Originally posted by: bkamber
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Glad you saw the humor in what I said...but it is true...really...what will she do...other then sorry sorry sorry. No one changes that fast...it would be a long time before I would ever really believe somebody like her.
Arnav as well...what would he do other than free himself of her. He can't even block her phone calls so she has it made. That is why she continues to harass him. She has not an iota of respect for a man that accepted her and her child as his own. She is the one who imprisoned him.
Khushi going to visit her is something that I can see her wanting to do to help herself deal with her conscience and perhaps form her own opinion along with what Arnav has said to her. However, I don't want her to apologize to her. I don't want Loony to have that power over Khushi. Khushi, against her better judgement and principle allowed Arnav into her life and I feel that if she needs to offer an apology it should be to herself...meaning forgive herself for the breach in her principles. Arnav is not some lost mindless soul that Khushi tied a leash on and forced to come with her. The marriage ended the day he filed for separation and there was no intervention from her or family for a reconciliation of the marriage...except for one call from Sashi early on as we now know. Divorce and ending the marriage is a done deal for Arnav... with or without Khushi. While I consider marriage as a holy union to be respected and honored, I don't believe that the "vows" should become a "noose" in a dysfunctional marriage...and Arnav's marriage was based on a deceit, so actually it is an insult to the sanctity of the union.
As for me...if anybody ever barged into my home or accused me in a note like Loony's note, they would be dealing with my attorney...I am not turn the other cheek type of person. 😉
BTW...loved your write up about Khushi's psyche. Let's see what Jen has planned for Khushi in her plot. I have faith in her story. 😃
Kerrie, I totally agree about La, she isn't turning a new leaf anytime soon... She is quite capable of pulling the wool over her dad's & sister's eyes all over again... Telling them that she wants to get better & get over Arnav and all the time trying to get Arnav back via some underhand means... Deep obsession like hers in not forgotten in a day, it will take months if not years for her to get Arnav out of her system... Until then, she will try any & all means to try & latch on to him.
All this while, I was reacting to the possibility of Khushi's decision to visit La at the hospital from "my" perspective & I could not fathom why she would want to subject herself to that kind of abuse from the psycho in person?? Why would she want to apologize, when she clearly is not guilty?? I too am like you, I too would have yelled at the person barging into my home with a false claim. But then, I realized that I got it all wrong... I needed to put myself in Khushi's shoes, to understand where Khushi was & is coming from & only then I realized Khushi's POV... Her reasons for wanting to go & visit La, maybe even apologize to La...
Arnav, is being a tad negligent or should I say foolishly optimistic about Khushi's state of mind, b/c unlike Khushi, he is a much stronger person mentally. And he has the luxury of knowing La through & through. So he is hoping Khushi will believe him & trust him when he says La's note should be ignored... But Khushi is not Arnav. She does not have the luxury of first hand knowledge about La, so she does not know how badly twisted La's mind is, how hurtful & spiteful La can get... Poor girl will get decimated by La when she visits her in the hospital I am sure... No wonder she will flee the scene forever... Leaving Arnav shattered, but she will need to go, if only for her own good. She needs to stay clear from this horrible mess. If I were her, I would flee the country & never come back...
As you said, waiting eagerly to see how Jen takes the story forward... One thing is for sure, Jen, has a whole bunch of us scratching our heads, looking for answers for this wonderfully complicated story... 😆
Edited by pixiegirl - 10 years ago
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