points to b noted:
1) I have seen the word barge being used, now coming to someone bedroom and knocking I don't see that has barging in. gujan herself had time to wish if she wanted but she was busy pretending to be angry.
2) Not including gujan- well if I'm not wrong did not ratan tell gujan they are planing something and does she want to help but she said no and didn't think of tellin them that she was planing something...yes they could of told her early but atslt they told her!!!!!
3) suprise- gujan knew that veera wanted to do something big due to veera and chai je convo instead of joining and doing joint planing she wanted to something better.
you can't keep blamimg the family for not including her when she doesn't want to herself. in fact she feels she should have full right and the only right!!!!
ohh bringing up childhood well duh obviously veera had all the right on ranvi y she complaing about that what was she married to him then! !!
Gujan herself is jealous of the bond between veera and ranvi because it take his attention off her but she very well knew that ranvi is veera anoki maa so like mother his attention will be on her. oh and I belive veera doing a great job adjustin to gujan she always friendly to her! gujan on the other hand it just a sour lemon! !
I would also like to tell gujan it was veera who made the plan for.u and ranvi to b togther so you know what grow up!!