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Posted: 11 years ago
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ya i also agree.gunjan n veera in some cases doing same.gunjan misunderstood ranvi n took ranvi as the reason of her broken marriage n unfulfillment of dreams.which led her to do a lot of craps.but what about veera?if she is not liking ballu then she sud totally clear[not by joke] it with ballu n keep distance with him.but she interacted with ballu like a tantrumwise girlfriend,like throwing bets etc etc..but she does not have any reason to act like this.dont tell she cant understand what she is donig,from episode 1 of after leap she is pretending to be the grandma of the whole pind,she teaches her big bro what to wear,what to eat,how to talk,now she cant see what,s going on with baldev!!!huhh...she just entertained herself by baldev,now she is entertained enough ,now she is gonna say'hey stay away from me,i dont like u'.i think she is now meaner than gunjan
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I don't think Veera has been unfair to Baldev
Shes made it clear to him all along that she's not interested in him. Those challenges she set, they've been good for Baldev because he"s learnt valuable lessons through them. And Veera has definitely grown feelings for him now, so she hasn't exactly led him on. I do think she is right to be wary of him as he's not exactly prince charming.

As far as RanJan are concerned. Gunjan is still being dishonest with Ranvi. Im surprised she has no guilt or fear over revealing the birth truth to Veera and has the gall to act resentful because Ranvi is showering Veera with a little extra comfort and affection. Which she is in need of right now! Gunjan has grown up with RanVeera so why is the unique strength/nature of their bond such a shock to her? She knows Ranvi is more than a brother to Veera. Veera may have gotten Ratan's acceptance now but it is Ranvi who single handedly reared her, has been a mother and father to her all their lives. In that sense him prioritising Veera is justifiable because he's more like a mother to her, and mothers will always place their children first. Besides its not like he doesn't care for Gunjan. He spent days crying over her when they seperated and Veera spent days plotting to get them back together. Where is Gunjan's appreciation for that? Personally I think she needs to stop being so needy and self centered and start acting a little considerate. So what if Ranvi gave his paratha to Veera who had still not been served, he shared a moment with his wife later on and expressed his appreciation did not he? I think Gunjan is being unreasonable and overly possessive.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: darkknight420

ya i also agree.gunjan n veera in some cases doing same.gunjan misunderstood ranvi n took ranvi as the reason of her broken marriage n unfulfillment of dreams.which led her to do a lot of craps.but what about veera?if she is not liking ballu then she sud totally clear[not by joke] it with ballu n keep distance with him.but she interacted with ballu like a tantrumwise girlfriend,like throwing bets etc etc..but she does not have any reason to act like this.dont tell she cant understand what she is donig,from episode 1 of after leap she is pretending to be the grandma of the whole pind,she teaches her big bro what to wear,what to eat,how to talk,now she cant see what,s going on with baldev!!!huhh...she just entertained herself by baldev,now she is entertained enough ,now she is gonna say'hey stay away from me,i dont like u'.i think she is now meaner than gunjan




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Posted: 11 years ago
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Where has Ranvi ignored Gunjan exactly?
His sister knowing the truth of her birth is a huge thing and it will obviously get everything else out of his mind. He did come back and share that with Gunjan, didn't he? And later he has been nice to her. They've just confessed love so it will be awkward especially for Ranvi. They are taking over-dramatising it but I can totally understand why Ranvi is behaving like that. Gunjan should also take it slow, they are married after all. No one's running away anywhere.
Also, its really selfish of Gunjan to not acknowledge the enormity of what happened. Neither has she an ounce of remorse or guilt. She just doesn't care. Gunjan is being selfish and self-obsessed.

Veera, on the other hand, has always said no to him. Baldev kept ignoring that. I agree she should have been a little more firm but I still doubt Baldev will understand her. Both are confused. Baldev needs to sit down and analyse what he's doing and Veera too should allow her heart to speak out and see where its heading.

I'm also tired of saying this. The show is about Ranvi and Veera. Their love. Their bond. It is not the usual sibling bond. There will obviously be a difference.
I believe many can't handle it because they are brother and sister. People here wouldn't have given it a second thought if Ranvi and Veera were paired romantically and giving priority to each other.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Khaleesi

I don't think Veera has been unfair to Baldev

Shes made it clear to him all along that she's not interested in him. Those challenges she set, they've been good for Baldev because he"s learnt valuable lessons through them. And Veera has definitely grown feelings for him now, so she hasn't exactly led him on. I do think she is right to be wary of him as he's not exactly prince charming.

As far as RanJan are concerned. Gunjan is still being dishonest with Ranvi. Im surprised she has no guilt or fear over revealing the birth truth to Veera and has the gall to act resentful because Ranvi is showering Veera with a little extra comfort and affection. Which she is in need of right now! Gunjan has grown up with RanVeera so why is the unique strength/nature of their bond such a shock to her? She knows Ranvi is more than a brother to Veera. Veera may have gotten Ratan's acceptance now but it is Ranvi who single handedly reared her, has been a mother and father to her all their lives. In that sense him prioritising Veera is justifiable because he's more like a mother to her, and mothers will always place their children first. Besides its not like he doesn't care for Gunjan. He spent days crying over her when they seperated and Veera spent days plotting to get them back together. Where is Gunjan's appreciation for that? Personally I think she needs to stop being so needy and self centered and start acting a little considerate. So what if Ranvi gave his paratha to Veera who had still not been served, he shared a moment with his wife later on and expressed his appreciation did not he? I think Gunjan is being unreasonable and overly possessive.



@bold, that part irritated me! I expected to see some sort of remorse of Gunjan's part for revealing such a harsh truth to Veera but no instead of being happy that everything worked out all she could think about was herself and the fact Ranvi was not thinking of their big day. Really? Gunjan should be thanking her lucky stars that Ranvi does not know what she put his sister through, even though everything worked out he would have been so hurt that Gunjan stooped so low to hurt Veera.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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If anyone is to be blame in VeeBa story at this point of time then Baldev.
He considered his frnds stupid advices more seriously than Veeras rejection.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Every1 is writing essays😆 so i can't help it
Firstly im lasy i didn't read the whole sorry nj😛

Well to me the theme of the show that is ranveera's love has become highly irritating..as kids it looked cute a bro becoming a mother but even than at times ranvi while doing justice to veera did alot of injustice to ratan...now that both r growen ups its time to stop being over obsessed by each other and focus on own lives and other ppl involved..veera interfering in ranjan's life was🤢 ranvi is an adult elder than her can't he handle his problems himself and now veera is again a problem i won't be surprised if gunjan starts feeling jealous and i won't blame her either..ranvi had ignored ratan and her dreams all his life for veera and now its gunjans time😕
Same goes for baldev..the guy had been there for veera but she has turned a blind eye to him..she's led him so far and now is joking it off..🤢 she was first selfish then brother obsessed and now egoistic proudy..if u dnt love him better say it clearly rather than make me fall in love in 3 hrs..lame and idiotic.. she keeps saying to him he doesn't understand love but does she herself do😕 her nonsense love for karan her junping to conclusion when gunjan said a few good words..and she can't see the love in baldev's eyes...


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: overactor

Every1 is writing essays😆so i can't help it

Firstly im lasy i didn't read the whole sorry nj😛

Well to me the theme of the show that is ranveera's love has become highly irritating..as kids it looked cute a bro becoming a mother but even than at times ranvi while doing justice to veera did alot of injustice to ratan...now that both r growen ups its time to stop being over obsessed by each other and focus on own lives and other ppl involved..veera interfering in ranjan's life was🤢ranvi is an adult elder than her can't he handle his problems himself and now veera is again a problem i won't be surprised if gunjan starts feeling jealous and i won't blame her either..ranvi had ignored ratan and her dreams all his life for veera and now its gunjans time😕
Same goes for baldev..the guy had been there for veera but she has turned a blind eye to him..she's led him so far and now is joking it off..🤢she was first selfish then brother obsessed and now egoistic proudy..if u dnt love him better say it clearly rather than make me fall in love in 3 hrs..lame and idiotic.. she keeps saying to him he doesn't understand love but does she herself do😕her nonsense love for karan her junping to conclusion when gunjan said a few good words..and she can't see the love in baldev's eyes...




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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Khaleesi

I don't think Veera has been unfair to Baldev

Shes made it clear to him all along that she's not interested in him. Those challenges she set, they've been good for Baldev because he"s learnt valuable lessons through them. And Veera has definitely grown feelings for him now, so she hasn't exactly led him on. I do think she is right to be wary of him as he's not exactly prince charming.

As far as RanJan are concerned. Gunjan is still being dishonest with Ranvi. Im surprised she has no guilt or fear over revealing the birth truth to Veera and has the gall to act resentful because Ranvi is showering Veera with a little extra comfort and affection. Which she is in need of right now! Gunjan has grown up with RanVeera so why is the unique strength/nature of their bond such a shock to her? She knows Ranvi is more than a brother to Veera. Veera may have gotten Ratan's acceptance now but it is Ranvi who single handedly reared her, has been a mother and father to her all their lives. In that sense him prioritising Veera is justifiable because he's more like a mother to her, and mothers will always place their children first. Besides its not like he doesn't care for Gunjan. He spent days crying over her when they seperated and Veera spent days plotting to get them back together. Where is Gunjan's appreciation for that? Personally I think she needs to stop being so needy and self centered and start acting a little considerate. So what if Ranvi gave his paratha to Veera who had still not been served, he shared a moment with his wife later on and expressed his appreciation did not he? I think Gunjan is being unreasonable and overly possessive.



yes veera made him learn something to ballu but by which relation???she cant see that boy totally fall for her.if she is not liking her .even she doesnt count ballu as a frinend.then she sud keep distance.if she doesnt wanna to be with him then why she need to teach him these.ya she cleared it that she is not interested in him a lot of time by joking always, not seriously for a single time,actully this misled ballu more.whatever she cleared it ,but she knows ballu is serious[he expressed it seriously many times exp;wantsuri anniversary].then she throwing bets to get hope to baldev


ya gunjan knows the ranveera bond clearly.but its also true that she is from a complicated family relation,there is no love for her there.so its ouvious she can expect some extra attention from ranvi.its ranvi,s responsibilty to keep balance among all women of his life.ratan compromised with veera for ranvi,but it does not mean gunjan sud also.this is reasonable as a wife n not overpossesiveness.ranvi,s over attention towards veera may turn gunjan a bad sis-in-law in future.ya ranvi treated veera as his child from childhood,but his life partner sud get equal affection also
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: darkknight420


yes veera made him learn something to ballu but by which relation???she cant see that boy totally fall for her.if she is not liking her .even she doesnt count ballu as a frinend.then she sud keep distance.if she doesnt wanna to be with him then why she need to teach him these.ya she cleared it that she is not interested in him a lot of time by joking always, not seriously for a single time,actully this misled ballu more.whatever she cleared it ,but she knows ballu is serious[he expressed it seriously many times exp;wantsuri anniversary].then she throwing bets to get hope to baldev


ya gunjan knows the ranveera bond clearly.but its also true that she is from a complicated family relation,there is no love for her there.so its ouvious she can expect some extra attention from ranvi.its ranvi,s responsibilty to keep balance among all women of his life.ratan compromised with veera for ranvi,but it does not mean gunjan sud also.this is reasonable as a wife n not overpossesiveness.ranvi,s over attention towards veera may turn gunjan a bad sis-in-law in future.ya ranvi treated veera as his child from childhood,but his life partner sud get equal affection also


Oh, so now you need a relation to teach people something?
She doesn't know he loves her. He told her he wants to marry her. She doesn't know the extent of the feelings and neither does Baldev himself recognise them. He could just be flirting with her for all she knows. He has never been serious in his life, always pulling her leg, so how can she trust him?
Yes. They've shared some emotional moments but Veera is also trying to come to terms with everything. Is she not?
She said no long back and he didn't listen so isn't he partly to blame here? Why is it only her fault? It takes two to tango.

Its been a day since the wedding! And he hasn't exactly ignored her! Why is it such a big issue?
She can expect love from him but does that mean every other happiness or sorrow shall be disregarded?

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