusion but 11 they know each families dynamics.
Shravu will learn his boundaries..pavam suspension at 9 is more traumatic all because of Balas pride, like II said daato,take away electronics ..my kids every day tell me this kid went to principals office like that kid was put in jail imagine Shravus plight in school ,high schoolers wont care a 3rd grader good student , poor kid all because of some stupid IYER PRIDE.Kids dont have egos , dont believe in class differences and are innocent why spoil that ..

Bala lashing out on R&B's wife is a disrespect to R&B just like Manny going Meany on II ..
Guess Bala can only handle his brother like people who dont show up, who dont care they enable perfect upbringing of kids..👏
II is a fool she is nice so every soul under this sun other than Ranjan will scream at her , take liberties ,she has to understand everyones POV but nobody will understand her..

No Hershey/Swathi what Bala did was wrong ,he cant take his insecurities and put the blame on II and use rude words..
After marriage there is a very thick line of what can be said and what cant between the 2 sides ..i can fight and kill my brother but if my husband says a word about my brother even indirectly he is dead meat 😃


I agree with most of your points Anu. Bala lashing outing was expected as he has started to feel insecure after II wedding to a rich dude. If it was Shree he won't have had the same feelings. Now the difference between the families is huge. He is aware of Vandu's thoughts also regarding his parents expenses. As a man of the family he had put his foot down and convey his thoughts to II ( which I agree was mean) so it's clear to both the sisters.
II needs to step back and now focus on herself and her husband.😊
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: ishruhi

putti,this was your post in the previous thread
"Vikas, where are you? Page no
31 pe chotusa and bahut pyarsa
update hai. Please update the
index yaar.
People are going miss it."
but i didnt found any...may be my mistake.will you pls specify??


it is 131 by typo 1 missed
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Posted: 10 years ago
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God!i was searching for putti's msg in the last 10 15 pages of previous thread as i just remembered about that one...though i found her post,didnt got that mentioned update.but i read my posts...how irritating those were..pls dont feel bad as i was almost sounded like to stop all discussions!!!i never thought like that.i was just saying to myself!!!sorry if i hurt anybody!!my sole intention was to get one update!not anything else!!i really love reading all these comments!! 😳
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Congrats on turning 22! Long live the SoSy World!
I hope this update has some focus on the leads they need to form a strong bond and a strong foundation for their future. They need to stop baby sitting, so they focus on baby making 😳😳😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Hsp.canada


I agree with most of your points Anu. Bala lashing outing was expected as he has started to feel insecure after II wedding to a rich dude. If it was Shree he won't have had the same feelings. Now the difference between the families is huge. He is aware of Vandu's thoughts also regarding his parents expenses. As a man of the family he had put his foot down and convey his thoughts to II ( which I agree was mean) so it's clear to both the sisters.
II needs to step back and now focus on herself and her husband.😊


Bala feeling insecure is his problem Shev how can we justify someones temper as its right..temper ,lashing out is not justified ..
who gives any one the right to make II feel bad..nobody has that right neither her father,nor her husband nor her BIL who are these men who take her for granted in my point.

so ur son thinks his aunt can buy him things because thats what most kids say u as an iyer dad are getting insecure about that.. my kids will constantly say i will Ask mama for that or will ask thatha for that and honestly i feel good they feel that liberty.
Agreed steeling is bad and totally i would be devastated no doubt.. thats why i totally supported BAla i was so upset for him but then instead of trying to fix his problem he is taking it out on II
I 😡 Bala now just like I 😡 Meany Manny 😆


Edited by TanjoreGirl - 10 years ago

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