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@Mini Neilu...arti...
I am loving this whole Discussion about MKKDH Kesar😳Diff viewpoints LOVE IT!! but let me come to it as a writer ,when I look back ..I found only this as a flaw in my writing
1. The huge 7 yr leap was sudden,it should have been more justified
2.Kesar's character was written to be projected as a coward one.he was insecure and his irrational flawed behaviour made him MKKDH wala Kesu😛.
If we compare Kesar to the show mere Kesar se jyada paapi to koi honge nahi .Original show was more subdued .
There is a strange view of love in this world.There are may ways we can explain that...
If we go back to the process of evolution ,continuity of the race and procreation was the only BASE OF LOVE...Love evolves from hormonal activity as a biologist yes it does coz every emotion is triggered by chemical responses .Human beings are complex biological entities evolved from chemicals so yes Love as an emotion does finds its origin in the biological body only ...
What is true love exactly is difficult to fathom ,it is the warmth of the bosom of a mother,it is a tear drop travelling from the eyes of a child when being suckled,it is in the heart of a father,in the caress of another human being,in the touch of a pet...Love is an unknown feeling and can be explored,interpreted in zillion different ways ..So there can absolutely no parameters that can be drawn to understand what love and bonding is..If you wanna see Stranger things just check Desmond MOrris battle of sexes and Taboo on Discovery and NGC respectively.Love is strange stranger are the ways to express it...
Coming to your point Mini Ishq par zor nahi was specifically meant to explore the basic human instinct , to express physical love,and it is very natural, there are many relationships which have this high sexual innuendo in them ..Emotional bonds develop at a much later stage ...Even like neilu said if we go back to the show..though subtle but Kesar's physical feelings though understated but were thrown in quite maturely...The list is endless---
1.TU toh humesha se sundar
2Terrace scene
3.Chupke chupke niharna
everything was physical though underplayed ,I agree Rawat was more vocal about it and yes the emotional connect wasn't a part of the characters.Their love was physical and it is beautiful too...
Intense physical desires are a part of love and can never be denied.It is the first step in the laws of attraction...and yes Men do express it more freely
Coming to the teacher student theory,I remember all the discussions with Ganga and arti and I respect viewpoints but IMO which is completely personal ,love transcends everything ,age,sex ,gender .When in love they are two human beings devoid of any tags and Teacher student relationships are not uncommon ,and I respect those equally ..as a matter of fact MY OWN SIS KUHU got MARRIED to her lecturer (LOL She even made him do his assignments) who is almost a decade older than her. My Best frnd is married to a younger guy whom she used to give tutions.There are stigmas in society ,but they surpassed them ,they were individuals then ...
If we even look at gurur brahma vishnu ...then even a lover is compared to as God ,a beloved is also a reflection of God --- tujhmein rab dikhta hai ...
So I guess it's just a matter of opinions and beliefs.And yes there is no controversy..this is apna forum and apna thread let's speak freely ..and we respect each other's opinions😳
ok BTW Guys looks like everyone has forgotten one Gulaal -the bar dancer from Love is not for sale...She is my personal favourate , BOLD ,NEVER GIVING UP ATTITUDE ,A GIRL WHO WANTS TO LIVE LIFE...She is my favourate Gulaal up-to date😳😳
Thank you so much for the wonderful discussions...Makes me feel so elated to read them..Keep them coming😳😳🤗
I am loving this whole Discussion about MKKDH Kesar😳Diff viewpoints LOVE IT!! but let me come to it as a writer ,when I look back ..I found only this as a flaw in my writing
1. The huge 7 yr leap was sudden,it should have been more justified
2.Kesar's character was written to be projected as a coward one.he was insecure and his irrational flawed behaviour made him MKKDH wala Kesu😛.
If we compare Kesar to the show mere Kesar se jyada paapi to koi honge nahi .Original show was more subdued .
There is a strange view of love in this world.There are may ways we can explain that...
If we go back to the process of evolution ,continuity of the race and procreation was the only BASE OF LOVE...Love evolves from hormonal activity as a biologist yes it does coz every emotion is triggered by chemical responses .Human beings are complex biological entities evolved from chemicals so yes Love as an emotion does finds its origin in the biological body only ...
What is true love exactly is difficult to fathom ,it is the warmth of the bosom of a mother,it is a tear drop travelling from the eyes of a child when being suckled,it is in the heart of a father,in the caress of another human being,in the touch of a pet...Love is an unknown feeling and can be explored,interpreted in zillion different ways ..So there can absolutely no parameters that can be drawn to understand what love and bonding is..If you wanna see Stranger things just check Desmond MOrris battle of sexes and Taboo on Discovery and NGC respectively.Love is strange stranger are the ways to express it...
Coming to your point Mini Ishq par zor nahi was specifically meant to explore the basic human instinct , to express physical love,and it is very natural, there are many relationships which have this high sexual innuendo in them ..Emotional bonds develop at a much later stage ...Even like neilu said if we go back to the show..though subtle but Kesar's physical feelings though understated but were thrown in quite maturely...The list is endless---
1.TU toh humesha se sundar
2Terrace scene
3.Chupke chupke niharna
everything was physical though underplayed ,I agree Rawat was more vocal about it and yes the emotional connect wasn't a part of the characters.Their love was physical and it is beautiful too...
Intense physical desires are a part of love and can never be denied.It is the first step in the laws of attraction...and yes Men do express it more freely
Coming to the teacher student theory,I remember all the discussions with Ganga and arti and I respect viewpoints but IMO which is completely personal ,love transcends everything ,age,sex ,gender .When in love they are two human beings devoid of any tags and Teacher student relationships are not uncommon ,and I respect those equally ..as a matter of fact MY OWN SIS KUHU got MARRIED to her lecturer (LOL She even made him do his assignments) who is almost a decade older than her. My Best frnd is married to a younger guy whom she used to give tutions.There are stigmas in society ,but they surpassed them ,they were individuals then ...
If we even look at gurur brahma vishnu ...then even a lover is compared to as God ,a beloved is also a reflection of God --- tujhmein rab dikhta hai ...
So I guess it's just a matter of opinions and beliefs.And yes there is no controversy..this is apna forum and apna thread let's speak freely ..and we respect each other's opinions😳
ok BTW Guys looks like everyone has forgotten one Gulaal -the bar dancer from Love is not for sale...She is my personal favourate , BOLD ,NEVER GIVING UP ATTITUDE ,A GIRL WHO WANTS TO LIVE LIFE...She is my favourate Gulaal up-to date😳😳
Thank you so much for the wonderful discussions...Makes me feel so elated to read them..Keep them coming😳😳🤗
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