#AmABrokenWingedBirdTryingHardToFly Gayatri/Govind

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Emancipate yourselves from mental slavery is the lesson of the day from Gayatri to the audience.

Gayatri

Women in that era were seen as a yes or no robot, in fact more of a yes robot. She had to agree to everything that was thrown her way because her sole aim was to be a slave to her future husband and his family. She had no right to dream, by dreaming she is committing a sin and her punishment is to marry a man thrice her age.

Gayatri is a formidable character as far as female characters on television is concerned. She is not someone who stands back and allow wrong to win. She understands where she stands as woman of that era, she is not stupid. But at the same time, she is not willing to be bullied into doing things that she does not feel comfortable in. Here mere character screams the following quotation of Gandhi Ji: you can chain me, you can torture me, you can even destroy my body but you will never imprison my mind.' That last scene when she stands up despite the various insults her own mother and sister in laws ensure she endured at their mercy.

Gayatri has been told by her mother growing up that she should always keep her mouth shut because she is a female but that has not stop her from having her own opinion and that is wonderful to see. She has always been reminded that she is a burden on them but she never truly believed that because for her, her mother and father would always be there for her. After all, she was their laadli beti. But I guess sometimes truth is too bitter of a pill to swallow and this was forced down her throat today. Gayatri being told love is not important in a relationship. It's merely the name that requires and is expected to live with that name. I love how she then questions whether girls are not allow to consider their own emotions, etc. However, this did not break her spirit and that was lovely to see. I loved her post reaction ie the precap. I am happy she has realised she does not have any well-wishers in the house and has elected to write to RanaJi expressing her feelings.

She has considered herself as a daughter of the Seth household not as a burden of the Seth household and she is being punished for daring to think this liberally.

I look forward to seeing what she will do to prove her worth.

Gayatri and Govind Seth/ Father-Daughter Duo

A father's tears and fears are unseen, his love is unexpressed, but his care and protection remains as a pillar of strength throughout our lives.'

I was not expecting much from tonight's episode as I was greatly disappointed by Govind Seth's reaction the day previously. But today the sher roared. I love how he had an answer to everything. I love how he said that his daughter would have been unlucky if her alliance would have happened with Buddha Saab. This scene brought a smile to my face. He is happy to have his daughter sit at home unwed because he is her father and he wants to ensure his daughter lives a happy life rather than a life full of sorrow. Gayatri is not a burden on her father. She is his ray of sunshine; his reason of being. He is happy to provide for her till the day she dies. What a beautiful bond they portrayed between father and daughter in this show. Govind is ready to bring the moon for her daughter but alas his wife put him in a tight spot by giving him that kasam. However, when his daughter fell on his feet and begged him to save her, he could not help but roar. He was sitting there taking all the nonsense but when he realised his daughter needed his support, he did not hesistate to show that buddha and his family the mirror. Kudos to him.

Govind went to ask his wife, exactly what happiness a male older than himself can give his daughter. He tells her she is her mother and even then she is thinking of strangling her daughter with her own hands, and she is so evil, her response is, am her mother and that is why am thinking along this line. What she should have said was, am a woman who believes society should mock my husband and daughter, and I will still put society's value in front of all my close ones sentiments.'


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Posted: 10 years ago
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well said 😳
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even now a days in some rural areas situation is the same or may be worse... like women are just for cooking and bearing childs... i hope sometime soon in the future it will change...
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well i needed to be first so here i am 😆

rest comment may be baad me 😆
Edited by babydolll - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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You be my twin, buddy <33 Our thoughts are always on the same frequency 😳
And awww Jules it was a treat to read your analysis after SO long!! <33
Great writing! Unfortunately can't give a short analysis of my own since I ain't watching the show currently. Just get RaGa married already and then I can start watching LOL 😆😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Agree with you
father daughter bond is amazing..even i loved the way he said & supported his daughter..! i seriously dislike gayatri mom how can she be so heartless ? i dnt what gayatri brothers are doing ? sometimes they seems postive like they love gayatri so much..but next moment supporting their wife ?
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Jules, what a BANG ON post! 👏

First of all, you should do episode analysis more often. All I can do is second each words of your post.

Yes I was kinda disappointed in Govind Seth yesterday but today he again won me over. At least the guy spoke and threw all those hypocrites out of his house. I liked the dialogues that were given to him. Gayatri's life would have indeed got ruined had this so called alliance got fixed today. If he can give 11 lacs and jewelleries to that buddha to marry his daughter off to him, he can very well provide for her for the rest of her life with that same 11 lacs and those jewellery.

It is said a mother is a best friend of her daughter and she knows her daughter inside out. However here the case is different. Govind Seth truly knows his daughter well like he claims unlike Damyanti who ended up calling her daughter a "burden" and she has been kept calling her "unlucky" from the start of the show. Such a big disappointed she is. She has a typical regressive mindset that we often see even in today's time. She even makes me feel those annoying bhabhis are better cos we know they hate Gayatri. But her mother who claims to love her and understand her failed to protect her honor when the ladkewale all were cursing and taunting Gayatri and even Govind Seth. Where did the izzat go when the hypocrites were raising their fingers at her own husband?


The only reason I loved this episode was cos to the last scene. Gayatri's positive outlook towards life is inspiring. I was missing this Gayatri frankly speaking when they made her go in that fangirl mode. She is smart, intelligent, righteous and courageous as well and knows to stand for herself when required. She was cursed, taunted and they all literally made her feel unwanted even still she showed the spirit and said if she a burden on them, she would rather stand on her own feet and be independent than being someone's wife for namesake and to show the society that she has a husband's name attached to hers.


I know for a fact though that Gayatri might be forced in this marriage but still that won't make me admire Gayatri any less today. She was the star of today's episode and the message that the cvs gave today in the episode was crystal clear for today's generation. In 1945 it was impossible for a girl to go out and work and earn for herself so I'm sure Gayatri won't get the opportunity to be independent but in 2015 it is not. So if there is any girl out there enduring all the nonsense then she should know to take a stand for herself and not be a doormat.


So far the show has been fantastic. I'm loving this pace of the show. It's perfect. Just hoping the cvs don't ruin any character and the consistency in them all. Cos I'm certainly dreading what 360 degree change Gayatri's character will take post marriage? I would want her to be a strong level headed girl that she was shown in today's episode. She won my heart. And to be honest so far Gayatri has been DD's best character for me. Fingers crossed she stays like this forever.


PS:- Loved Gandhiji's quotation. Jules, you have a style of your own in writing. So please do make more post. Would totally love to read your analysis. They are simply mind blowing.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: babydolll

well said 😳

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even now a days in some rural areas situation is the same or may be worse... like women are just for cooking and bearing childs... i hope sometime soon in the future it will change...
.
well i needed to be first so here i am 😆

rest comment may be baad me 😆

😆I was still in the process of editing when you reserved!😆 Aur kamini, baad mein kyu? LazyLadki😆

Its true, the situation being portrayed in the show is the reality of some girls in some places in India. I do not think it will ever change as people are too thick headed to want to change such mentalities. Anyways, am lucky to have been brought up in a liberal household, is all I can say.
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Originally posted by: AvadaKedavra

You be my twin, buddy <33 Our thoughts are always on the same frequency 😳
And awww Jules it was a treat to read your analysis after SO long!! <33
Great writing! Unfortunately can't give a short analysis of my own since I ain't watching the show currently. Just get RaGa married already and then I can start watching LOL 😆😆

Well, tell me something new!😆

Kaun se mela mein we got separated?😆 I am watching the show on and off after reading the reviews on the episode. I know right? Get RaGa married already so they can get rid of those irritating family members of Gayatri.😆 Waise, my writing is still a bit rusty, as I am yet to get the hang of analyzing after so long, so am glad you were were not bored!😆😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: _innocent_

😆I was still in the process of editing when you reserved!😆 Aur kamini, baad mein kyu? LazyLadki😆

Its true, the situation being portrayed in the show is the reality of some girls in some places in India. I do not think it will ever change as people are too thick headed to want to change such mentalities. Anyways, am lucky to have been brought up in a liberal household, is all I can say.

i am too lazy 😆😆😆
even i am lucky to born in a nice household and nice place... atleast they have freedom for women to talk even if they have reservation for women still the mentality of the people has not changed... and that is worst...
Edited by babydolll - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: pohana12

Agree with you
father daughter bond is amazing..even i loved the way he said & supported his daughter..! i seriously dislike gayatri mom how can she be so heartless ? i dnt what gayatri brothers are doing ? sometimes they seems postive like they love gayatri so much..but next moment supporting their wife ?

Gayatri's brothers wear their wives saris in the bedroom and the trousers are only for show. Their heads are full with BS and nothing else. They agreed with their wives who said a girl's house is never her maayka, but my question is why is the two brothers still residing with Govind Seth? They do not earn a living themselves, they survive thanks to their father's money, so who are they to tel Gayatri they cannot support her? Did Govind Seth ever ask them to support Gayatri? No, he is happy to do it himself till the day he dies, so whats their disgusting problem? Idiots of the highest orders they are.

The less said about the mother the better I think.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Very nice analysis julz n very well written. Haven't seen the full episode except first scene n for rest of d story I followed update. I really liked the fact that gayu character is not meek . She is very strong . At that time it wasn't possible for girls to speak for herself but here her father has educated her n never stopped her to follow her dreams . I'm happy finally her father said her daughter is not a burden on her. He will feed her until he dies. Her father is her only support system.

Julz...I loved d Gandhiji wali lines that you hv written here .

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