when we say anger the first thought that comes to our mind is the senseless fury...but anger has different facets to it and it takes time to understand its various aspects...
when i first read of arnav's mad rage in the first para and it being described to earthquake and hurricane and tsunami with typhoon on the face value it appeared to be so , but on looking into the anger i feel arnav is totally justified in feeling so
'It's not news to me,' Arnav bit out softly. 'I've known for a while that Di and Aman are a couple. What I don't know is why he married her? And why so suddenly despite knowing her history.'
with this statement it shows the depth and reason for his fury ... it is not like he is against this marriage or something like that but it is more to do with deception and trust( u trust ur sister is visiting family and she comesback married ) does that mean all these years arnav standing by her is a fool ... if she says she wants to marry aman arnav would have gladly accepted that ...then what is the need for secrecy and urgency ... is her brother not wanted...
alright anjali has a bad past and when faced with fury and aggression she buckles ... she knows her brother's temper issues ... but when marrying she was very much in her senses and very much normal ... so didnt she feel like informing her brother who feels joy in her joy and smiles when she smiles and tries to keep her out of pain ... is this the faith she possesses in her brother ... she sees her brother's anger but not his love and pain she inflicted on him
aman is a very responsible man given the charge of taking care of arnav's sister and not bringing home anjali w/o aman...where did the sense of responsibility go????? do they have to run out of the country to marry ... is this what they think of arnav as some monster to be dreaded behind the facade of respect that he shows arnav so also anjali the facade of love and affection she showers on him... well i may be a bit hard in saying this but SHAME ON U PEOPLE 😡
I'm not having you subject her to this when you know full well what it does to her
what i'm asking is why in the first place create such a scenario where u very well know how arnav will react ... is this the ONLY option ?? i really do wonder 😡 aman u seem to very well know what anger and fury does to anjali and u seem to be protecting her from the so called fury of her brother - but why did u put her in such a situation...u r a very intelligent person who does realtime strategy management then u should have expected ASR to behave like this...why r u coming in between the brother and sister 😡
where does ego clash come here ... whatever said and done even after taking into the situational reasons (though i have not yet read aman and anjali's pov) aman and anjali r at fault as arnav was just a phone call away ... they could have just called him and informed him ... they have totally thrown him out of their life 😡
lovely update...pls continue soon 😃
ps contd on pg 78 ...😉
Edited by amus5 - 12 years ago
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