My first post on RagNa

(simply creating this post, as soni said that, if we make more posts , EMA's rating will increase)

2 Reasons for Raghav's indirect help:-

As we all know that the main reason is because Raghav is scared to make relationships as he is afraid of loosing them based on past experience, so he tries to help kalpi indirectly so that she does not develop any feelings for him and does not get distracted from pursuing her mothers dream for which she is working hard since childhood, he does not want her to loose the focus on her goal, otherwise all these years hardwork will get wasted.

Another reason (which is also know to everyone here), is that he knows that she does not like taking help from others.But I want to elaborate on this by connecting it to the pen wala scene of their childhood.So I am recalling that scene eventhough I know that RagNa fans can never forget that scene.

In that scene when kalpi was struggling to solve the maths problems which were very tough, raghav saw her, he immediately went to her and sat next to her(on the floor, so nice of him ), took her book and solved the maths problem quickly and when he was about to leave, kalpi questioned him, how did he get the right answer and how would she know it, and if he solved the problem just for show off sake? Then he again sits down and questions her if she asked him to explain her the problem, then she questions him why did'nt he inform her that he could solve the problem.Then he explains the solution clearly, step by step, by giving her the formule to solve such problems.When she learns the formule she tries to solve other maths problems/sums and also suceeds in solving few, after a while when her pen's ink get over, Raghav offers her his pen, and though she hesitates , he tells her not to be stubborn and use the pen, when she takes it and completes the all the sums and tries to return the pen, he asks her to keep it, when she refuses, he says, I know that u will say aai told not to take others things, but because u solved all the sums so well , I am giving u the pen as an appreciation and he makes sure she keeps the pen.

As we all Know that Raghav remembers every detail related to kalpi and their childhood incidents(like the blame put on kalpi for stealing money), and knows and understands her so well, I think he also remembers this pen incident aswell and also what they both spoke during this incident may be. In this childhood scene kalpi did not wanted raghav to solve her problem but she wanted to learn the method/formule from him, which will help her in solving the problems by herself, so now Raghav is not helping her directly but 1st he is giving her the chance to fight for herself and if she does not succeed then he will indirectly give her the idea which help her solve the problems she is going to face( I somehow feel that in the washroom scene raghav was purposely playing with his mobile phone indirectly hinting her that she can make a call, even if there are no signals in his mobile( if there are no signals how could he work from his mobile coz internet will also not run, so he was making an excuse that she is irritating him while he was trying hard to work), she can actually search and find the inter com and call to the concerned staff for getting the door unlocked) and how in the childhood incident after solving few problems the ink in kalpi's finishes, he lends his pen to her , so even now whenever kalpi is tired of fighting her problems, he will always motivate and encourage her by challenging her , because she is always ready to take on challenges which give hers more positive energy to fight and prove herself so she becomes determined to achieve her goal. So in this way he is always there for her but he will never solve her problems but will simply guide her, just because he knows that this is what she wants and expects coz she wants to be successful in her life just by her hard work and determination and not because of somebody's help.

Reg RagNa vs Rakhi,

I really hope RagNa happens, I am sure there is no scope for Rakhi and if there is a love story in this serial it will surely be RagNa.

And also kalpi has a very special relationship with raghav and it is not just because she is kamla maa's daughter, because if raghav cares for kalpi as she is kamala's daughter then there is no need for him to listen to kalpi's taunts and bear with her rude (actually not rude, may be cold ) behaviour, tease her and have fun in irritating her and enjoy her anger.

There is an invisible comfort zone between RagNa coz both of them are their natural self when they are together, she does not speak to him sweetly, but she is quite straight forward and just herself( eg: in pune scene, their 1^st encounter she tells him on his face that she does'nt have time to speak/argue with him and leaves, in the wash room scene the way she asks him irritatedly "kya hai" and " Pagal hogaye ho kya" , though by that time she did not know his identity, but even when she came to know that he is Raghav her behaviour did not change (in the car scene, when he offers her chips, instead of thanking him and saying no, she asks him "aapko khaane ki padi hai, mujhe to aai aur chawl ki chinta horahi hai, I don't remember the exact dialogue sorry) and even dares to question him regarding the proofs for the chawl.She even scolded Raghav directly during the night scene when some boys were troubling her by comparing him with those chichoore.

Inspite of kalpi's rude behaviour, there relationship does not get effected, he still cares for her and does not mind it.

Kalpi never tries to act sweet with Raghav and does not try to impress him like pakhi..

Pakhi can never be her natural self with him, because if she herself, then her immaturity, insensitivity and interfering nature will be in front of Raghav and he is going to loose the little respect he has for her.So when she can't be her natural self in her relationship with Raghav, how can true love happen.

Also if RaKhi happens, Raghav is not going to get anything from this relationship, pakhi cannot understand the turmoil /pain in his life.Even though raghav finds the kapoors especially Pakhi entertaing now, if he spends time more time with her, he will find her irritating.So he can't be happy.He can never forgive the kapoors for what they have done, infact Pakhi herself will not forgive her parents when she will know the truth about Raghav's dad's death because she is a nice girl.So in Raghav's life it will be only him and pakhi, and whenever he sees her he might remember his bitter past.So if RaKhi happens, it will spoil 3 lives.

But if RagNa happens, Raghav can be at his mischievous best with kalpi and enjoy life.He will get parents love from kamla and vittal, a new friend cum bro in law in Pakhya(together they can tease kalpi), a sweet sister in Pakhi(who will tie him Rakhi, and he can do her Raksha like he does now), and of course the best wife in Kalpi... So he will get a complete family, which he never had and might have always desired ... So Raghav will be kush, so will we...

I also wish pakhi gets true love in her life and a person who will always be with her and love her unconditionally coz she too deserves this, So I am happy if SaKhi happens...coz then it will be double love stories and double dhamaal for all EMA fans (its actually triple coz KamlaVittals love story will always be shown) ...

Sorry my dear friends for making this post lengthy... and thanks for bearing with it.

Originally posted by: dalur

(simply creating this post, as soni said that, if we make more posts , EMA's rating will increase)

2 Reasons for Raghav's indirect help:-

As we all know that the main reason is because Raghav is scared to make relationships as he is afraid of loosing them based on past experience, so he tries to help kalpi indirectly so that she does not develop any feelings for him and does not get distracted from pursuing her mothers dream for which she is working hard since childhood, he does not want her to loose the focus on her goal, otherwise all these years hardwork will get wasted.

Another reason (which is also know to everyone here), is that he knows that she does not like taking help from others.But I want to elaborate on this by connecting it to the pen wala scene of their childhood.So I am recalling that scene eventhough I know that RagNa fans can never forget that scene.

In that scene when kalpi was struggling to solve the maths problems which were very tough, raghav saw her, he immediately went to her and sat next to her(on the floor, so nice of him ), took her book and solved the maths problem quickly and when he was about to leave, kalpi questioned him, how did he get the right answer and how would she know it, and if he solved the problem just for show off sake? Then he again sits down and questions her if she asked him to explain her the problem, then she questions him why did'nt he inform her that he could solve the problem.Then he explains the solution clearly, step by step, by giving her the formule to solve such problems.When she learns the formule she tries to solve other maths problems/sums and also suceeds in solving few, after a while when her pen's ink get over, Raghav offers her his pen, and though she hesitates , he tells her not to be stubborn and use the pen, when she takes it and completes the all the sums and tries to return the pen, he asks her to keep it, when she refuses, he says, I know that u will say aai told not to take others things, but because u solved all the sums so well , I am giving u the pen as an appreciation and he makes sure she keeps the pen.

As we all Know that Raghav remembers every detail related to kalpi and their childhood incidents(like the blame put on kalpi for stealing money), and knows and understands her so well, I think he also remembers this pen incident aswell and also what they both spoke during this incident may be. In this childhood scene kalpi did not wanted raghav to solve her problem but she wanted to learn the method/formule from him, which will help her in solving the problems by herself, so now Raghav is not helping her directly but 1st he is giving her the chance to fight for herself and if she does not succeed then he will indirectly give her the idea which help her solve the problems she is going to face( I somehow feel that in the washroom scene raghav was purposely playing with his mobile phone indirectly hinting her that she can make a call, even if there are no signals in his mobile( if there are no signals how could he work from his mobile coz internet will also not run, so he was making an excuse that she is irritating him while he was trying hard to work), she can actually search and find the inter com and call to the concerned staff for getting the door unlocked) and how in the childhood incident after solving few problems the ink in kalpi's finishes, he lends his pen to her , so even now whenever kalpi is tired of fighting her problems, he will always motivate and encourage her by challenging her , because she is always ready to take on challenges which give hers more positive energy to fight and prove herself so she becomes determined to achieve her goal. So in this way he is always there for her but he will never solve her problems but will simply guide her, just because he knows that this is what she wants and expects coz she wants to be successful in her life just by her hard work and determination and not because of somebody's help.

Reg RagNa vs Rakhi,

I really hope RagNa happens, I am sure there is no scope for Rakhi and if there is a love story in this serial it will surely be RagNa.

And also kalpi has a very special relationship with raghav and it is not just because she is kamla maa's daughter, because if raghav cares for kalpi as she is kamala's daughter then there is no need for him to listen to kalpi's taunts and bear with her rude (actually not rude, may be cold ) behaviour, tease her and have fun in irritating her and enjoy her anger.

There is an invisible comfort zone between RagNa coz both of them are their natural self when they are together, she does not speak to him sweetly, but she is quite straight forward and just herself( eg: in pune scene, their 1^st encounter she tells him on his face that she does'nt have time to speak/argue with him and leaves, in the wash room scene the way she asks him irritatedly "kya hai" and " Pagal hogaye ho kya" , though by that time she did not know his identity, but even when she came to know that he is Raghav her behaviour did not change (in the car scene, when he offers her chips, instead of thanking him and saying no, she asks him "aapko khaane ki padi hai, mujhe to aai aur chawl ki chinta horahi hai, I don't remember the exact dialogue sorry) and even dares to question him regarding the proofs for the chawl.She even scolded Raghav directly during the night scene when some boys were troubling her by comparing him with those chichoore.

Inspite of kalpi's rude behaviour, there relationship does not get effected, he still cares for her and does not mind it.

Kalpi never tries to act sweet with Raghav and does not try to impress him like pakhi..

Pakhi can never be her natural self with him, because if she herself, then her immaturity, insensitivity and interfering nature will be in front of Raghav and he is going to loose the little respect he has for her.So when she can't be her natural self in her relationship with Raghav, how can true love happen.

Also if RaKhi happens, Raghav is not going to get anything from this relationship, pakhi cannot understand the turmoil /pain in his life.Even though raghav finds the kapoors especially Pakhi entertaing now, if he spends time more time with her, he will find her irritating.So he can't be happy.He can never forgive the kapoors for what they have done, infact Pakhi herself will not forgive her parents when she will know the truth about Raghav's dad's death because she is a nice girl.So in Raghav's life it will be only him and pakhi, and whenever he sees her he might remember his bitter past.So if RaKhi happens, it will spoil 3 lives.

But if RagNa happens, Raghav can be at his mischievous best with kalpi and enjoy life.He will get parents love from kamla and vittal, a new friend cum bro in law in Pakhya(together they can tease kalpi), a sweet sister in Pakhi(who will tie him Rakhi, and he can do her Raksha like he does now), and of course the best wife in Kalpi... So he will get a complete family, which he never had and might have always desired ... So Raghav will be kush, so will we...

I also wish pakhi gets true love in her life and a person who will always be with her and love her unconditionally coz she too deserves this, So I am happy if SaKhi happens...coz then it will be double love stories and double dhamaal for all EMA fans (its actually triple coz KamlaVittals love story will always be shown) ...

Sorry my dear friends for making this post lengthy... and thanks for bearing with it.