'Parinay' THD1, Next CHP up in THD 2, Link PG 131 - Page 37

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Posted: 12 years ago
How could Arnav thought that he can do two things at a time.. He married Khusi to Keep his sister happy and more over his own dreams alive and in the same he ran to Lav's house hoping to get back to her love.. Arnav is really a two timer here.. He doesn't deserve either Khusi or Lavanya..
Nani , Anjali everyone may have their own reason for pushing Arnav for this mrg but none had any rights to drag Khusi in to this mess. I really hope if Khusi learns this truth which will be a heartbreak for her , still she'll be able to pull herself back and get an identity for herself..

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Posted: 12 years ago
I don't blame Nani for her decision. After seeing her daughter's state, she was right in her place not wanting to see her grandson settle with a girl who knows nothing of their traditions. I blame Nani for not giving a chance for Lavanya to prove herself.

I don't blame Anjali not wanting her 27 year old brother to marry a 30 year old woman. A woman who is not from their nation completely and not even from their religion completely. I blame Anjali for not understanding her brother whom she raised like her own son.

I don't blame Arnav for falling in love. But was it so easy him to forget his sister who was no less than a mother to him and his Naani who actually gave a life to him?? of course he would know that they would never agree for this.

But whom should Khushi blame here?

But how is Payal ignorant of all the drama going on regarding the matter of Lavanya? She said to Khushi that it was never serious between Arnav and Lavanya. Is this proof of the hate part of the sisters' relationship?

I registered the line where it was mentioned that the shattered pieces of his phone represented his relationship with Lavanya. So I guess the story would be about the prominence of a marriage and how Arnav and Khsuhi overcome every obstacle to be together... a husband and wife falling in love after the marriage... forsaking their pasts...

I really want to see how Khushi is going to get to know about this and her reaction...
Do update soon...

Sruthi...


Edited by sruthiif.1710 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
In each of your stories you produce characters that evoke sympathy, that have real fears and hopes that cannot be discounted. I feel for Khushi, but I feel for Arnav too...and poor Lavanya...

Is Arnav a coward? Or did he do the right thing? I love seeing Arnav and Khushi together but I cannot hate Lavanya... It's not her fault that she doesn't fit the bill because of her background...

But then with what Nani has seen I don't blame her for being prejudiced...
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Posted: 12 years ago
You know what I love most about your story - the greyness and complexity of characters ... Payal is a mother hen n loves Khushi a lot but as long as Khushi doesn't overshadow Payal in anything! Arnav is in love but he also has seen harsh times and he chose to take the path that is easier on financial and social status level because he knows what it feels like to be an underdog n without any identity... What he did -choosing wealth or more practical approach - is done by young people under pressure all the time cuz life is not bed of roses n he gets that... Nd poor Lavanya, I feel bad for her too ... It's so easy to label her immoral on the basis of her profession like Devyani but like Arnav said her profession or her choice of outfits shouldn't be used as a yardstick when it comes to judge her as a person... Heck it is as outrageous as saying all girls clad in traditional clothes are 'sanskari' ... We all know how incorrect that is!!! So that's the beauty of your SS... N my biggest worry is how are you going to keep it a SS because this story the way you are approaching needs a lot of chapters to get to blissfully married Arhi!! But you will find a way, I m sure!! Great job!!
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Posted: 12 years ago

I felt a bit sorry for Arnav at the end... wait, I said a bit. Arnav loves Lavanya and he probably didn't realize the consequences of his actions. I feel that was his biggest mistake- he should have fought for his love. Yes, he was wrong to let things go so easily. At the end of the day, he did chose his family and his career over Lavanya and that's all to that. Lavanya deserves a man who would stand up for her and fight for her. No one is perfect in the story- a very realistic approach and relatable.

Nani and Anjali- I am disappointed! What difference is there between Khushi's family and Arnav's? They have both emotionally blackmailed them into the life that they didn't want. Their perception of 'the perfect bahu' deluded their minds to not see the happiness of the person who means a lot to them. It was selfish of them to expect him to forget his love and selfish of them to bring an innocent girl in his life when they knew that he wanted to marry someone else. Judging a girl on her clothes and her religion and age- really?! I would have thought that Anjali would have supported Arnav in his decision but she emotionally blackmailed him to a path of destruction- thinking she is right to make a decision for him. A very bad decision that impacted and destroyed 3 lives.
Eeep looking forward to the next chapter- you have me curious!
Edited by ElenaElenor - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
this is such a complicated yet a realistic situation...brilliant...😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
Its all messed up...none of the raizadas were wrong but yet everything happened was wrong.

They were all right in their place and decisions.

All i feel is sad for Kushi, why was she dragged to this mess...poor girl...yes this is what happens in most of our traditional arranged marriages in india. The girl s dragged in to messy life of their son and all eyes on her as if its her job to make things right 😡

Waiting to see how things unfold in raizada- D'Souza life.
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Posted: 12 years ago

fantastic update NB -

the power of words has made me exactly know what arnav is going through - this guys is so so so so in luv with La - Is La a cheat????
will wait to know more
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Posted: 12 years ago
People have't been fair to Arnav and nor have the circumstances been!

His life is such controlled by evryone around him!

I pity him, really! Forced into marriage by warnings n threats of his nani..!

He was made to choose! Choose btw his dream and his love..?

His di, who's done evrythng for his happiness, gone through all the pain just to protect her chotte, wasn't by his side when he was in love! She might have supported him, if she knew!

Manorama only added fuel to the fire! Firtly lavanya being half christian, then older than Arnav, top it all she is a model!

Nothing about her goes wid the traditional bahu image, any good and steretype Indian family wud wish for!

3 lives now at stake, lavnaya, Arnav and khushi..! Arnav is in anguish n pain, which is justified..!
Khushi doesn't even know wats she facing!

For Arnav it was either he himself, his identity, his family, his Di or his Love..! He chose the former.. :|
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Posted: 12 years ago
Ok you will get half cup of my specially filter kaapi and you know why half cup because you gave half chapter 😆

I know i should feel sorry for Arnav but dont, actually today iam more angry.
I understand that his sister and nani blackmailed him but it doesn't give him the rights play with to peoples life, one who he claims to love more then anything and other one just poor soul which he doesn't give a damm shit about. In the end the choice was in his hands and he choose the one which was best for him and didn't think about Lavaniya or the girl his he is going to marry and destroy. For him his status in the society with the power with and money matters and that he could only get with the Raizada name. Even now he doesn't think about Khushi, not even for second how he have messed up with her life. How she will reacts or feel when she comes to about him and Lavaniya. He is one selfish stupid man who doesn't deserves any of this girls!

I can never forgive Anjali or Nani for doing this to Arnav or khushi! Anjali claims that she love her brother more then anything and she is like a mother to him still she forgot to think about his happiness. I understand that with their past they had a hard time with everthing but she should have trusted her brother and should have respected his choice. In then end his the one who is going live with that woman he choose and if he fail in his relationship then at least he wont come blame them, right! And nani know how to play her card very well. For nani the society was more important but that didn't give them right to play with peoples emotions and life! They didn't think twice before asking khushi to marry Arnav. They didn't think how Arnav will behave with her or live with her when he is in love with someone else and was ready to give up almost everthing for her! Again selfish people.

I didn't find anything wrong with Lavaniya as this far. So what if she is just half Hindu or if she is a model or if she is elder then Arnav. What matter is how she is as person and the love she have for Arnav. she deserves better.

Poor khushi! What will happen to her? How will she react when she come to know about this? What will this do to her life? Everyone played with her life. Poor soul, she doesn't even have a shoulder to cry on! How could they do this to her? How could Arnav be so selfish and even now he is only thinking about Lavaniya and bout his love life which he gave up for money. Khushi and her life even doesn't cross his mind! You know I should kill him

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