Kalpana Jadhav:'The pride, light and shadow of our lives'

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_innocent_

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Posted: 11 years ago

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@Shali, I always try to understand Kamla Ma's stance, in fact in every post I have made so far I have defended her actions (albeit it has not stop me from questioning her either- basically am a confused and dumb soul when it comes to Kamla😆)

Like I said to Shana in my explanation above your comment, I understand that Pakhi is her responsibility and Kalpana is her pride and joy, but its just the manner in which she chooses to express herself that really gets under my skin! I have seen instances in the past, where she has truly stood by her daughter, but her faith in Kalpana is not strong, and that frightens me. Yes, she does have the belief that her daughter will fulfill her dreams but at the same time, it does not take even one second for her to doubt it! The reason I say this is because when the whole bribery incident occurred, she instantly believed Kalpi had failed, she did not possess an ounce of confidence in her daughter. And honestly having watched previous episodes where she claims because Kalpi is her blood, she ought to understand why her mother loves social servicing, but Kalpi was a child who grew up to become a disturbed teenager, until very recently when began to see things in perspectives. (so that has always been my issue with her.). I do not doubt whether or not she loves Kalpi, because that is a given, I just want her to show-cast that love and affection openly. (like she did today, she was so proud of her daughter, and how beautiful was that scene?)-

I hope you're right about Raghav taking a stand, because I too am placing all my money on him if by chance Kalpi changes her mind. (Thank you so much for your input.😳)

@Shana, 😆 Today Kalpi told Raghav, he charges like a teenager, so precap mein he is taking it easy😉😆😆-- And yaar, am always objective- its the only way to enjoy the show😆😆 and my rants are the only way to keep myself entertained in this forum😆

@Nandy!- No probz bud!🤗

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_innocent_

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Amelia, Amelia!!😆 Your tuts tuts were so distracting😆- Even I have work, and look at what am doing- writing essays here instead of focusing that energy where it truly belongs😆😆

Kalpi's *yes, I do* has basically given him a green light😆😆 He kept on touching her today- under every pretenses and it was so funny😆😆😆- You're absolutely right about the girl getting all the heat, and that is one thing Raghav has not understood- because if you remember the pre holi argument, he shouted at her for explaining herself to those random rambos on the street😆- and he was right, why worry about society? But alas when you're poor, you have no choice but to worry because it gets shove down your throat, whether or not you want it.

Areee yaar, tune toh shaadi ki bhi sapne dekhli?😆 But whilst on this subject😆 already he is having such a difficult time controlling, so once the pheres are done am sure he would pick her up and make a run for it🤣 But on a serious note, you're right, him touching her, is his way of ensuring to himself, that she is there, and this happiness of his is not a dream. (very nicely put Amelia)😳

This RagNa angle with Pakhi and Kamla's interference is going to be good drama! Because this will be the first time Kalpi is going to really open her heart and allow Kamla to see inside her soul! 😃 And once that is done, no Pookhi will stand in her way, that's a given.😛 But I do hope Raghav uses his brain and power to ensure any plans of ruining RagNa are shoved down the behind of those trying to ruin them.😆 Kamla might be hesistant at first, because Pakhi has made her believe Raghav loves her, so I would forgive her there, but Raghav would need to open up his heart and tell Kamla what he feels, only then she will understand that there is no point ruining 3 lives.

The Kalpana I knew immediately post leap would not have sacrificed anything, not even for her Aai, so I want that Kalpi back because her Raghav will need his sherni😛. (ok am done😆)

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pop77

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Posted: 11 years ago

#33

Nice post..All said true..Kalpi is fighter..Kamla wants her to fill her dream..She never push Pakya for that..
I am sure when she said about Ragav she might not let him go for Pakhi even is Aai..

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mandu

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Posted: 11 years ago

#34

I absolutely love all of the above that you have written and especially the bolded part

Mandu

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Dee (Daisy)

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Posted: 11 years ago

#35

Wow that was some post, amazing and beautifully put.

I can't stop admiring Kalpana too, how can one not; she truly is an amazing person, so broken yet so strong, so principled and yet so emotional.

She deserves all the love, attention and pampering Raghav gives her cause I guess this is the first time she truly is made to feel so special, ofcourse Vithal does it in his one way cause he's always been there for her but Vithal's attention to Kalpi is sometimes split because of his love for Kamala.

But for Raghav, Kalpana always comes first and I'm sure Kalpi will realize this soon as to how much she means to Raghav.

More than anything I want Kalpi to become more emotionally stronger, more confident in her self and her abilities and I feel Raghav will get be pivotal in helping her get rid of her insecurities and get her more confident too

Dee

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Manoshono

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Posted: 11 years ago

#36

Originally posted by: ameilia
Beautiful post Jules👏
I have work to do but this forum is too damn addictive.
Guys i dnt think Kalpi will sacrifice her love for Paakhi.She has seen Paakhi get the love of her mother that she has yearned for.
When Kamla finds out that Kalpi loves Raghav i am sure she'll make 101 reasons on why they cant be together.I bet one of those reasons would be that Rags love Pookie Tuts and not Kapli.
She is well under the assumption because of under Pookie tuts recent revelations.
Be rest assured Raghav wont sacrifice his love for anyone.Kalpana is the one person aside from his mother that Raghav loves more than anything else in the world.I dnt think he'll let her go that easily and when he finds out its for his father's murderer daughter...there's no way in hell he'll listen to anyone.
Kamla will bring in 1000 reasons why Kalpi and Raghav cant be together.I am sure he'll counter each one of her questions with a befitting reply.He did the same to Kalpi when she tried to stay away.I dnt think Rags would be happy to know that Pookie Tuts delusions are influencing the thoughts and actions of Kamla.
As for Kalpi,she was deprived enough of love from her mother.She doesnt share any close knitted friendship with Pookie Tuts for her to sacrifice.If Kamla gets involved and we know she will then we might end up seeing Kalpi revealing her feelings about being deprived and ignored all these years.
Coming to today's episode,I loved how Kalpi is opening up little by little.Her shyness adds so much flavour to the scene with Raghav's approaches.
She's a bit conscious and most girls like her are but its only because of society.A poor girl spending time with a rich guy...sadly its always the girl to face the heat.
I am so glad to see Raghav this touchy touchy...makes me thinks they'll actually do what normal people do on their first night☺️unlike most serials who make us wait months.🥱
Thats me just being a dreamer there but i want to point out that Raghav doesnt just touch her becaz of any impatience of any kind.He touches her because he knows how close and dear she is to him so he just wants to feel her physically to make sure he's not dreaming.This is his reality.He finally found a reason to live not just breathe.He doesnt want to sleep because life for him has gotten to good for him to miss anything.

Amy! 🤗 May your prediction comes true! Btw, I tweeted u on twitter 😛 while peach and I were chit chatting.

I believe in Raghav and his vocality about his true feelings for Kalpi. He ain't letting go even if she wishes. He will be ready with his practical lectures like before if she dared to decide to part ways. Raghav is one strong character in that sense. Kalpi might not even attempt to sacrifice as she is too open about her personal choices but there might be a possibility in which she might feel that she must do to obey her mother.

And Pookie. Well she is going to suffer because of her parents deeds. And I would wait for the day when Raghav give her a good reality check so she gets out from her delusional dreams. It's important if she gets it as soon as possible otherwise she will have to suffer a heart break and it will be only her fault.

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_innocent_

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: drdee142
Wow that was some post, amazing and beautifully put.
I can't stop admiring Kalpana too, how can one not; she truly is an amazing person, so broken yet so strong, so principled and yet so emotional.

She deserves all the love, attention and pampering Raghav gives her cause I guess this is the first time she truly is made to feel so special, ofcourse Vithal does it in his one way cause he's always been there for her but Vithal's attention to Kalpi is sometimes split because of his love for Kamala.

But for Raghav, Kalpana always comes first and I'm sure Kalpi will realize this soon as to how much she means to Raghav.

More than anything I want Kalpi to become more emotionally stronger, more confident in her self and her abilities and I feel Raghav will get be pivotal in helping her get rid of her insecurities and get her more confident too

Dee

Dee, @bold, you've made a very good point!! I conquer with that statement, because we have seen it a number of times! Vithal has always been impartial in front of Kalpi when advising her that her Aai loves her too but she has another daughter to look after. And Vithal was equally frustrated with Kamla, but he never showed it to Kalpi! Vithal's respect for Kamla prevents him from directly attacking her on the issue and settle it for once and for all. In fact he too makes peace with whatever she has to say, and moves on.

Rest, you've said it perfectly, leaving me with little to add😆 Although, I would say Raghav has spent his life working ahrd to achieve the status he sits on right now, with no-one he loves to flash the money on, and then came Kalpana, a girl who needs him just as much as he needs her, and he is ready to pamper her, and why wouldn't he? Kalpi has found someone who is willing to put her first, and make her their duniya, and she totally deserves it.😳

@red! You said it!😛

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Burns n Trolls

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Posted: 11 years ago

#38

Originally posted by: _innocent_

@red! You said it!😛

Well.. let me comment here.. saying.. till date .. Raghav had no one.. but am sure.. regarding.. split love case.. once raghav gets Kalpi.. he will also have his mother on side, for whom he has always craved for ..!!
And.. trust me.. Cherry on cake is for Kalpi.. as she is to get love from both of them..! Raghav plus Gauri..!!!😉😉😉😉😉

And something I want Kalpi to realize is.. Raghav is hurt and wounded bird, who is finally healing, cuz of her.. and he Needs HER>. as she is the only one who can give him all care and nurture..!! No paakhi or Kamla can ever understand this..!! A mother who never understood her own biological daughter would be pointless to provide explaination to about Raghav's emotional needs, which Kalpi can provide him..!!
So.. It's best if she takes a stand here.. saying mom.. u always had paakhi.. but raghav just has me..!! .. and I am not leaving him for ur paakhi this time.. that's it..!!

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Dee (Daisy)

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Posted: 11 years ago

#39

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

Dee, @bold, you've made a very good point!! I conquer with that statement, because we have seen it a number of times! Vithal has always been impartial in front of Kalpi when advising her that her Aai loves her too but she has another daughter to look after. And Vithal was equally frustrated with Kamla, but he never showed it to Kalpi! Vithal's respect for Kamla prevents him from directly attacking her on the issue and settle it for once and for all. In fact he too makes peace with whatever she has to say, and moves on.

Rest, you've said it perfectly, leaving me with little to add😆 Although, I would say Raghav has spent his life working ahrd to achieve the status he sits on right now, with no-one he loves to flash the money on, and then came Kalpana, a girl who needs him just as much as he needs her, and he is ready to pamper her, and why wouldn't he? Kalpi has found someone who is willing to put her first, and make her their duniya, and she totally deserves it.😳

@red! You said it!😛

Well.. let me comment here.. saying.. till date .. Raghav had no one.. but am sure.. regarding.. split love case.. once raghav gets Kalpi.. he will also have his mother on side, for whom he has always craved for ..!!
And.. trust me.. Cherry on cake is for Kalpi.. as she is to get love from both of them..! Raghav plus Gauri..!!!😉

And something I want Kalpi to realize is.. Raghav is hurt and wounded bird, who is finally healing, cuz of her.. and he Needs HER>. as she is the only one who can give him all care and nurture..!! No paakhi or Kamla can ever understand this..!! A mother who never understood her own biological daughter would be pointless to provide explaination to about Raghav's emotional needs, which Kalpi can provide him..!!
So.. It's best if she takes a stand here.. saying mom.. u always had paakhi.. but raghav just has me..!! .. and I am not leaving him for ur paakhi this time.. that's it..!!

@ RED!

This is what I wanna see happening too, Kalpana has to understand Raghav'e emotional state and his dependence on her and that for once that she is the center of the universe for Raghav and she needs to be with him

She also needs to understand that if Kamala really loves her then she should understand Kalpi and be happy for her.

I would hate to see a sacrificing Kalpi, that would be so like the Ekta dramas and EMA would loose it's essence

Dee