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Superb update
finally shalinis chapter is over i guess?
excited for next

nice update. arnav shouldnt have left them, he should have thrown them behind bars. anyways hope this cunning bro-sis's story ends here.

Awesome chapter...thanks for the PM

NK- la scene was good.

Originally posted by: daljeet

Technically speaking Di, I am dissatisfied by this update.

But not entirely. The best moment of today's story was La's accident and the moment the couple shared.

But you know, your story too puts forward the serials' message - a wife should be patient, calm, no matter what kind of a scum she has married she has to wait for him to turn around.

It suits fictions Di, but I have seen some uncles who never change and aunties who sacrifice their whole life and get nothing in return. So I seriously can't accept Madhumati's story nor La's patience here.

Also I was disappointed with Arnav's way of handling Shalini and Shravan. If his children are bad, then Sagar uncle has to see light and take necessary action to make them better. Keeping him in dark is not right. Arnav is expert in keeping his loved ones in dark. I hate that quality of his!

If he had followed the punishment then it would have been better. But instead he let them go scot free. I HATE IT!

And is this going to make Shalini stay in her limits? What if there is a ban she needn't grace her presence to create troubles in this 21st c!

You gave a high build up with Arnav's anger but it seemed so weak at the end of the matter. His anger did nothing, he did nothing instead of heling Shalini pack her bags and offer her a lift to airport. Chai!

Also the video captured was too filmy and sort of unbelieveable. When he came there he came with police and no evidence as he was sure to get such a video from there? That's unbelievable.

I won't say Madhumati's reasons are entirely wrong. I can understand her reasons for marrying Anjali to Raizada family. But her daughter had to know the truth. Anjali is an adult, not a 5 year old. And despite been gone through the same torture she should have ensured that her daughter is mentally ready to face the challenge before her. Keeping her in dark was not the right way in ANY MANNER.

Kushi needed that from her mother though. I liked it. She was too stuck up with her past. It is not easy for her girl, yes, but I think she over did it. And must say that Arnav was very patient there.

Anjali is all of a sudden okay with Arnav? WAAH! Till now filling her sister's ears and now...I hate this Anjali for her bipolar nature.

Now all of a sudden NK thinking about behaving well doesn't sit well with me. But it was a good step too, if I'm honest. This is one way of solving their problem - slow and steady wins the race. But you know, La is putting down her self-respect for THEIR relationship, while NK gets all right to go with his ego and then succumb for good when he pleases. La keeps waiting all that time and when he finally comes back she hugs him back happily. Seriously? Di, should this be the message we give our generation? No matter whoever you marry live and die with him? I'm not saying we should advise divorce or things, but work has to come from both ends. Why should females wait for men to have their way ALWAYS? I'm pissed off.

And now no one knows what is Shalini's real nature is. The family will welcome her happily when she wishes to come again and the same ASR and Kushi can do nothing even then. That was so unfair. Because of her Arnav and Payal suffered a lot and she got scot free to make others' life miserable. Is she gona change with it? Clearly a NO. She has not learnt a lesson. I thought Arnav would teach her a lesson that she'll never forget. But he let me down, disappointed me to such an extent that I lost all the interest that I had for this story.

I feel so let down by you Di, by this story. It was a replication of lessons about relationships as in the serial! Not a new message or a man-woman equalised basis of relationships were not attained!

Shyam is to be forgiven, just like that?????

You think this reflects a serial .. then I guess I am just quiet offended about it..😆


I disagree and agree to this.. Madhumati's case she was forced to live in the scum as she had two kids to foster. Anjali's case - She made sure her daughter is protected.. and tell me something what assurance she would have to get someone good and perfect like Akash to Anjali? I had reasoned that Anjali was going to the level of suicide if Shyam hadnt married her owing to the reason that she blames herself and feels insecured and inferior to others. I would not entirely blame anyone because she had made herself clear to get all the thorns in her daughters life cleared which was assured by daadi and Arnav. Had she got anyone in her life she wouldnt have to suffer too.. She didnt push her daughter into hell.. She was following her husband's life he was being pushed from all sides to get himself out of the scum. I felt an over powering security and protection in a mother who sought to deal it from outside without affecting her daughter's happiness stood high than the idiotic ego which a girl had to portray when her life was shaky enough.

I am portraying Anjali as bipolar, confusing character here because she is waht the character is .. as I said earlier in some other FF you cant expect everyone to be PERFECT in life. If she is wrong thats what her character is. and regarding her giving a chance to Shyam doesn't mean she is running into his arms the next second forgetting all those he had done to her.. You just dont jump into conclusions on that matter.

NK - La-- NK's character is some sort of male chauvinist yet his heart is not a rock to stomp away his wife and love. He was restraining himself from her and he too is not in a good clear mind. So he chose to ignore her while La is sincerely making up for it as her side of love is bit strong and courageous while he is not ready to confront it as he lacks the guts.

Finally My characters are not all perfect and I don't intend to make them so perfect as I show in FYF.. they have flaws as natural as in life and they will improve by time only. and regarding leaving the partner fighting for rights arguing for the dominance, I have seen many couples fighting and separating which is normal in this era. I always have felt sorry for them when they hadnt considered one last chance to sit and talk their flaws and faults try to find a middle ground between them. When you send a court notice blaming each other you will have to feel insulted for the time you spend together in life.. You regret after you have seriously spent some private moments which were privy only to you comes out in public as in means of an interrogation or questioning in the court.. Instead of spending years and years on the court judgement one hour talk would have saved the precious time of your life.



Rest all as u perceive.. Mine is different that's all i can say 😊

Wow... Finally truth behind Anjali's and Khushi s marriage is out... But what about the amount of hurt Khushi gave Arnav...it was not that he cheated on her after marriage... Even then she. Distanced him from her... She insulted his love and his commitment for her just because of past ... So ...will just an apology be enough for it... ? I guess this is the last wake up call for NK to save his marriage... If he is not able to conquer his EGO...what is the point in continuing the marriage...

glad that Anjali and Khushi will give a chance to heir husbands.. loved the way Arnav handled Shalini..

Awesome update.
Arnav is very smart. How cheap that Shalini and Shravan?
Shravan also needs a slap. Why Arnav forgave them so easily. I want them to rot behind the bar. And Raizada family,Guptas and Sinha should know the true color of them.
Waiting for Khusi's confession...
Thanks for the email ...

Shalini and Shravan have been packed off to London...good for them...hope we never see them again...
Shyam's love for his daughter was understood by Anjali and now she wants to give him a second chance...GREAT!!!!!!!!!!!
Arnav and Khushi...would love to see them together...madly in love!!!!!!!!!!!

awesome update