Kalpana Teri Koi Zidd toh Nai??? - Page 6

Originally posted by: foram.

btw OCD kya hai😆

It's obsessive compulsive disorder.. foram..!!
where in person is totally like.. a freak of order and places... and are particular about their own possessions... dare anyone mess with that..!!
They tend to lose their control over small things..!!

Why is spoon not straight, (in case if spoon on table is tilted..)

or other type could be.. the one I have dealt with had... the thing... of insecurity..!!

Like.. the guy... who locks the door and leaves for work.. visits back home n number of times to make sure.. he has locked it properly.. in fact opens it and confirms if he has turned off electricity or not.. which makes their personality.. really difficult to deal with..!!

Often... the kind of behavior Raghav displays..!!

Originally posted by: Sanjuniki

I was shocked to Raghav shouting like that to kalpana..but...after some time i felt it is done in a realistic way..i have seen people like this.he stayed all alone...so he didn't adjust with anybody...he didn't share any thing with any family member. It was done very well.i mean..these things bound to happen. He is learning his lessons hard way.

Originally posted by: atulya1

Very true... A guy who had been so lonely in his life where these household things probably had been his only companion...things that are only constant in his life...so sharing that space with someone else no matter how imp they are WD b lil difficult initially. Let's not be so harsh on him... He's learning things his way...well the significance is not only he is changing gradually, he not only acknowledged that he is wrong but ready to mend things as well... Honestly, can we change for someone we love,no matter how much, overnight??? Sejal... He is an interesting personality to read.. Don't u think??

Atulya..!! I am sorry.. but I Fail to understand this character in and out.. is it the way they have portrayed by CVs or something related to the show..
But character has been totally inconsistent..!! At times.. rude and plain rude..
Every since confession scene.. Raghav Singhaniya has become mystery for me..!!
He confesses, he is angry with himself for mess, by saying.. *Oh No, yeh maine kya kar liya, paakhi ke badle Kalpi ko..., How could I forget my revenge, how could I lose my dad's revenge aims.., I couldn't identify those eyes.." It was like he isn't even ready to accept it yet.. and other moment we see him fallen into depth of sea of love..
People would disagree with me.. but I often do end up comparing Paakhi and Raghav's love.. We call Paakhi's character as lustful, whereas Raghav is in love... either way.. both have soo much similarity ... At times, Paakhi's character seems to be way more realistic.. though in dream land she is ready to wait.. for Raghav.. it's impatience... and running behind Kalpi.. which had made me sick..!! and next moment he is again angry young men to her..!!

And funniest part is.. every time he scolds into arrogant young man.. he ends up apologizing first..!!

Alright apart from some serious talks here. When is the party?😛 Now CVs better not give us those scenes next Friday!

Originally posted by: Manoshono

Alright apart from some serious talks here. When is the party?😛 Now CVs shouldn't better not give us those scenes next Friday!

don worry party kal hi start ho jayegi and if i am rite in my prediction then confession will be on monday just like raghav's confession was on monday😛

Originally posted by: Manoshono

Your OCD doesn't necessarily have to be extreme for you to completely have that in your system. It has different stages and people having it in them tends to behave differently. Not everyone feels the same about it and not everyone really gets to know if they are actually suffering from it. I might say this about myself that I may have an OCD, but not too extreme. I do behave like Raghav sometimes if I see that someone in the house has kept my things other than where I have kept them. It's natural and you dont need to be embarrass about it. But sometimes, I do let things go. It's about who are you dealing with. If my mother in law has done it then I wouldn't go up to her and say " who gave you the right to change my things and place it somewhere else"? You behave differently with different people. And that's what Rags need to see. If he has considered Kalpi his world then give her the place in your world so she can feel it home rather than a prison living in the jail. And Kalpi too needs to adjust and see what his likes and dislikes. Thora buht to is ok na. I get sick whenever she starts lecturing him about my world and your world. It's really irritating to my ears. She needs to work on that and see things differently.

Disliking Mess, and unorganized things doesn't have to do with OCD...
It's how u handle it.. Lol.. U know something Anum.. it's like.. when I had to study those list of disorders in my text... and It's like I have this disorder, oh no, I have this too... yeh bhi hai mereko..

But.. dude.. maintaining ur sanity is something missing ... That bolded line is enough to say.. that u r personality who likes cleanliness... (Just like my mom🤢.. sorry.. lol.. but I am not one of those.. so.. for my I have to hear lectures from her... )... But... that doesn't mean you have OCD... and I am assuring.. u don't even have it in mini-miney-mo level .. Lol..
Regarding Rags... I am still not going to count it as OCD..
He has that personality which is arrogant, and stubborn that's it..!! But still maintains his sanity.. none of his actions so far.. (except for character inconsistency, for which i blame CVs..) have said.. he could be psychologically unfit..!!

Originally posted by: Mihika

don worry party kal hi start ho jayegi and if i am rite in my prediction then confession will be on monday just like raghav's confession was on monday😛

I too feel the same.. confession on Monday..!! But..

Well tomorrow.. would be another drag..
It's like.. Raghav following Kalpi and Tai in hospital and hits and misses of the taai and raghav..!!
He may try pulling Kalpi out.. but let's see..!!

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

Disliking Mess, and unorganized things doesn't have to do with OCD...
It's how u handle it.. Lol.. U know something Anum.. it's like.. when I had to study those list of disorders in my text... and It's like I have this disorder, oh no, I have this too... yeh bhi hai mereko..

But.. dude.. maintaining ur sanity is something missing ... That bolded line is enough to say.. that u r personality who likes cleanliness... (Just like my mom🤢.. sorry.. lol.. but I am not one of those.. so.. for my I have to hear lectures from her... )... But... that doesn't mean you have OCD... and I am assuring.. u don't even have it in mini-miney-mo level .. Lol..
Regarding Rags... I am still not going to count it as OCD..
He has that personality which is arrogant, and stubborn that's it..!! But still maintains his sanity.. none of his actions so far.. (except for character inconsistency, for which i blame CVs..) have said.. he could be psychologically unfit..!!

The end to discussion of OCD..!!

Now.. party time..!!

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

I too feel the same.. confession on Monday..!! But..

Well tomorrow.. would be another drag..
It's like.. Raghav following Kalpi and Tai in hospital and hits and misses of the taai and raghav..!!
He may try pulling Kalpi out.. but let's see..!!

i think he will persuade her to complete her job of arranging the party while he will think of the surprise. i don knw why but i am thinking that may the surprise idea will come out from gouri's mind i mean raghav will ask for her help indirectly knowing how akdoo he is and then gouri gives the idea of surprise. ab maa se baat karne ka kuch toh faida milna hi chahiye na raghav ko.. what say😉😉and here sammy ( sammy's chances are more ) will make sure kalpi goes to the party at any cost and gouri offcourse will make sure kalpi look stunning😛😉