A Mess created by everybody

From the Pre-cap it is evident that there will be some heated arguments and alligations between Gunjan and Veera. In many of my earlier posts I had mentioned this was only a question of time. For some people in this forum I would like to request the CV to kill the character of Gunjan ASAP, then only they will stop blaming her. It was not the fault of a single person for which Ranvee's Birth day party turned out to be so tragic. Had Veera even once told Gunjan that she is planning something for Ranjee's birth day? She discussed with Ratan, Chaiji and even with Baldev, but not Gunjan. I'm not blaming Veera alone, she had full right to take initiative for her Veerji's birth day. Ratan and Chaiji readily involved themselves with Veraa's plan. Tell me the name of one person in the family who feels Gunjan too is a member of the family and a part of Ranvee's life. No one. Even while knocking at the door Ranvee takes the names of Beeji, Chaiji and Veera and not Gunjan. May be according to some wise men in the forum it is right. Yes, Gunjan knew Veera was planning something, but she also had her own reasons to plan for Ranvee's birthday. Yes Ratan and Chaiji informed her they were planning a party, but as an wife is it a crime to plan a surprise party for your husband. The night before every one woke them up at mid night to wish Ranvee, that time she didn't complain, she was waiting for her time. She has always waited for her space, but never got it and when she took a wrong step Ranvee blusted her. She spent the entire night preparing for his birth day. Why is Gunajn always expected to understand the Ranveera bond. Why Veera is never expected to understand her Veerji is married now. Why Ratan and Chaiji are not expected to realize Gunjan is also member of the family and a part of Ranveer's life.

It was mess made by everybody. It is not the fault of a single person. None really understood she is also a part of Ranvee's life and she never understood they are also a part of Ranvee's life, but if protesting or expressing your grievances is known as insulting someone, then I dearly apologize to those wise men in the forum (who just wake up every morning and start shouting "Gunjan is a bad girl, Gunjan is an evil soul") for being less educated than them.

Originally posted by: Sayaani-Chidiya

I wouldn't have minded at all if Gunjan only wanted to spend some time with Ranvi. But here, her main motive was to put down Veera. She clearly knew Veera was planning something, yet she decided to plan something of her own so that she could belittle Veera. Ratan and Chaiji had invited Gunjan to be a part of the preps but she flatly refused because she wanted to make sure that her preps are better than VEERA. It's Gunjan who thinks she is a part of Ranvi's life, but not his family. Gunjan wants Ranvi all by herself. She is insecure of her own sis in law, accuses her of being jealous of her, when the fact is, it was Veera who brought RanJan closer. I hope I did not offend those wise men who take out time to write long long posts in defence of Gunjan 😊

Originally posted by: ST0207

Why shouldn't we expect Gunjan to understand RanVeera bond?
Wasn't she their bestie since childhood?

I agree, it was a curse or crime on her part to have born in the same pind. She should have requested God to give her birth in some other village.
Why is everyone else expected to keep giving attention only to Gunjan? Why did she plan another party knowing very well that Veera was already planning a party for Ranvi?

Agreed, she shuold have understood she is only the naukrani of the family and should have waited till eternity for all family members to become meherbaan on her.
Why this so called 'competition' with Veera?

Agreed, how dare she have a feeling that given the same opportunities, she could have been as good as Veera.

Why was she giving those evil smirks in yesterday's episode?

Surely, one should never feel happy seeing her competitor in trouble

Why do people always justify her evil actions giving her 'troubled childhood' as reason?

The author is less educated he do not know what evil she has done, except putting her self in trouble. Truth can never been suppressed, one day Veera should have known her birth secret,

Will wise men please answer these questions for me? 😊

The author is not a wise man, but hope he has answered your questions well with his limited abilities.

Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan

I respectfully disagree! You have said why would Gunjan not feel that given the same "opportunities" she could have been just like Veera? Yes maybe she could!! But being JEALOUS of Veera and hating her is NOT going to make her get those things!!

The fact is it is not Veera's fault that Gunjan was not able to achieve anything in her life, accept being a fashion conscious air head, who was just using men to do her bidding!! The fault is her Mother's and Father's and to some extent her's!!

But hating Veera for having HAD those opportunities and using them, is NOT going to help Gunjan!! SHE is the one who has turned this into a Contest! Because she hates Veera and is jealous of her, she is Jealous of ANY attention she gets! From Ranvi, from Ratan or even Chaiji. She is angry when the people of the Pind praise her. She is angry when her Dad admires her for being educated and articulate!! Soon she will hate Veera for achieving her Veerji (Baldev's) unconditional love!! Imagine that?? Is there NOTHING this girl can't do?? Don't you just HATE her??

If we want to spend our lives being jealous of people and envying them for their achievements, we can ALL find someone to compare ourselves to! But will that EVER serve us?? Will that make us happy? Give us what we want?? Short answer? NO. So Gunjan is wasting her time being jealous and spiteful. This is not about Ranvi at all! If it was, she would have been angry with RANVI. He is her husband. But no. This is about her deep seated insecurities and her jealously and hatred towards Veera. Veera is the IDEAL that she was unable to achieve. So she found a good moment to show her all her venom and spite and she did!!

Gunajn showed that she is a person who really has no character. Because if she did, she would not have behaved as she did. She has shown time and again that she is characterless! We all know the things that she did. Leading Ranvi on, so he brings a rishta to her house, only to reject him in front of the whole town? Called his mother and sister plotters!! Tried to compromise herself with a producer to get a movie role. Was willing to run away with Jageet when she was already married. Stole jewellery from her mother to run away to Canada and never admitted to anything when an innocent man was accused of stealing?? I think we ALL have a nice long list of her achievements!! So lest not go there!!

I think I have made my point!! Gunjan is not justified, because she is not protesting from the point of view of being Ranvi's wife and wanting attention. This was her OPPORTUNITY to scream at Veera and went out her anger on her, born out of jealousy and envy. This was PURE SPITE!! Nothing more, nothing less!! Let's call it what it is!!

Originally posted by: feck

Please wait till the day you find yourself in her position and for God's sake please keep in touch.