Originally posted by: nareshSV
How could you say that it is khushi's fault too...for god sake she has tried numerous times to explain the situation to him...and the marraige night itself...
I regret reading this FF...for GOD sake he left her with that monster to get raped by him...and you are saying she forgave him in snap of fingers...bullsh** man...how could you even think of writing that...
I truly disagree with u...atleast u would have given her some time to redeem herself instead of going with him,.,.,..
and what are u saying he didnt know that she forgave him...woah...what an irony...u say that he can it in her eyes...where does that knowledge gone when he misunderstood her...and now cant he see that she forgave him...these are all excuses...
And the past of him is the big excuse he use to make suffer people around him...khushi also got the same past even most horrible she has lost her parents both...then why is khushi that way and why is aranv that way...the way you see the world is everything...
wow...firstly soo sorry to make u so upset.
secondly i didn't say it was khushi's fault, i said she see's it that way, bcz if you see the show n her explanation then u will see that she realises that she created the misunderstanding in the first place by not telling him that very day when she found out the truth or, on the marriage day...also she realises that he was protecting anjali in his own way the way she was...so if she made the same decision to hide the truth then how can she blame him, that would be hypocrisy...
having said all this she, n i explained that he was wrong to do what he did to her, she is not letting him off the hook, only understanding his plight, that is why she can forgive, because she understands his reasoning, but she doesn't completely forgive for she doesn't voice it...
n coming to him reading her eyes, well one he does not, because he cannot hold her gaze...it has too much pain in it n so he doesn't n two she forgives him afterwards when he has left the room n she see's him outside the window...there the whole night...also it is her who reads him better then he...for she says he still doesn't understand her, he see's the pain but doesn't trully understand why its there he thinks that it means she doesn't want him, while the pain is actually her being upset n angry at his pain for it is this pain she had tried to save him from everytime she tried to tell him the truth, but he didn't let her so it is frustration, but he reads it wrong...while she reads him n his tears right, that he has left bcz he thinks she hates him or cannot forgive him, when she wants him inside the room next to her so that he can earn his forgiveness...
n about her going with him i never said anything about that...i just said that she forgives him for she see's he truly regrets...i haven't said anything about her leaving with him from the hospital...
also why i made her forgive him, other then it being an intricate part of her personality to forgive, forget n move on. was because she see's that he came to the realisation himself of her innocence, very late yes, but it finally dawned on him, it wasn't bcz he heard the truth from shyam's lips that way anajli did, he came to the conclusion finally himself after he re-visted each encounter with her...
and about the rape thing well actually at this point arnav does not know that he tried to rape her bcz he hasn't heard the whole convo from anjali...but that is beside the point he left her vulnerable for shyam n yes that was wrong, but when he left he didn't think khushi was home, n so that is why he left, if u recall he left looking for her, he thought she had gone, yes he shoudl have checked the whole house which he didn't but when one is in that state of panic one tends not to think coherently, n so neither did arnav...he assumed n he left, n that is his biggest problem he always assumes...
n about the his n her past, well yes they both have a horryfying past, but i dnt agree with you about her having the more horryifying one...her parents didn't commit suicide they died in a car crash...suicide is horrendous...it suggests for it is done on one's own will, that is arnav's parents chose to leave him, not thinking once that by killing themselves they may end their misery but will leave their children in a lifetime of hell...suicide is cruelly selfish...where as an accident is tragic...arnav had to grow up knowing that his parents cared more about themselves then him, he grew up knowing that one has to put onself over others, bcz that is the example that was left by his parents of selfishness...he grew up seeing everyone he loved or cared about become selfish n leave him for their own happiness...n so he turns that way...while khushi although hers was the more tender age atleast knew that her parents loved her, that they did not take their own life, it was an accident, n also she was surrounded by ppl who took her in and showered her with love, she grew up being loved n so that is why she gives love to everyone...where as arnav aching for love but not really getting it, as one he himself created a space btwn him n everyone n two, bcz while nani, mami, mama love him they don't shower love on him, they never tried to heal his heart, while shashi garima payal did heal khushi's more or less, anjali did try but she is a basket case herself n the way we see arnav protective over her n hiding his emotions from her suggests that right after the suicide instead of anajli taking care of him he had to take care of her, that she probably did go into denial or worse, hence he is possessive over her n never burdens her with his emoitons, that is he had to lock his emotions up n be storng for anjali n everyone else n so along the way he became cruel n harsh n unrelenting not believing or trusting anyone but himself...
nyway this all beside the point for this is my point of view n this is how i read arnav khushi, n the others...n so that is why i wrote them n my story the way i did...
u clearly disagree and that is your opinion n i respect it, u have every right to see things differently n not agree with me, i never asked anyone to agree with me i wrote that on the first page i wrote after the 2nd chapter n i wrote that after the 14 chapter that i completely understand u guys not reading khushi the way i do, after all we are all human n we all have different opinions n so i would never force u to agree, i wrote those paragraphs below to give my side, explaining why i felt it right for khushi to forgive, it was never meant to be an excuse im sorry if to you it felt that way...it was basically my opinion n explanation to try n make u al understand where i was coming from...not tell u guys to agree...i a said in clear words disagree for you have every right too, as while the khushi here in this ss is my character, she is not my character n just the way my sister see's her differently so does everyone else, where some ppl have similar opinions to mine n so can see khushi forgiving him while others don't n so disagree n they have every right too...she isn't my creation...she is basically what u male her to be...n u feel that she should forgive him that is justified n u have valid reasoning too...
i felt that she would forgive him bcz i felt that went her character...but nyway no point in beating about the bush we both disagree in this matter so that is that...its all good
the only thing i feel bad about is that you felt this ss was a waste of your time, im sorry that u feel that way i wanted to entertain u all but then no one can make everyone happy...so yeah...thank you for sticking with n bearing my ss for this long, i totaly understand u not wanting to carry on reading n so u can stop if you want to no hard feeling on my part..it was nice hearing your thoughts n criticisms i will definately keep them in mind if i write another story.😊
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