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As a Punjabi kurri with roots from Hashiarpur and Multan, I hold my forehead, shake my head and say - fitymoo, durfitymoo, Ek hor shaadi? Shaadi ka sathianaas? Shaadi ka mazaak? Hmm Ab kya karein?😆 Oh my goodness, I sound like my Nani Ji! Fitymoo yet again lol 😆
For those who don't know what fitymoo means, it's best describes as a curse, condemnation in Punjabi. It can be used in both jest and in gussa. I'm confused in what context I want to use it - probably the latter as yes, I'm cursing the current track!
I really wish I could rewind back to before the park scene RaGna shared. I really wish Kalpi had never asked Raghav to go speak to her parents re her hand in marriage. this one request has led Ek Mutthi Aasmaan to it's biggest bharbaadi and our biggest nightmare - Raakhi ki Shaadi! Ultimately, this has led to one of the most ridiculous tracks I have ever watched on TV!
Ridiculous because:
- We have watched RaGna as children, the signs have always been there; the connection was beautiful and unique and they both understood each other. Quite simply, Kalpi was the Ying to Raghav's Yang. If we hadn't been exposed to such a beautiful relationship we may have tolerated the Raakhi wedding?
- Raghav's disappearance when he should be visiting Kalpi's parents - this was reckless, couldn't he just have discussed with Kalpi & rearranged the date? But NO! He was too busy sorting out her results. The results fiasco was shockingly executed and could've easily lasted for a few days longer & our Neetu ji could've been exposed? A positive message? Leikhen Nahin...What do I know? Who am I to make a suggestion? Chup kar Sheena, you are just another worthless fan!!
- The blessing of RaGna @ the the temple; RaGna received blessings from Bappa as a couple but ye behold, Kamlaa & Vitthal close their eyes & don't witness the blessing? Thanks to shocking editing we also miss the much needed hug scene!! Fitymoo bang went my Fangirling RaGna fix!!😡
- Sammy & Kalpi? Kabhi Nahin but we still suffer the most illogical and stupid track of 'Who's Kalpi's groom? First thing most people ask ask is the name?? No? Or is it just me that's pagal? Am I the illogical one?
- We get our Mahasangam and long awaited Promo!! We actually get a Saiyappan wala promo with let's guess who Raghav marries? Hints of a Raakhi shaadi aur show ki barbaadhi! I can't deny the rasms provided us with some much loved RaGna scenes leading to the balcony kiss but again poor editing re the fireworks took away that spark!! Who needs fireworks when we get our next level of ridiculousness?
- Kamlaa ka Hamlaa in the form of Chapayr ka Saiyappan Nmero Uno!! Kamlaa's slapping of Kalpi gave me rage as it ruined the engagement I honestly wanted to slap dumlaa in retaliation! How stupid did his mother look in front of her guests? Makes you wonder why Manda can't help but ridicule this family? Anyway, Kamlaa didn't care for Kalpi, all we heard was Paakhi blah blah blah heard it once, heard it a hundred times - fitymoo lecture shuroo - gaag this Saiyappan of a so called mother!
- Kamlaa's redemption is over in minutes and the drowning scene ridiculed by the infamous issstrong!! Mujhe maaf karo, but the tears and issstrong is ghuuu - (manure?)
- Bappa ka mazaak shuroo? Explains Bappa ki thullu's?Bappa is taking the braincells of CV's & has decided to release them when trps fall to 0.1?? Dumlaa, the sign that Bappa gave you was not just for RaGna shaadi but for you to give your daughter her full rights!! Kamlaa can never take advice only gives Saiyappan wala advice!! You are no Tulsi! She was so good she's now working for Modi!! !
- Shaadi itself - kurri left at the altar & even pundit gives up praying, he decides to nap, he's stopped praying, these people ridiculed his Bappa!! Let them reap, all that they sow!! Punish the Bai!! 😆
- Fans nightmare explodes on to our screens; Raghav turns up ...BUT not like a Punjabi Sher for his beloved Kalpi but a sullen looking groom with bimbo galore Paakhi on his arm! For me, this was THE suicide moment of the show. Chalo, pack up karo! Raghav you don't need to jump off a cliff for Kalpi as the CV's have done that job for you by killing your amazing & much loved character. Where is the Raghav Singhania that blew us away when he came back from the USA? Hmm, I guess all that bhindi he's been eating has literally fried his brain and all he can think of is, shaadi. This leads cunning RS to make the biggest mistake of his life Revenge over Love? RS finding his Ammi should have paid rest to Shaadi plans; leikhen Chalo, no drama is without drama... Should've left marriage well alone 😭😭
- Shaadi inevitably leads to talaak? Paakhi gets her much needed reality check (No sympathy whatsoever from me) and we have our infamous court/contract marriage? A few days later, divorce? Revenge is longer as important as I now need a divorce as I can't live without Kalpi? When did my favourite dus hazaar crore Malik become so indecisive and pagal? Bechara has lost the plot whilst living with Paakhi😆 Imagine how we viewers feel when she pops up on our screens? Forget Raghav, humari to barbaadhi hoti hain!!
- So now, Ek aur Shaadi? Do we thank the wonderful (not!!) Zee20 cricket match? Raghav finally sees Kalpi and his zidd begins again? Not to worry, bring in our Love Guru Sammy; Sammy will fix it!! His leverage?If Kalpi doesn't come, let her know, I will commit suicide!! Array Raghav baba, suicide happens once & CV's have killed your character. Why don't you blackmail Kalpi and save all RaGna fans and advocate the killing of Kamlaa so we get no more Hamlaa? If not, the way the shaadi ka circus and barbaadhi is going Raghav; you will be getting your very own COUGAR in the form of Kamlaa as your Dusree biwi😆😲 My kitty - I know you are advocating this hahahaha! Cougar Kamlaa lmfao - Really we are joking, this can't & won't happen!!
On a more serious note, I am truly miffed at how shaadi has been ridiculed by a show preaching righteousness & a positive message to society. How can people take this show seriously? CV's have quite literally destroyed the institution of marriage. I will agree, the second wife scenario isn't the end of the world but In this case, there was no need for the shaadi. If anything, Raghav is shown as being manipulative to woman and as much as I abhor Paakhi; she didn't have to be treated this badly and more importantly, didn't deserve the label of being his first wife 🤢
I do believe the show has been forced to take a U-turn because of the backlash from fans. I did warn PD in a precious post re the power of fans but who took heed? Nobody, but they zealously pursued the warped Raakhi shaadi with the promises of further twists??😲
who needs a twist when we are given Saiyappan after Saiyappan? Mention of a twist is a real trp killer. The importance of marriage needs to be reiterated ASAP and the execution of the story carried out to a standard we deserve! I am continuously losing hope re the shaadi being shown as fake, I just wish it was. WOOPS, best not raise my hopes I always get a Bappa ji ka thullu and my cursing continues 🤢😡😉
Let the revenge track begin; allow Raghav to have his Kalpi by his side; he must win her over; it shouldn't be easy but viewers are guaranteed bittersweet & epic RaGna moments. This can only be done when Raghav is SINGLE and then can he fill her maang with sindhoor& have his wicked way with her for all I care!!
Raghav needs to pull his designer socks up as he will need to protect Kalpi from Prem who is lurking around his prey like a Sher and waiting to pounce. Unfortunately, Raghav's stupidity has made Kalpi an easy target!! One thing is for sure, Prem cannot be our Sher!! He isn't our a hero!! CV's need to give Raghav his mojo back and let our Raghav Sher roar with his Sherni (wish it was me; but UFF it's not me 😕) hopefully, this will stop the show and concept of shaadi sinking and stop me from continuously cursing fitymoo & relying on written updates or RaGna & Rammy scenes only!!
Disclaimer: As usual, this is just my viewpoint, my continuous rantings. Please note, I have made references only to characters and no reference to actors as they hold no real value to me as they are doing a paid job of providing me a service & entertaining me!! I will only praise/criticise the job they are doing when I deem necessary. I'm not interested in their personal lives in anyway!!!
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