Did Geet have a choice in accepting Maan?
If u look at the FF from the beginning, Maan has the aura of POWER and AUTHORITY over Geet.
In front of Maan Geet lost an aspect of her self...since childhood.
She was unable to speak up to the Maan she so loved to the core of her heart.
She felt that if she would say something..it would hurt and anger him the most and that is why she became MEEK, QUIET and SUBMISSIVE.
She lived with being all of the above for so many years...many many years...that she herself did not realize when her behaviour changes just in front of her Maan...when the marriage proposal came...she was frozen and next thing she knew...she was married to him.
Even when she married him...she fulfilled all her duties and obligations ...not only as per south asian norms but also as a wife who loves her husband.
And what happened? We all know what happened! No need to indulge in that...
Geet is highly unethical - who makes the ethics? Who defines ethics? Not picturing a WIFE being so rude to her husband. Are those not just SOUTH ASIAN norms along with norms in other Asian societies? Why does a wife have go given-in in front of her husband...only because society says?
What is right and wrong? It is merely a vision from your own eye.
She has the option of walking away yes, but u have to remember that she still loves him. Deep within her heart and she is contemplating between believing him and letting her heart believe that he has changed. If she is in the midst of this contemplation where does divorce come in the picture?
She has not given up on him and her..ever...right now she is just in the process ...and it has been ONLY a few months..
It is not revenge at all. It takes time a lot of time for a person to spring back to their original being. Trust was lost here and trusting someone again is not a day, month or year process.
Life just happens. And when life happens u cannot say oh this is what the ethics say..so i have to walk this way...it is hard...
Look at her from just a human being perspective. ...she endured so much in front of her first crush, first love and her husband...
and now that he has changed 360 degree in a matter of 3 months...she is shocked...flabbergasted.
Her heart and mind just cannot seem to accept what is in front of her.
Imagine apprx. 18-20 years of knowing Maan's anger verses 3 months of Maan being a complete romantic, the most loveable guy on this planet.
what would u believe? Can u believe it.
A simple human response is NO.
sorry to say u do not feel for her..but i do...and i totally stand by her.
Love n hugs🤗