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Answer to yr q:what is love?
Love is or should be unconditional.
Love is giving and selfless.
Love is therefore unselfish.
Love is not arrogant, or does not insist in its own way,
It is a celebration of what is right.
True love never ends.
There are those out there who have not been lucky enough to find it...some never will. (Not all, but some)
In addition, what one would call true love...love in its best, purest, truest sense is even rarer and harder to find.
Not that no one ever does;
Many probably do.
It is still the hardest thing that mankind strives to obtain.
The dream of finding and marrying for true love exists and
Concludes by everything falling into place.
Unconditional love....But not everybody is ready to love unconditionally. Some people want to hang on to their judgments, their blame, their anger, and their resentment. Some people want to continue feeling like a victim to their lives and to others instead of taking responsibility for their lives. Some people don't feel happy unless they are complaining about others and/or about the events and circumstances of their lives. And it's generally easier to blame someone or something else.
I know of quite a few people who are despondent and even sarcastic about love – its depth, power, and durability. Others perceive it as a one-sided coin – intense and joyful in good times, but feel "possessed" or "trapped" when the pendulum swings to hard times. I think that it is up to the individual – to make it long-lasting and strong and constant, or to be like a fair-weather friend of our beloved.
But, as I have found out………..If we don't change our perspectives on things, nothing in our lives changes either.
On the other hand…………When we change our perspectives then we learn how to love unconditionally--everything around us changes, as if by magic!
Seeing one side of things (duality) is wounding, seeing all sides of things (unity) is healing! In short when we HEAL, we see things from the eyes of LOVE (GOD). Such is the ultimate gift in the WOUND. Surely, this is a journey worth pursuing. I think that the story of life is the journey of loving, wounding & healing!! 😊
Love is still the hardest thing that mankind strives to obtain. Very true statement! But you know what, People complain that they keep ending up with the same kind of bad partner, that they are unlucky in love. In reality, luck has nothing to do with it: They are subconsciously finding people to play out their love stories, or foisting their stories on the people they meet. Most important to a healthy, happy relationship is that both partners have compatible stories--that is, compatible expectations.😊
Two people may have similar outlooks, but if one longs to be rescued like Julia Roberts in Pretty Woman and the other wants a partnership like the lawyers on the television show The Practice, the relationship may not go very far. In contrast, two people with a war story like the bickering spouses in Who's Afraid of Virginia Wolf may seem wildly incompatible to their friends, but their shared need for combat may be what keeps their love alive. There goes Qazi & Rupu love story! 😉 😛 😆
Omg, enuff abt love, 😉 😆
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