Your complaints and My answers
#1 I didnt give marriage part in Mahaaupdate
Many were upset that I didnt give Marriage part in the mahaaupdate. But the scenes that I included were much needed for the current track to show their hidden feelings for each other. I wouldnt have justified their emotions as lovey dovey after the marriage without that foundation.
And most importantly, my limit of mahaa update is 3 parts which is clearly 20 pages in Google Doc. I couldnt write more in that chapter as I didnt wanna reveal everything at one go. Didnt mean to disappoint you guys. Anyway marriage is done now. Rest is history :)
#2 Khushi is dumb
In my opinion, Everyone is dumb in love. There is rule of survival, if you love some one, you love their bad habits too. If you hate someone you hate their good deeds as well. So I dont think Khushi is really dumb. She is blindfolded in love with NK. Soon she will get over with it and will play huge hand in changing Arnav to Arnie. She is much more smarter than TV Khushi.
#3 NK bashers
Feel free to bash him, because I started hating him too...LOL. But he is overall nice guy. Just got little greedy. But he is no where to be compared with our mighty Raizada.
#4 Arnav is egositic, should be more open about his feelings for Khushi and should confess his love
Arnav does not yet know that he is in love. He is possessive and jealous to see her with other man. It would be too demanding to expect a man to express openly, especially if he spoke or shared nothing personal with nobody in his last 8 years. The time is not yet right to confess his feelings. IF there is anybody who deserved to be egoistic in the entire world, hands down it should be Arnav Singh Raizada. I know I explained this many times but once again for those who dont agree with me. He is selfmade man. He set his own terms and rules. He is proud of every penny he earned. So naturally when a man rises from begging position to leading position, he has every right to be egoistic.
#5 Cannot forgive Garima and Shashi for taking away Khushi's childhood.
Daljeet my friend, this is specially for you. I know you are not convince. But I will try my best to see if I change your opinion (fingers crossed).
So as I mentioned in the initial chapters, for Shashi, Raizadas are more important that his own daughter and wife. Why? Let me explain. GOd forbid, but I want you all to imagine laying down on the road for 5 hours in active labour bearing your child. I dont know how many of you are moms here, but being a mom and having gone through that pain (which is at least 500 times more than menstrual cramps and pain - dont mean to scare you but thats just lifecycle), I can imagine what Garima must have gone through on that day.
It is more painful for the husbands because there is nothing they could do to ease that pain. While wive suffers physically, husbands are torn emotionally and many feel guilt on that particular day for putting their wives in such state. At least mine did and he said absolutely no more kids. Anyway, for Shashi to see his wive in pain under rain water for 5 hours is no joke. He was scared to death in fear of losing his child and wive. Thats when angel came in the name of Aran Singh Raizada. Now how many of you agree that any being is human will be indebted to that man all his life.
When Raizada asked for Khushi's hand, Shashi agreed without even thinking a sec because the raizada family who rescued them inspite of themselves being in the same situation can keep her daughter safe more than Shashi himself. A father couldnt ask for more than just that.
Then came the twist that Khushi's being in Arnav's life is harmful to Raizadas. Though Raizadas didnt believe, Shashi insisted because for him Raizadas are as important as his daughter. Infact more than her. You may call it as superstition but per the horoscope, she is asked to be away for certain period which is 27years of their life. This is only temporary doshas. I didnt wanna elaborate much on this as I didnt wanna sound like an astrologer...LOL But the fact is I have seen many people still following it. Why someone else? I had similar dosha in my horoscope and many backed off from our proposal at the time of my marriage. So its definitely not stupid reason.
Khushi was definitely angry initially but when she heard the reason behind her suvrival, her dad's strong relation with Raizadas and belief in astrology. It made her change her opinion. I also mentioned initially that she is a personality who would go extremes for the loved ones and same level putting the enemies in their right place. So she forgave them spending beautiful 8 years with her family.
Also, we should not underestimate that Shashi and Garima were equally affected with all this. They missed her as much as she missed them. They were helpless thinking about her each day. They just believed certain things in life and acted accrodingly.
I hope I made my POV clear. Feel free to discuss.
Edited by deepthiya - 12 years ago
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