Friends, don't get shocked by my title. But ever since I have seen the SBB segment this question is looming large in my mind. Irrespective of any TV shows I have always tried to find out why a mother, particularly the mother of a boy change so much when they become mother-in-law. I had noticed some changes in my mother only. Being a man I can never understand the feelings of a mother, so if there is any member in this forum who is a mother, I shall be grateful to her if she helps me out.
Once I called Bansuri a "Nagin". We all know how rude and evil she is. There will be hardly anybody who like her. She always wanted to be treated like a queen with every one in the village giving her the utmost importance. Being the wife of the Sarpanch, she might have enjoyed it a bit. Another thing she always wanted is her children to be treated like the prince and princess, with every body praising them 24x7, which never happened thanks to Balwant and his endless worshipping of the SS family. The primary reason why Bansuri hates Veera is that she feel because of Veera, her children never got the praise they deserved and also she has always foiled her evil plans and she has never been able to dominate her. Despite all these, all she wants is Veera to stay away from his son and out of his life, she has always tried to make life measurable for Veera, but never did anything to prove her characterless, at least she has this much of humanity left in her.
Manjeet. I don't know what compelled God to give such an evil soul the shape of a woman. I mean she has no direct relationship with Veera, she is a guest who will return to her place some time later, what is her problem. You don't like your daughter-in-law because she is not as traditional as you and you want her to be out of the family and you are trying to prove her characterless in front of the entire village! OK people will think she is a bad girl, you might succeed in throwing her out of the family, but will this scar be ever removed from the face of your family? People will always say that family had a bahu who was thrown out because she was characterless. They said she has a son. How can a mother do this sort of things. This kind of women are actually a black spot in the name of womanhood and motherhood. They are a curse to their respective families and the entire society. Only way to deal with them is to throw them out of the society, give them exile, when no one will talk to them, no body in the village will sell groceries or vegetables or clothes to them. For every single necessities of life they will have to travel 4 or 5 kilo meters, when they will realize what they have done.
Sorry for this long post fiends, but just couldn't control myself.
Edited by feck - 10 years ago