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Posted: 11 years ago
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after today's episode i am feeling really sorry for gunjan .
but who is at fault?

gunjan and her insecure nature ?
ranvi and his over attention to his sister and his not being able to balance his relations?
or veera and ratan who atleast according to me failed to give gunjan the needed space n love to accept her as family member?


well all of the reason stated above are causes but the main reason is RANJAN themselves .
They lack the communication .they hardly talk with each other . what they does is romancing ,sharing eye lock and all . is this all marriage mean? is this what the necessity of better half? JUST ROMANCING? unless two peaple talk with each other ,share their inner self ,their love ,their pain n all ONLY ROMANCING wont be enough to carry out that relation .very soon that relation will FAIL and will be void of love .

and what can be the possible sollution of that? according to me Gunjan should not keep things what make her feel bad inside herself . she should make ranvi understand that ,she should shout n bring out all her frustration .

Enough of bearing it GUNJAN . please speak up .or take a step ahead if they are not talking . if ratan hugged only ranvi n veera then u run n hug her ,if ranvi ignored u iinfront of veera n got engrossed with her only then go n participate with them .you three are childhood frnd .you are not stranger . If you are not being given your RIGHT then GRAB it yourself . The CHARECTER GUNJAN is strong enough to stand for helself ...Do it lest it become too late




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Posted: 11 years ago
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great post hun. 👍🏼

exactly ..RanJan lack communication and that is why things r getting worse..Gunjan keeps everything to her and never tells him.she needs to do it first. plus other two reasons are there as well. :)
Edited by ...Jes... - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I wouldn't agree with Veera and Ratan not accepting her as a part of the family. Ratan infact has always considered G as her daughter. She appreciates her, gave her the keys. Even when she became the Sarpanch, she gave equal credit to Ranveera and Gunjan which I thought was unnecessary coz G hadn't done anything. She hasn't even proved to be a good DIL yet Ratan praises her time and again.
Veera always includes G in her plans. It was childish of her to ask Ranvi why there was a delay in opening the door on the morning after their SR. Other than that she hasn't been nosy.
The only time Ranvi failed in giving her attention was when he asked her to stay back at home and work in the kitchen while he takes Veera out for shopping. Can't comment on today's epi coz I haven't watched.
Its mostly G feeling insecure for no reason. When G does a good job, the family praises her. I don't see why she should be jealous of Veera. If it was just because of Ranveera's equation, she would have been justified. But she is insecure for all the wrong reasons.
She keeps everything to herself and never really believes in discussing things. She just gets into revenge mode to deal with her problems

And G isn't a strong character. She has never stood up for herself. She curses her own fate rather than thinking of a solution. She never finds happiness in anything. She overlooks what she has and laments over what she hasn't achieved in her life
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Posted: 11 years ago
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actually gunjan problem is a big insecurity in her right from her childhood days... ok not with ranveera den cos she was only a friend...
but den she always wanted her mothers love and attention but bansuri was too engrossed in baldev.. so she never spoke up and kept trying and trying and building it up inside of her... till dat actually turned her so crazy to end up soing almost anything for it...
now back to the same with ranvi... he loves her der is no doubt but den again he has too much attention to veera.. and she is again building it up inside of her not venting it.. plus ranvi time and again hasnt understood things.. cant blame him either cos he also has too much to handle plus he hasnt had a father figure to look up and understand things...

plus now dat gunjan also broke ties with her mother and she isnt much caring abt her brother or family.. she feels more insecure as though she has noone to tell her issues to.. normally one would share with mother... i think her growing insecurity might distance her from ranvi herself... instead of repeating history like with her mother..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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👏 yes dear..absolutely r8.this is the problem vth ranjan. and as Nami di told both has justification too.
really interesting track. there is lots of possiblities now to progress their relation. ranjan is not away frm reality. so ofcourse it vl make sense if they show this uncomfortable side of ranjan. hope they clear it all and starts fresh!! 😉😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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i want gundev❤️ vs ranveera
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Trixie_

i want gundev❤️vs ranveera

we want Gundev ❤️ vs Ranveera 😡
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Ac to ranvi marriage means romance

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