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Posted: 13 years ago
#61
I don't know if the people who engage in any form of raging actually realise what they are doing? Why would you want to take this so far, when it actually crosses the point when your words, actions and 'holier-than-thou' attitude actually shatters the soul out of the victim?Being a prey for the person to exercise his/her domineering nature on you- which is just downright pathetic!

And i know how it feels to be in that place!
Thankfully, i was a bit too small to understand such things, and also my mother being there for me! :)
But perhaps, that's the sole reason of me being an introvert, of me being hesitant to new places, people..

And yes, about the story- it was amazing that way you managed to convey such a strong message!
Beautifully written! xD
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Posted: 13 years ago
#62
Oh this was too touchy n 100 % true i dont know y do people abuse others totally agree with u wht u said earlier they were painful touchy but true y do parents let their work ascend their children? I cant express my feelings in words just cant
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Posted: 13 years ago
#63
that actually brought tears into my eyes..i don't know what happen to 14 year old guy bcz i don't live in idia..but your story is reflecting what must have happened to him.it is digusting yar how can you bulled some one that person has to die why ???doesnt they feel bad..making fun of some one ragging bullying this must or should be stopped yar.a young boy which may be coud have done miracle died in so tendered age and about parents...the waelth the name ,the fame has deprived the children from their parents love..why can;t parents understand this simple thing more than money their kids need attention,some one to solve their problem when they can't,some one two comfort them with their words,Some one to say them yes we are here for you,some to hold them tight when they are frighten asap parents can never understand this small fact...and when this type of incident happed they repenyt but then thier repentence didnt valued any more...and now if we look up we will found many casses like this...



the bullying always has a horible impact on the person ,this is not joke every one has it self respect but why don't these buller thought that what would do one's heart...


I am really touched with your this piece of work ,really it reflect two main problem in a child now a days one parents negligance and other this bullying..may allah bless us...this is what i could say...!
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Posted: 13 years ago
#64

OMG!
Damm touching yar . ..
its a different thing what i read,but it was a quite mature fiction to read. . .
have never read such hard stuff,but i felt good reading it. . .
well drafted dear!
😊
and i dint know bout the boy you mentioned in the note above your update,but i do know now. . .
i agree with you on your views,if we can't act positively,we should definitely avoid behaving negatively,that all from me. . .
thanks for the pm . .
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Posted: 13 years ago
#65
thanx kalayani 4 da pm
it has touched ma heart...poor soul!!!
thanx 4 raising ur voice against bullying
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Posted: 13 years ago
#66
OH!!dt was intense..hard 2 take..emotional.. n i still dunnoe wt ppl get out of it..?lovely post...grt wrk..:)
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Posted: 13 years ago
#67
Very beautiful!
i also knew that boy,indirectly..he was from my school
i was devastated when i got to know what actually happened
its sad to see bullying go to this level 😭
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Posted: 13 years ago
#68
Sona,
I have so much to say...and so little idea how to exactly say it. This was soul-clawing, with every scrape digging off a new piece of our souls.

What you've portrayed is something that's a very common occurrence nowadays. I'm ashamed to admit that I've hardened over the years...
I can't say if it was a reflex or it came with the 'growing up' that we do. But I did, that is, come to watch things like this with an eerie detachment.

I was wrong.

We may try to fool yourselves, that we are done being affected by things like this but the stark truth is- We DO care a damn!

Every side to a story has a flaw!

People who trample over others, humiliate them, throw around their weight just to fan their ego and entertain themselves are the sickest kind there ever is.

Drinking and driving, ganging up against a single person, physically beating up someone to prove your strength...
None of this makes a person anymore MACHO n COOL than making a dog who stands next to a car, the chauffeur.
They should stop effin' deluding themselves.

People who take the oppression, bear it silence, refuse asking help from elders cause that makes them pansies who are unable to handle their own problems...are WRONG too!

Asking for help doesn't make you weak! It shows that you're sensible enough to realize that the problem can't be tackled at your level.
Parents ain't listening? Approach your teachers, other elders...
Infact, tell your friends!!! Friends are pretty handy when it comes to sharing problems and sucking out all the GRAY in ur life.

There is always an option! Always!

Reminds me of the quote, "There's no problem that we -God and Me, can't handle together."

Life is precious. Throwing it away for people who've got shit(NO)balls is agreeing that they've got more power over your life than you do. Which they abso-f**king-lutely DON'T!

I know am going tangent ...But if u've got friends, relatives contemplating suicide to evade their problems; Go hug them, make them feel loved, listen to their woes and deal with their problems if they ain't able to deal it on their own.

Sona, beautifully written! It's always a delight reading your work. I'm one of your greatest fans, laziest maybe, but greatest still! 😉
Thanks for this. It just showed me that somewhere deep inside I'm not as immune as I'd like to be. 🤗

PS- Randomly, Have you considered writing for Chicken Soup for the soul series?? You should! 😃

PPS- I wanna add that sometimes there are people who think 'Attempt to suicide' is the next "IN" thing. Teenagers...who try slitting their wrists cause they break up with their boyfriends, who purposely drink bottles of chemicals knowing that the other party'll feel guilty...
Its NOT DONE!
Succumbing to ACTUAL PRESSURE and taking ur life is one thing; Making a mockery of life by fooling around is another.
SO GROW SOME BRAINS and stop being so bird-brained! You may not actually care that such stunts can cause you harm, but your family does. 😡

Edited by Lhethal.Me - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
#69
Beautifully written OS. And yes, I completely agree with your sentiments here- the ones that drove you to write this Amazing piece of work. There is a difference between being sensitive and NOT being Insensitive.

I applaud you for this initiative you have taken Hon. And I want to encourage all you ladies out there to not tolerate bullying- in your as well as anyone else's life.

Beautifully Done, Hon. 😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
#70
PERFECT.!
sorry can't manage to say anything else as m numb ryt now.!
loved it.

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