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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: namratavyas


gunjan is more insecure than anything else.. she isnt such a bad girl.. till now no shades of her negativity.. she just wanted to be left alone to collect her scattered life... imagine inn five minutes or less her dreams came shattering down... so her reaction was like that..but she will be out of it.. ranvi will get her out of it.. once he gives her ghhis shoulder she will recover soon and realise her mistake.. she never trusts her family's decision for her..
she was actually pissed with everything in her life... even whe she ran away noone went behind her.. so it shows it all..
ranvi also does some things like that in a while.. he screamed on ratan the other day for veera.. but it doesnt mean he is bad and he doesnt deseve ratan,, soon he realised his mistake..
we have to be optimistic with the show..


being insecure or not its still wrong... she believes her family obviously thats why she believed them and said Veera is jealous... you cant compare Ranvi situation to Gunjan that was something different... I was just saying my point of view if others dont agree they dont have too
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I don't think it's about deserving.. I agree She was absolutely wrong today but it shouldn't be decided on that whether she deserves Ranvi, I think it's clear that she's not a wrong girl but she lets her emotions define everything about her even though her character isn't that sensible Ranvi isn't a god himself.. He never stopped Gunjan and never confessed his love either.. Does that make him a coward? Does he deserve Gunjan?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I don't think it's about deserving.. I agree She was absolutely wrong today but it shouldn't be decided on that whether she deserves Ranvi, I think it's clear that she's not a wrong girl but she lets her emotions define everything about her even though her character isn't that sensible Ranvi isn't a god himself.. He never stopped Gunjan and never confessed his love either.. Does that make him a coward? Does he deserve Gunjan? [/QUOTE
The character Ranvi does everything for other more than himself, he knows he is not the right person for Gunjan her dream person is NRI who can fulfil all her wishes where as Ranvi is village person, even if he did tell her dont think it would have made a difference to her thinking. That does not make him a coward just because he did not confess his feelings to Gunjan or stopped her he wanted her to be happy so he let her go. So he does love her but his once sided love story its not good enough unfortunately Gunjan wont ever understand him whatever he done was for her happiness he even defended her today and forgot about his sis
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Suppose u have a dream of going abroad and then someone calls u and says u got a really good job in England but u have no idea what the job is about...but u just ran to it cause its your dream and u only hear good things about it and the ppl around you really praises u. u are all ready to go but the end moment your brother who is a PHD guy comes and says it was a trap it was not a job and if you go u will be trouble so your father believes your brother and stops you from going cause he knows that your brother has studied alot and knows stuff. And your father will just tear up your ticket and say GO BACK HOME!!!!

how will you feel????


in the same way when everything was going perfect and her iggest dream was coming tru Veera came as a wind and blew it away!! she was not in her right mind

gunjan since the leap always wanted to be the best only for her mother so that she starts loving her. but the only sector where she couldn't beat veera was the education part which she left on her own will but was being manipulated.

and till now none of her dreams came true just like that of ranvi but when her one dream was going to come true it also shattered. for the ppl of village this paper stuffs doesn't matter!! didn't u hear what was bansuri saying about jagjit?? and gunjan listens to her mother like a puppet!!

when ranvi's heart broke it didn't make a noise but gunjan's did some ppl can hide their feelings and some can't thus gunjan's anger bursted out!!! its in her character..

and btw for a village girl breaking of an alliance is a really big thing almost as near to death cause that stops her from getting good alliance in the future!!

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Posted: 11 years ago
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was totally expecting a post like this on Gunjan today
honestly I am totally deflated by todays eipsode. . .not really looking forward to any more of unbelievable happenings. .

Gunjan behaviour totally caught me off-guard. . . damn RanJan will really have to convince me now. . .
main reason for me watchin this show = RanJan. . . and now that I am really really deflated. . . . I guess .. . i need to demote Veera back to what it was pre-leap. . .. non-must watch serial. . . .. shud keep me mildly in the know watching Veera, maybe skipping some days or just watching few mins if i get teh chance. . .

I havent really dont anything on this forum that has me make a special post announcing my reduced activity henceforth. . .

so will quickly explain: Gunjan reactions and expressions thru all this have thrown me off balance. . .totally not expected. . .. Its possible this is just aftershock, and Ranvi will get her out of it. . . well. .. . I honestly cant care about that now. . . lost hope in this Gunjan character. . . I really dont know how CVs will get this all pieced up. . . but I am partially surrendering any hopes, of watching Veera anymore. . demoted from must watch to occasional watch. . . until I am convinced in any way,. .. .

be4 i retire for the day. . as i dont plan on discussin Veera as much as I have done so far. .. I also felt disjointed from Ranvi's dialogs, when he interfered telling NRI family to bolt out. .. I saw a slight of relief/hapiness in his face. .. I wasnt convinced by his character too. . . It seemed as if he was happier Gunjan was no longer gettin married to NRI, instead of being more sad about Gunjan's shock at the moment in time. .. felt out of touch with the character.. I failed to see the concern on his face. .. . perhaps there is logic in him , his expressions and what he said, but I failed to understand, and not bothered to even understand, coz i refuse lol

so for me, RanJan . . .. well I am hopeless now. . .. .. sort of lost something inside me that made me come to this forum and discuss everything i could. . . i have no real motivation anymore. . . but will remain active, albeit more silent member of this forum. . . it will take extreem effort from CVs, to make me believe whats happened. . . RanJan potrayal/maybe acting. . utterly unconvincing first time every since post leap for me. . . I am totally unconvinced, and still in disbelief. . .

wish I liked VeeBa enough to keep me hooked on . . . 😭 😭 😭 😭 😭

so with that I'm out for the day. . .. not lookin forward to anything else , until CVs justify what they have done .. . and justify it well to be believable, or connectable. . else . . .. will post my views on that time. . which might be my final time on IF. . .coz Veera is the only show I really watch non stop, never miss. . .and even want to comment about. . .😭 😭 😭 😭 😭 😭 😭 😭 😭

all the best to those still on the EVKAV-boat full time 😆. . . i am jumping off it, about to land in the waters, hanging on by a little thread. . . 😕
Edited by Vinder90 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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It is too early to say if she deserves Ranvi or not, yes I'm disappointed with her but one episode is not enough for me to decide whether she is deserving of Ranvi. I'm holding out hope that she comes to her senses in the next episode, Ranvi can help her think logically
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I'm disappointed in her too. I hope she realizes how much Ranvi cares for her.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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i have been saying this from the beginning Gunjun does not deserve Ranvi i dont want Gunjun and Ranvi to pair up. Ranvi is way too good for her. But the CVs are hell bent on showing them together. I don't like Gunjun and never will. I don't even feel sorry for her.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Gunjan proved today that she does not deserve a guy like Ranvijay! She dose not deserve to belong to a family like his. His sister, grand aunt and Mom are all such decent and good people. Gunjan's mother is a b***h, brother is a hot headed fool,and father is spineless most of the time!!
I guess we can't expect better from Gunjan after the atmosphere she was brought up in. However, I think she is totally immature, ungrateful and silly. So someone like that is just not good for a mature, strong and honest guy like Ranvi. He has principals and is a very respectable guy. Gunjan insulted him by being willing to marry an abusive man just to go overseas!!


She trusted that guy over her childhood friend and people who knew her all her life?? That was just SO low! By insulting Veera calling her jealous, she insulted Ranvi as well! So NO she does not deserve him at all!! Sorry!!
Edited by MrDarcyfan - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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A relationship is not about whether one deserves the other or not, it's more about an individual being happy and content with the partnership. This includes accepting a person with his or her flaws.
Gunjan's reaction was an outcome the insecurities she has faced all her life. Marrying an NRI, she thought that finally she might have an escape route out if her misery. When she saw that it wasn't happening, seeing your only way out being blocked, any normal person would have erupted with the pent up frustration he or she would have kept inside for years.

It's not about a person being wrong or right. Being dictated by her emotions is a characteristic trait of Gunjan, something that has evolved to become a part of her personality. Nobody is perfect, and this is one of the weaknesses of Gunjan. So the question that whether Ranvi deserves her or not should much rather be preceded over (in terms of priority) by whether Ranvi is ready to accept this Gunjan for a lifelong relationship?


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