Originally posted by: Ankita.M
Honestly I have always felt that Riddhima is really immature, Armaan is a calm positive and genuine guy in the story. And even after giving so much to the relation, he doesn't get any trust from her behalf. She said really harsh words to him, saying all that happened was mutual, and just said a sorry in return. Any relation needs trust, and I feel before the ff ends, you should show her mature over time, giving more to the relation then she is.
But I've loved how you always take the story ahead, and its got a nice flow .
Hey ankita😃
sorry yaar but i really wanted to say something here...u know me na, a pro riddhima supporter from day one😉
I totally agree with ur view on ridz being immature...but then again she has been through a lot & is younger to armaan as well...in this ff we have seen many moments were armaan is immature as well, for me i feel that he does get trust from ridz...im sure u must of read the part before this, where ridz trusted armaan blindly & did not doubt him 1 bit on whatever sanjana said...so i feel she also contributes more to the relationship as well at times & at other times armaan contributes more:) i feel thats its not that armaan does not get any trust in return from ridz, she does & she has shown it as well, yeh she is immature but she tries her best to keep armaan happy always, but the situations that come in front of her are not easy either😛
Also abt the harsh words & ridz only saying sorry...then when we think of it...armaan also said to ridz that he loves sanjana more then her, she must of felt same pain armaan felt when she said it was matual...even she said it in anger...i guess any wife would react this way, no matter what the circumstances were & in this ff surely...armaan & ridz both said harsh words in anger, so i feel its unfair to only blame ridz in that matter😉
i understand armaan is marute, positive & geniune guy...its just that i also feel same for ridz as well...coz surely their beautiful moment together was coz of them both & now this seperation was coz of both fault,armaan felt gulity for his actions & even ridz question herself thinking abt how their relationship has turned out,she never wanted a fight either,but events just came up...both are not at wrong,but they feel gulity...im sure even armaan would have reacted same way, if he saw ridz with another guy in same situation,it would have taken him time, just the way ridz needs it, especially when she from some time back is taking crap from sanjana...when ridz did little drama with akash...armaan got possessive, so in my eyes ridz this behavior is justified, if armaan can feel it & then surely ridz has been through a lot more in life compared to armaan & that's why she is insecure...the harsh words were said by them both in anger & spur of moment & more like u taunted me,so in anger he said such stuff & then ridz said such stuff in return so they both need to be sorry for their actions & show each other the trust & love they have for each other,armaan needs to show her that he is here for her always & so does ridz,they both need each other support,despite fact they both know this very well,but need to express it,at many times they have done it & need to do again this time...now look when AR become in each other arm, they felt the happiest. this is enough to prove that both equally make the relationship beautiful, despite the ups & down in their relationship😃
Sorry yaar for such a long post...but this was just my POV on both armaan & ridz...i know many of us always blame ridz...but i am equal fan of armaan & ridz...& its heard for me to only support one of them, coz for me AR is one only...so i try to look at both ends always...i badly wanted ridz to hear armaan when he was confronting sanjana & expressing his luv for ridz...& i also wanted armaan to know ridz feelings on how she wanted to spend time with him & feels insecure at times, coz of past events,but in saying that it can not be denied that ridz was wrong to some point,she should have trusted his love this time as well & give him a chance & should of said her real feeling out to him as well:)
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Maha hats off to you yaar for writing such an awesome ff...totally great...im glad u r not ending & im really looking forward to coming parts...do read my comment on previous page🤗
Take care you both & sorry if i said anything wrong,its only my POV🤗
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