Kalpana Teri Koi Zidd toh Nai??? - Page 4

Originally posted by: ShanUlas

though i did not like kalapna dialogue on mere ghar me and all...it was not needed ...raghav was wrong and u dont need to bring my house ur house to make him realise that...simply a silence...would make him realise his mistake


raghav and kalpi both need to understand each other ...raghav needs to give kalpi her space and make her understand his ways in a bit toned down manner ...thats it

kalpi ne to ghar rearrange kiya hai ...raghav baba ...how will u bear ur children who will rearrange ur whole life ...or is he planning to have two dogs and no kids !!!

IN addition.
Put those vase back... Crockery back.. see how Raghav broke it more..?? 😆 Put books back, and frame up..!!

end up asking, is there something else I need to do??? rendering Raghav speechless with guilt... and leave...

But Shana.. I am glad for those words of my world and ur world... without that.. how would Raghav realize.. that how he has been just creating a gap between two worlds rather then bridging.. and that somewhere.. it has always been raghav... who had added it previously... so.. how raghav had done in past.. I have explained it.. well in post or comment referring to Anum... on pg. 3 last post.. of this thread..!!

It was much needed episode..

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

I don't remember using the term OCD in my whole passage.. I could never use that word.. being into the field of Psychology..!! Because.. that's not my job... he is plain: Aggressive, Arrogant, Stubborn..!!

and... Trust and Faith.. are at most missing in their relationship.. Respect toh I can see Kalpi... having it..!!! Raghav... has that ego issue..!!

What I felt bad was... that of my title.. this stubborness of Raghav.. had it... I was simply pondering on words of Sammy, when he said.. Kahin Kalpi.. tumhari koi aur zidd toh nahin... u know there is always a difference between the two terms..
Zidd and Love..!!! For what I could see Raghav these days.. I too could him.. being more of ziddi kind of person... and in two forms.. sweet ways, and angry way..! Zidd... that u need to arrange party, Zidd .. I will make u say ILU, Zidd.. Party is there so that he can spend time with kalpi..!!
Kalpi.. has ended up being part of that zidd list...!!!

Originally posted by: nandinidavid96

Lol...meri maa when I said OCD, I wasn't referring to you, that was general, I have seen that in some replies... Shall I put a disclaimer😆.

Kalpi has respect for Raghav but just as a Boss and Raghav has big fat ego... he is still a boss while pursuing Kalpi, treating her as subordinate

Lol.. I know Nandini.. u aren't telling it to me.. let me clarify that sentence was just to indirectly tell u that I agree.. Raghav doesn't have OCD, and you pointed it out.. which I might easily forget..!!!

And yeah Raghav.. he still wants Kalpi to call him Raghav.. whereas... He is still the boss..!!
I am wondering how confession will change either of them...

I am more of a silent reader on the forum but I feel like posting today 😆:

I don't know about u guys but in my opinion kalpi didn't do anything wrong if ur in a home things don't stay in same place. . She's waiting for Sammy she read some books so what if they were on table, howant times have u put ur book back right away Nd raghav only has it for decoration. She was placing those glasses on table then decided to change places And he rang doorbell so she went to answer it . He is planning a party things will be moved to make room and Sammy is right a house is made with happiness not everything being in its place and the way he's like these glasses were frfrom Belgium well where is it written on them a glass is a glass

@nandini people do suffers with OCD. I have seen many cases. In this matter Rags is some what suffering from it and I am not saying over all. The only part which made me think is the way how he wants to keep everything organized. Its a good thing to be organized but, If a slightest thing moves here or there or an example like;why aren't the books are on shelf? Then you know something is really wrong with the person. You can't live like this all your life, can you? I wouldn't probably live with a person like him if I have to tolerate his likes and dislikes in such ways. I wouldn't even have time to understand him if I get engage with all of his other weird behaviors. People should adjust in everything because you dont not know what might your future really holds for you.

Sometimes, one has to let go certain things which aren't a big deal nor required. At this point of time, like Shana said: see beyond your worlds. No need to include "my house or your house" in this matter. There are many other things which are more important than these small matters.

The end words are still that "they need to spare sometime and talk"

Originally posted by: Manoshono

Yes! But I think he never wanted to be upset on Kalpi even before when he use to have such arguments. It was just the way how he use to live his life. He never wanted things to become his Zidh, but since his past has been really scary, his actions always seemed to be justified in that sense.

What I am happy about is that CVs didn't change him at all, like you were getting upset about the other day. Both of them are in their correct place. The only difference I would like to see is the calmness in them. Their hyperventilation isn't required in those arguents, rather they have to keep it cool a little.

Today, I just loved his actions..!! and Anum... I know and have been knowing...that none of his past actions ... ever meant to hurt kalpi.. and neither today's action... But it did... probably.. and Kalpi has always been clear... whenever his actions or words have hurt her... and he still choses same ways.. because that's the way he is.. and if that's the way, he plans (or would have planned ) to continue dealing with.. then, sammy's words where totally justified, why should, Kalpi tell him yes??? Couldn't kalpi find someone who can get things in calmest way, particularly, when Kalpi is a girl, who has always tried to look for person like Vitthal in her life...!! and Raghav is not even inch close Vitthal.. (umm.. waise.. centimeters.. mein thode centimeters he could haan... both are good at heart..😆😆😆)

CVs.. they keep on switching his character confusing me in and out... At times I feel how nice is Raghav... and other times I am like.. hunn?? whats going on.. so.. I am not commenting on change at all..
But I am confused about Raghav and totally confused..!! What...?? What was he doing yesterday... He going after Kalpi.. welcoming her..!!! etc...

Equally Kalpi... is she regretting .. things at her home still come from dadar to virar..??😆😆

anum agree talk is needed and equally needed is lots and lots of love ...coz u really need lot of courage to live with aman like raghav and i feel its only love that can give kalpi the courage

and as for raghav if he really wants kalpi around he has to tone down and sometimes just ignore if he cant adjust ... and u u need to do so if u really want ur precious thing around

yeh ,, I infact only stuck on that dialogue,,, "Kahin kalpana bhi koi teri zidd toh nahin jisse tu puri karna chahta hai" Gossh Ragahv was acceptable but sammy was also In mood today😆

Originally posted by: Manoshono

@nandini people do suffers with OCD. I have seen many cases. In this matter Rags is some what suffering from it and I am not saying over all. The only part which made me think is the way how he wants to keep everything organized. Its a good thing to be organized but, If a slightest thing moves here or there or an example like;why aren't the books are on shelf? Then you know something is really wrong with the person. You can't live like this all your life, can you? I wouldn't probably live with a person like him if I have to tolerate his likes and dislikes in such ways. I wouldn't even have time to understand him if I get engage with all of his other weird behaviors. People should adjust in everything because you dont not know what might your future really holds for you.

Sometimes, one has to let go certain things which aren't a big deal nor required. At this point of time, like Shana said: see beyond your worlds. No need to include "my house or your house" in this matter. There are many other things which are more important than these small matters.

The end words are still that "they need to spare sometime and talk"

There could be Anum...
But I have literally met people with real time OCD, while going to clinics for observation... They have problem against each and everything...
No.. for sure.. a Big No.. for Raghav to be called a person.. Those, movings of place can cause irritations.. but person, with OCD, wouldn't really accept it too easily.. the way he said... Toh Kya hua agar ghar thoda bikhra pada hai.. ...!!>>?? It was just his nature.. and not the disorder.. as a layman.. people do end up mixing or overlabelling the behaviour...!!
It's like a child.. if he jumps around too much and doesn't sit in one place... child probably has ADHD... and that's now how disorders are to be classified..
Though his actions were probably a kind of clue for future, then dunno.. but I am sure.. this will never be repeated by him.. it was just a moment.. of realization.. he need not react...
I could call him impulsive... or vulnerable to OCD.. but not a person with it..!!
Probably.. in future to add and streatch they could involve psychological disorder as such, to confirm the disorder.. and see Kalpi dealing with this... and how she helps him manage it..!! and stuff.. but I don't want the sudden coming up of symptoms of high level.. OCD, after psychologist detects it in future tracks..!! Lol.. High level.. could be a dangerous one... like we had Viraj Dobriyal.. and mild one I just described it.. and low is the one in which... it's just small things.. and controllable.. impulsses..