why o why? - Page 4

Originally posted by: Trixie_

haan kab?

sahil s comin to PP?😕

yup wid his cowboy papaji 😳

Originally posted by: Trixie_

this topic s gettin very serious nw 😳

i want devil AT

yes..we want devil n sajan AT 😳

Originally posted by: rogerrocks

My point is not about how Veera treats Baldev..You may feel Veera takes Baldev for granted, doesn't give him the respect he deserves etc..Which is fine by me..Its a different issue altogether..My problem is with the outrage expressed merely because Veera held Sahil's hand..So what? Will ppl react the same way if Baldev was in Veera's place? Baldev ogles at girls, flirts with them, clicks selfies- he is being a normal guy who likes to have fun..Veera on the other hand holds Sahil's hand & whispers in his ears-she becomes a disgusting girl who is chipku with all the guys..You don call this hypocrisy? This is exactly what i pointed out in my post..My issue is not with how Veera treats Baldev..You are free to think she always disrespects him..My only problem is with the difference in reactions..

monu-molu u have pointed whr cvs went wrong 👍🏼

Originally posted by: Trixie_

monu-molu u have pointed whr cvs went wrong 👍🏼

Originally posted by: monumolu

I don't know Trixie if I have pointed out whether cvs were wrong or not!!! But seriously I did not like her touching him so many times!!! I get bear hug from my male friends in front of my hubby, but if I go on and touch a guy whom I have met two days back for so many times in a matter of seconds or minutes his reaction would not be the same!!!

They can keep the jealousy realistic if not anything. Holding Saahil once would have proved the point of Baldev's jealousy. Here I never felt this way when she touched and hugged Karan because they were friends!!! May be I am wrong, people are really quick these days in getting comfy with someone. Generation gap probably as I am 26 and probably from a different era 😆

Originally posted by: rogerrocks

WOW..She just held his hand for god's sake 😆 Its like Veera & Baldev are married & Veera is cheating on him with Sahil 😕 So what if she whispered in his ears & dragged him by his hand? She took him along cos he is familiar with Polish..Whats the big deal? Baldev can flirt & take selfies with all the girls and he is just being a normal guy but Veera shouldn't as much as look at other guys except Baldev? 😆 This again proves that when guys flirt & play around, they are called studs & cool dudes but when a girl does the same thing ( much less in fact), she is called a s**t 😕

Originally posted by: monumolu

I would not mind Veera battling eye lids at someone, or smiling or taking selfies or checking out boys!!! It is perfectly fine according to my standards!!! Even touching is fine, but the number of times they repeated it was not fine for me!!! If Baldev ends up getting cosy and touchy with some random female, I mean if they replicate the scene with him, my reaction would be the same!!!

I feel physical contact with the opposite sex beyond a limit would not be seen in the same light whether it is a boy or a girl!!! If a guy touches a girl who he barely knows in a matter of 5 minutes I would not appreciate it!!!

Then the difference in perception between boys and girls blame it on each and every individual in our society!!! A boy in shorts standing at a corner in the street would never be noticed, whereas a girl would get a billion cheesy pick up lines!!! The world is sexist and whether we like it or not we all leave in a patriarchal society whichever part of the world we live!!! A Casanova is always an in thing right from Bond Movies to Bollywood to Indian Telly but a promiscuous women is always perceived as loose and s****ish!!! The law makers and the religious fraternity is headed by males and hence their view point is the collective one!!! Probably the physical vulnerability of a woman to a man might have contributed to this gender disparity!!!

Honestly, if your reaction is the same even if Baldev had behaved the same way, there is nothing to argue cos its just a matter of difference in opinion..Either bash both or justify both..I don get how a girl can be wrong when a boy who does the exact same thing & more is justified..Its not about Veera & Baldev..Its about the difference in reaction..IMO, neither was Veera inappropriate in touching Sahil nor was Baldev lecherous in clicking selfies with the girls..They are not in a committed relationship for god's sake..And i don get whats so blasphemous in pulling someone by the hand..But then, thats just my opinion..You don think so, well and good..My only issue was with the fact that a girl is always judged harshly when it comes to these kinda scenarios ..

How many times did Baldev click selfies with foreigners? Did anyone count that? No? Ofcourse nobody would because Baldev did it.. It has to be super cool yo 😎

And yuck. How dare Veera touch Sahil. How dare she speak in his ears. 😡 She is so shameless man !


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Originally posted by: ST0207

How many times did Baldev click selfies with foreigners? Did anyone count that? No? Ofcourse nobody would because Baldev did it.. It has to be super cool yo 😎

And yuck. How dare Veera touch Sahil. How dare she speak in his ears. 😡 She is so shameless man !


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If the CVs dare to show one scene where Veera is ogling at a hot Polish dude, we can see the difference in reactions right there..Cos hey a guy can do whatever and still look cool but a girl has to have eyes only for her boyfriend ( future hi sahi😆 ) Even in a show like YHM, they can show Raman hugging his ex-wife but they wouldn't dare show Ishita hugging her ex-boyfriend 😆