He says, She says : Musings

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Certainly you have the right to all of your opinions. That's what public forums are for. I am not belittling any of them. I just have one question: How do you justify a husband scolding his wife? Like she's an errant child. Like she is a brainless little fool? Where is the equality in that? - THAT my friends was the question I had needed to ask regarding the posts K deserved scolding or, ALL K's fault. I don't defend. It's a show with fictional characters that don't defending from the likes of you and me 😆 But I do ask because it worries me. As a woman. As a person interested in equality and healthy relationships. Scolding, as opposed to say, discussing or fighting (which, it seems to me to be way more acceptable than the former).

Secondly, we come down to the errr... Brick Batting (seems like a fair term as any) of the maligned Mr. Raizada. A character. An anti-hero. Again, I would like to point out that I'm not defending nor, attacking him. I simply wish to understand the animosity. It's probably a part of his character sketch to be who he is. Volatile, angry and someone who might be a mighty fine businessman (although I've yet to see him go to work recently 😛) but tends to make a hash out of his private life. A man responsible for his much older, neurotic sister (no, I am not bashing. Any person who attempts to kill themselves in a hospital is probably medically classified as such. Kudos to Daljeet Bhanot for enacting that scene so well) will be more than a little messed up. If I may borrow a phrase from the sexy Mr. Grey from a certain story, "Fifty shades of F*cked up" and poor Mr. Raizada knows and acknowledges it.


So why not just enjoy the show and watch things fall into place as it does instead of all the open hate mails to the characters that don't exist - Not really? Just a thought. Leave review if you want to. Flame torch it. Either way, it's your game.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I couldn't agree more, we don't like our lives being scrutinized at the same time we are all ready to judge others. It is fair to have an opinion and voice it too, however it is unfair to expect that to considered as the law and expect others to abide by it.

Truth be told, I am not sure I like the extreme reactions to certain episodes on the forum, chill people it is after all a serial, sure we like it and alot, that does not mean you go off the handle with those reactions. IF things were to go your way it would be you writing the story and not the creative team at 4 Lions.

Watch, enjoy and react, just don't lay rules for it to happen your way, it won't and you will be left feeling sorry. No one compels you to watch, it is an option after all.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Agree with you completely.

Why are people becoming so critical about fictional characters?

I am not saying it is wrong to discuss, or analyze things but why are there such extreme reactions?

Instead of bashing characters and over analyzing things, it's better to calm down and watch what happens next. I agree, that IPKKND is an amazing show, and we like it alot
but we have to remember, that this is a fictional show and it's prime motive is to entertain people.



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Posted: 13 years ago
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Agree with you that we shouldn't over analyses or open hate emails about any character which is there in fiction to the extreme.
But having said this i also think that many of us see those characters in our self. Many of us wanted to have a guy like Arnav in their own life or be like Khusi themselves. So i guess it hurts to some extent when Arnav lashes out on Khusi for no fault of her or Khusi suffers more n more in each passing day. It felt personal.
We always go to extreme to praise when Arnav does something really good with Khusi like he trusted her completely or slapped Shyam for his Di as well as Khusi.
I believe somewhere behind our head we don't want to see Arnav or Khusi doing anything negative/wrong ever. so it's natural for us to vent out the anger /frustration when we see that..

Hate n Love are two emotions which people show in a larger scale. So i don't think it's very unfair if we criticize anyone who we think is doing wrong.

P.S.- Just my thought. I hate bashing or hate emails or anything like that.

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