ranvi gunjan need to bridge

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NamuVyas

@NamuVyas

Sparkler

+ 4

Posted: 11 years ago

today's ranvi gunjan scene was a real good one.. a complete surprise and intense...

coming back to dem.. many people are saying ranvi was wrong and he shouldnt have been so harsh etc... am not being on either sides but trying to understand from where all this is coming from

coming to ranvi.. he is always been too attached and caring towards veera nd his family.. he lost d most important member of his house, his father at a very young age and who left him with a responsibility and promise to take care of his mother and sister.. he is always worried about their safety and well being...his angst today was very expected due to this.. moreover d thing is that he expects gunjan to be and think in his way and support his personality and feel d same responsibility towards his house and veera.. d issue cracks here cos he cant expect gunjan to be just like him.. he has to define her position in his life and value her equally.. many might say what has gunjan done to be valued? well she holds a very important position in his life as a wife who is gonna spend d rest of his life with him.. d relation itself demands d value..plus she is doing all his house chores etc and in return all she wants is to be loved and appreciated as a wife and support which ranvi is failing to give...he loves her no doubt but den der is more wen it comes to including her in ur successes and appreciations..

coming to gunjan... she has come from a family where der is less importance given to relationships.. all have their own selfishness in her house and she is grown up becoming one too.. so for her to shift to a person who is totally selfless is not possible... she knows wat veera means to ranvi.. but here d issue is not veera but her own position in ranvis life.. afetr being always snubbed and not given importance bu bansuri ,gunjan has defo turned a very insecure being.. for her it was baldev then and veera now.. it was bansuri den and ranvi now.. so her getting insecure is very normal to her character and past.. d issue is dat she has to bring about some change in her and try to understand ranvis pov and more importantly be verbal to him regarding her feelings.. dey both lack communication when it comes to their pain and feelings.. der is no point in building it up...

well saying so d whole drama is getting interesting.. i think it might be a build up to ranvi knowing the truth that gunjan told veera her birth truth.. it might just hit harsh on gunjan.. and i am surely up for more drama between dem...

Edited by NV-ranjanholic - 11 years ago

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shivnian

@shivnian

Voyager

Posted: 11 years ago

🤗🤗diii...i was hardly searching for a positivity about my ranjan...and found it here...so happy...!!!! cant express ...diii thanks a lot...after going through ur comments my heart beat is normal now...i agree to each and every point that u said...ranjan is going in the r8 path now..an intense path..im sure there vl b ups and dwn..it wnt b a lovely dovely track fr ranjanians to enjoy... and this itself is the interesting part...im really luking forward the relationshp growth of ranjan vch is not vry easy..and the upcoming track...ooogod...wat v wnt to get more...time of ignorance..time of pain..time of pyaar kaa dard..time of loneliness...my heart startd whispering,,,its first time i keeping hopes for ranjan...confidently hoping...once again thanks a lot for ur analysis dii...really guided me to positivity...

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herebedragons

@herebedragons

Explorer

Posted: 11 years ago

While I don't really like or care overmuch about Gunjan as a character at the moment, I like your insight into her head, and the light you shed on her PoV.

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Edited by herebedragons - 11 years ago

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kavithagowda

@kavithagowda

Voyager

Posted: 11 years ago

thank u so much namdi for this post after watching today's epi i was sad & heartbroken.i didn't think that i will be able to ship ranjan much longer i disliked ranvi for ignoring gunju but after watching the epi today i was afraid that i will start hating ranvi which i didn't want to happen bocz if i started to hate ranvi then it's the end of ranjan for me so thank very much namidi u helped me lot a today 😳

Edited by kavithagowda - 11 years ago

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kavithagowda

@kavithagowda

Voyager

Posted: 11 years ago

i love u namidi ❤️ & u r the best nobody understands ranjan better than u & also nobody can explain better than u. i always feel happy & relived after talking to u. so once again thank u so much 😊

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Kabshah

@Kabshah

Inactive

Posted: 11 years ago

Analysis is good and his frustration and her insecurity is also well understood but the way Ravi is dealing the situation is extremely immature and childish. Leaving when someone is talking and apologising is rude

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Mandy

@MrDarcyfan

Stunner

+ 6

Posted: 11 years ago

Good post. Given the circumstances and knowing Ranvi, we could not have expected a different reaction from him. If this was about HIM, he would not have reacted this harshly. But this was about Ratan and Veera. Gunjan's antics prevented him from going with them. In the end, Baldev got in the way and Veera got into big trouble as well.

So given all that, he reacted very harshly when he realised that he could have gone with them in the first place. That would have prevented all the drama from unfolding as it did. The fact is that if the things didn't reach the Mela, all their hard work would have gone to dust. Under the circumstances, anyone would get extremely angry.

When you look at it from Ranvi's point of view, it is clear that he thought what Gunjan did was frivolous. They had a major order to get to a Foreign buyer. Gunjan stopped Ranvi from leaving the house and accompanying the ladies, all coz she wanted to spend time alone with him. Considering what could have happened, he overreacted and got really angry. He felt that Gunjan compromised the safety of his mother and sister.

Gunjan was just being silly. I know why she did it, but what she did was very childish. I know she is insecure because of her family background. But this sort of behaviour is not going to make her win points with someone like Ranvi.

Edited by MrDarcyfan - 11 years ago

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Komal

@ShivinKomal

Explorer

Posted: 11 years ago

I agree wid u nami di ranvi as the head of the house he has all responsibilities unlike baldev who has no responsibilities but only wants d sarpanch seat . gunjan must start understanding how much ranvi cares for his family n herself too . I think RanJan must make a convo so that all things may settle otherwise trust dwindles . Waiting eagerly for the Rockstar track i would love to watch it as it is Shivin's dream role.