Originally posted by: -Amri-
See, I am objectively trying to look at the situation and give my views (This is very hard for me, LOL.)
I agree that as a newlywed, Gunjan might like to spend some time alone with her husband. Her expression when she entered into the room showed that she was ready to leap on Ranvi the moment she closed the door😆 I get her natural urges, expectations as a wife, all that.
But what I don't get is the exclusivity that she demands from Ranvi. It is as if she expects him to be her husband alone, and not a son/brother, roles that he has been performing from years. That bothers me. It's like she wants to be the sun of Ranvi's universe, while others are pushed to a corner. Jealousy is a very natural human emotion which all of us have experience. But this territoriality is not. That is just not right.
And coming to Veera, as others have said earlier, Ranvi and Veera are incredibly close. Perhaps more than your average bro/sis. They have a special bond, and Gunjan HAS to accept that. If she is irked, she can tell Ranvi about it in a diplomatic way, share her concerns. Communicate like a wife to her husband. Why drop the vase/ employ sly means to get her way?
Above all, I don't get it why she directs her hatred at Veera. In the tablet scene, Veera did offer genuinely to help Gunjan who turned it down rudely. Methinks that Gunjan is jealous of Veera, not only because she is Ranvi's sister, but also because she represents everything she could've become. A smart, independent, educated woman, who is the apple of her family's eyes. Her hatred then is misdirected, because Bansuri and Balwant are to be blamed for her shortcomings/what she could not achieve, not Veera!
What irks me most is Gunjan's views on Veera's illegitimacy- she believes that Veera is not entitled to love from her family because she is not their "Khoon". Maybe it provides a contrast to her own situation, but Gunjan's views on Veera are pretty perverted, IMHO. It's almost as if she wants Veera to be kicked out because she is the not the biological daughter of the house.🤢
And I wouldn't call Veera naive/ not appreciative of the changes in her brother's life. If you look at yesterday's episode, her downcast eyes, her awkward knock on the door, asking whether she could come in, making a surprised Ranvi ask why she is asking for permission to enter. She clearly knows that her brother is a married man, and that he and his wife are entitled to their privacy. In fact, she wants to have a talk with both her Veer and Bhabhi! Which means that she has accepted Gunjan, but Gunjan has not. So if anyone is being childish here, it is Gunjan.
But the main culprit to me is Ranvi, because he is not handling this delicate situation in a sensible way.
Ranvi appears to me to be the main reason behind this issue. He must somehow placate his wife, while maintaining the delicate balance of relationships, both old and new. And Gunjan must also learn that there is nothing like getting a lion's share of love- her place in Ranvi's life is fixed, as that of a wife, and is not likely to be threatened by Veera, of all the people. So for Gunjan to blame Veera for it is absurd.
