Felt sorry for Ratan today!

Today, I felt really sorry for Ratan. The men in that woman's life are hell bent on breaking her heart and depriving her of a happy, fulfilled life...

the root cause for ranvi being so obsessed with veera is his wonderful father, what kinda jerk of a father is he to put the entire responsibility of a kid on another kid n leave!!
I was glad ratan understood n forgave nihal ,sad ranvi went against her. but somewhere i guess he got this quality from him mommy dear, bina soche samze over react karna!
I wish sampy returns n ratan shoo shoo 's him away :-D!

I guess ratan does have a soft corner for nihal.

you are true every bit. since when i came to know that nihal will be ill treated by ranvi, i was very upset, that stupid boy doesnt know its finally his loss and his failure, may be he is too young to know that now, bur the elder in the family should decide not him atleast now, he should be realised that he cannot decide now... useless boy, the villgers are also praise for no worth of him, till date he is not done anyrhing outstanding,

Yes, I REALLY wish that now Sampooran returns and Ratan throws him out! I wouldn't wish a husband like him even for an enemy!!

Originally posted by: anithav

you are true every bit. since when i came to know that nihal will be ill treated by ranvi, i was very upset, that stupid boy doesnt know its finally his loss and his failure, may be he is too young to know that now, bur the elder in the family should decide not him atleast now, he should be realised that he cannot decide now... useless boy, the villgers are also praise for no worth of him, till date he is not done anyrhing outstanding,

u can't blame d kid ...
the great wonderful father had clearly told him
ab se "ghar ki zimmedari teri " / "'ghar ka mard tu hai "
obviously kids take everything seriously when explained @ such tender age. they belive when a parent or someone they respect n look upto fill ya head with things children dat age should not know n definitely not be doin .
us bache ki bachpan was lost :-(

You're right, both Sampooran and Ranvi have failed Ratan.

Ratan definitely has feelings for Nihal it was quite obvious yesterday ..and when Ranvi asked her for 3 promises the first that Nihal wont enter their house 2nd that he wont enter the fields n 3rd that they would keep no relations with him n he would leave their life forever.. Ratan only agreed to the 1st 2 conditions she couldnt bring herself to accept the 3rd

ratan didnt agree 3rd condition

Great post! I began watching the show very recently so I didn't know much about the characters or their past. Had to read a few threads on this forum to get a gist of the happenings. Yesterday, I too felt bad for Ratan in that scene, and now your post has really highlighted the pain she has gone through. Wish the writers would have shown some happiness in her life :(

Ranvi is the most annoying character of the show. He is OBSESSED with Veera. He's 13 years old and that is old enough to know where babies come from. Shouldn't someone tell him veera is the product of his dad having sex with another woman? Most boys would hate their fathers for doing something like that to their mom and they'd probably want nothingto do with the child that comes out of it. Instead Ranvi thinks iit's ok to force a child like this on his mother. My aunt had a little girl and has a five year old son too. The older boy loves his sister but is no where near obsessed likw Ranvi is. He is spoilt and that's probably ratan and sampooran's fault. That is why he was able to force the baby on Ratan. Otherwise most normal kids would listen to their moms and shut up if thry want to give the baby away. Ranvi ses Ratan as an object but not a human being. It was always about Veera and that cheater Sampooran to him. For once his mother found happiness but he took it away from her because of his own selfish reasons. SometiMes I wonder if Ranvi is a teenager because he is pretty immature fOr his age. He still acts like the 8 year old that got Veera.

I worry post leap when Veera wants her own independence what Ranvi would do. He's very controlling and obsessive And he may hate to see veera out of his control.