Much needed separation - Page 4

Beautiful post, I am sure everyone will agree that Ragna marriage track came too soon. We expected / wanted twists , separation etc. but not she way CVs did it.

Originally posted by: ifrini

Beautiful post, I am sure everyone will agree that Ragna marriage track came too soon. We expected / wanted twists , separation etc. but not she way CVs did it.

This marriage with someone else was unacceptable and that too with sister/ friend and to top it all, Paakhi is innocent in this, which makes it more harder. A chilld is paying for the misdeeds of her parents , not something one wants to approve. Between three of them, someone will always be hurt .. and as a mother Kamla will always be on loosing side.

Ratio is 2:1 Ragna happy , Paakhi sad . Ragna sad, Paakhi happy .. I guess more people happy is better na

Thanx...the more people merrier the better..if RAGNA happens, rags and kalpi defintely happy along with the vast majority of EMA fans..if RAKHI , only pakhi and satu happy with a minor sector of ema fans😆😆

Nice analysis amy.

Originally posted by: Syama_Luna

Nice analysis amy.

I agree with what you have said.

They still have to change internally for their love to mature.

Kalpi needs to build her self-esteem

[Quote]She needs to accept that not evrything is black or white

thanks..U know what...while writing this post although I wanted 2 balance out the equation between rags and kalpi, I was all anti-Raghav 4 what he did😡...but still deep down i knew that in a relationship both sides hav 2 work equally hard...only after jotting down my thoughts did I realise that Kalpi knew that rags was khadoos and had a terrible anger; she was trying to mould him with love into sum1 (like her dada) she thought was best!! Although she knew his deep rooted insecurites and fears she didnt fathom fully the extent of the injuries and its effects on his personality!! Now I hav started sympathising with rags but in no way support his method of action!!

Originally posted by: UB2500

Gr8 post!!! 👏

I agree wid u... RagNa's love n understanding isn't deep enf yet for such a hurried mrg...

I'd from the start of ths track foreseen separation, but the reasoning and path for this separation was quite beyond my expectations... I didn't want it this way...

But now I'm realising that it was a necessary twist... coz RagNa this track brot into the front many things, starting wid Raghav's mentality for revenge, which, evry1 knew for sure, Kalpi wud never accept... Raghav needs to mend his ways a lot... n another thing is Kalpi's expectations from him... the first thing she had assumed from Raghav was that she was his 1st n ultimate priority n he'd never choose nything or ny1 over her... n Raghav broke that expectation, n evn took such a wrong path...

I guess they both need more tym n xperience to undrstand each other...

tks..both raghav and kalpi had sky high expectations!! Raghav expected kalpi wud stand by him thru thick and thin!! Kalpi expected Raghav 2 accept not only her but her entire family (not just in the literal sense) whole heartedly...When Kalpi gave more importance 2 her aai 4 permission. Raghav was disappointed..even now although he knew he did wrong he wanted her 2 console him and soothe his pain...Kalpi has always looked up at her baba and wanted a life partner like her dad..4 her her family is everything..when the same family got hurt in the process she can not c anythin past that and hence the anger..she failed 2 realise that only she mattered 2 rags at the present and that he wud take time 2 open up fully 2 her fam!!

Originally posted by: amy.r

This is so true! Right and wrong cannot be decided based on black or white perceptions.

thanks..U know what...while writing this post although I wanted 2 balance out the equation between rags and kalpi, I was all anti-Raghav 4 what he did😡...but still deep down i knew that in a relationship both sides hav 2 work equally hard...only after jotting down my thoughts did I realise that Kalpi knew that rags was khadoos and had a terrible anger; she was trying to mould him with love into sum1 (like her dada) she thought was best!! Although she knew his deep rooted insecurites and fears she didnt fathom fully the extent of the injuries and its effects on his personality!! Now I hav started sympathising with rags but in no way support his method of action!!

i have a different views.you might be right on psychological analysis but do you think they need be separated to get over it and too in the way they have got separated. I don't think so. Do you think it is possible to completely mend each others flaws and then marry.that noone in this world can get married. Your relationship grows after marriage and if you love your partner..this understanding ,mutual mending,adjustment happens naturally. No they could have delayed the wedding but this separation wasnot called for

Originally posted by: ANewFan

i have a different views.you might be right on psychological analysis but do you think they need be separated to get over it and too in the way they have got separated. I don't think so. Do you think it is possible to completely mend each others flaws and then marry.that noone in this world can get married. Your relationship grows after marriage and if you love your partner..this understanding ,mutual mending,adjustment happens naturally. No they could have delayed the wedding but this separation wasnot called for

If u read thru my post as well as my other comments, never for once did I support separation in this way nor hav I stated that marry only after u know a person in and out...I didnt mean separation in the literal sense...I meant the whole marriage was rushed.THis is a major step in their lives.They needed to take a step back and wait till their love matures and then take the plunge..By the way, I am in no way qualified to make a psychological analysis😉 my views r entirely my views...and might I add aftr marriage it is not necessary that adjustments happen successfully!!😊

I do agree...seperation was much needed but not in the way they showed us... 👎🏼
Revenge,ditchinv kalpu on wedding day,Forced RaKhi...
Naa i didn't like this track at all

#TeamKalpana

well update i totally agree with u.they must show in otherway.