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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Snow_Angel

I agree with u but still I will say damayanti is not a negative character. she loves her daughter for sure but somehow her love is not more than the fear of society.. I m actually disappointed with her and everyone of gayaatris family but this is what reality of that time..So I will say we should stop over reacting for this small reasons as we already know this show is from a different era there will be lots of things of that era and CVS have to cover those all customs and believes to make it look more practical and also move forward the storyline

the least she can do is stop speaking those hurting dialogues
if she cannot make her daughter happy she has no right to hurt her too
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Posted: 10 years ago
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more like mother concerned only for society
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Drashtilove

that time was like this even now those type of mother exsist who think her daughter as a burden

yes they do exist today as well
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: .Verity.

I don't like people which don't love their daughters the same way like their sons and keep saying that their daughter hasn't got a home at her parents house, the inheritance and wealth of the father she can't live there with them, so what its not the end of the world if she never marries also. Why must they keep to the custom, why not leave her to stay in peace. They've got such a big house why can't she have a place there and let go of these silly customs that alienate their own daughter as if she is a stranger.

i know
a girl can live without marrying as well
she can be independent and live well
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Posted: 10 years ago
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i am not telling damayanti is a negative character
but now she is concerned only for the society
not at all for her daughter
this was not the last person on earth
whom gayatri could marry
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Gayatri's mother thoughts are regressive and total crap!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Damyanti's love for Gayatri is currently overshadowed by her fears. She is more concerned that what will society say, how Gayu will live after parents death but in the process she is not realizing that what she is doing will not help either.

But as she clearly mentioned, those days happiness of a girl didn't matter. Girls had no life of their own. Before marriage she depended on father & after marriage on husband. So Damyanti is behaving like this to just marry her daughter off to that Buddha as Gayu is not going to get good match being an "abhagan". But still Damyanti's behavior is getting on my nerves. Even if not, it looks like she just bothers abt her stupid 'zidd'

Perhaps she is using those harsh words so that Bauji & Gayu gets ready for marriage. But this is completely regressive. I am not liking her mother currently.


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: ArianaGrande

Gayatri's mother thoughts are regressive and total crap!

yes her thinking process is really twisted now
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: sam_DDzfan

Damyanti's love for Gayatri is currently overshadowed by her fears. She is more concerned that what will society say, how Gayu will live after parents death but in the process she is not realizing that what she is doing will not help either.


But as she clearly mentioned, those days happiness of a girl didn't matter. Girls had no life of their own. Before marriage she depended on father & after marriage on husband. So Damyanti is behaving like this to just marry her daughter off to that Buddha as Gayu is not going to get good match being an "abhagan". But still Damyanti's behavior is getting on my nerves. Even if not, it looks like she just bothers abt her stupid 'zidd'

Perhaps she is using those harsh words so that Bauji & Gayu gets ready for marriage. But this is completely regressive. I am not liking her mother currently.


same here i too do not agree with her
if she cannot give happiness to her daughter
she should at least not hurt her this way
she can wait for more matches
this is not the only man left on earth

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