So a sister can't be happy that...

What is happening to this forum and it's obsessive need to make an incestual relationship between two sisters. Are Jeevika and Maanvi obsessed with each other or is the forum obsessed with them? You guys are acting like a girl has never been excited at the thought of getting married in to the same house as her own sister. Though I personally would never want to but there are many sisters who would love to get married in to the same family as their sister. A wedding for any to-be bride is special anyway but Manvi is that extra happy because she will be able to live with her Di too. What's the big deal? Plus don't forget the drama is surrounding Jeevika leaving the house hence they emphasised on Manvi's dialogue in the promo.

Also a reminder, during Vireka's wedding preps, there was more focus on how the sisters will cope with the separation than Vireka themselves. There was NO promo for the couple getting married but there was one where Jeevika asks Manvi to stay with her throughout the wedding. That's how the wedding was promoted. Where were the complaints then? Even the actual ceremony highlighted Manvi's pain/happiness more than the promises a husband and wife make. I'm sure Vireka fans will remember this?! Heck, even on the wedding night Viren had to leave and we saw Jeevika and Manvi missing each other.

I don't get it. Are the sisters obsessed with each other or is the forum obsessed with them?

If a girl marries a guy, ideally it should be ONLY for the guy, even if its a behna show or whatever..Its a MARRIAGE !!

@Reemz: I just saw the promo and I thought "god bless the forum today" ! The discussions that followed the promo were absolutely shocking; a simple statement of Manvi being happy to marry in the same household as her sister just became another reason for people to bash the sisters especially Jeevika since her decision of leaving the house is affecting Manvi & Virat's wedding!

The problem's not with the sister obsession! Jus that one sister cares about her husband & the other doesnt give a damn about her wud be life partner! Simple..!😊! ! It just feels like the younger one's all Di Di & the elder one's Saying Mannu & Viren ji! Imabalance, u see! Thats the reason fr all the noises.

Originally posted by: Virmanishal

If a girl marries a guy, ideally it should be ONLY for the guy, even if its a behna show or whatever..Its a MARRIAGE !!

and marrying someone coz the guy's SIL is your sister is like tainting something as beautiful as marriage..

Its funny you know, you feel bad that fans in this forum curse behna love and make it tainted,though its not..what are such dialogues doing?? They are officially tainting something as sacred and pious as 'Marriage'.

As for being happy about this new relation,well yes, she can be happy about the fact that she gets to live with her Di ALSO.. BUT Here the dialogues make it look like ONLY , NOT ALSO.. Get the difference ?? There is NO proper balance from Manvi's side

About Virika wedding, i really dont want to compare and dislike the fact that even marriages are behna-ised in this show..but now that you have done it, well that was an ARRANGE marriage..Viren of that time and Viraat of now, there is a huge difference..Viraat is a guy who never left left her side even with the HUGE possibility of him having to live whole of his life in loneliness..SP promoted shaving of hair as pyaar ki misaal but for me, THIS was pyaar ki misaal that Viraat set..willingly agreeing for probable life time loneliness which is far worse than death..and SO, dialogues like these are UNFAIR to Viraat.Dialogues like these ruin whole of the past VirMan track for us..

in your own words "Small things like these DO make a difference to us" hell its not even small..I guess we should have asked you the same question when you guys were so worked up on Main Page in the past..Cant a girl confess her love and call his lover her aatma, esp when she has confessed after going through a lot of pain of keeping him away from her ?? Can't a girl feel happy or give a smile when she comes to know that her lover is not leaving and staying back in Rishikesh,even though her di is temporarily leaving to tend to her cold-struck jeeju..??

Originally posted by: Amii90

@Reemz: I just saw the promo and I thought "god bless the forum today" ! The discussions that followed the promo were absolutely shocking; a simple statement of Manvi being happy to marry in the same household as her sister just became another reason for people to bash the sisters especially Jeevika since her decision of leaving the house is affecting Manvi & Virat's wedding!

I interpreted Manvi's statement as one coming from an excited bride where she is happy for getting married to the man she loves AND as a bonus, it also gives her a chance to be with her sister! I could be wrong but with they way heated discussions are going on, it seems as if everyone is interpreting Manvi's words to be something like this "The only reason I am marrying Virat is to be with my sister"! There is a HUGE difference between those interpretations- it was just an innocent statement; given Manvi's nature, she always becomes excited at little things especially when it comes to her sister SO today when its biggest day of her life and she has her sister with her every step of the way, wouldn't she be ecstatic?! Its so simple, I don't understand what's the fuss?

I am not getting confused..I myself have made the difference clear in my own post.I have no issues with her marrying for Viraat 'only' but getting happy for 'both' but I dont see Viraat's mention,most of the times...After the roka news too, her first happiness was cos of the fact that she gets to be with her di.. NO mention of Viraat.infact they gave a lame VirMan scene after Roka news..

Originally posted by: atthi

The problem's not with the sister obsession! Jus that one sister cares about her husband & the other doesnt give a damn about her wud be life partner! Simple..!😊! ! It just feels like the younger one's all Di Di & the elder one's Saying Mannu & Viren ji! Imabalance, u see! Thats the reason fr all the noises.

Originally posted by: Virmanishal

I am not getting confused..I myself have made the difference clear in my own post.I have no issues with her marrying for Viraat but getting happy for 'both' but I dont see Viraat's mention..After the roka news too, her first happiness was cos of the fact that she gets to lube with her di.. NO mention of Viraat.

going by the updates, she says, ye shaadi mere liye isliye khaas hai kyunki iske baad main aapse kabhi door nahi jaungi.. Haven't heard or read any 'bhi' so far..

manvi can be happy to any extent she wishes to be but we cant compare virika and virman.