Originally posted by: -ritchelle-
I'm not a regular here, but I just had to pen down a few of my thoughts. I'm hoping that this is NOT taken in a negative light.
I've noticed how a few people are unhappy with the way Maanvi has been behaving with Viraat fot the past few days. All I'm gonna try and do is defend Maanvi and think from her PoV in that particular situation.
On Friday and Monday, we saw Maanvi wanting Jeevika around her at all times, and hyperventilating cause she wasn't there. Think about this from her PoV. We know that Maanvi considers Jeevika her mother. BMT is a HUGE operation. Before any major thing in life, we take God's name, and then we remember our parents, or to be specific, our MOMS. She's going for such an important operation, so its natural that she wants her di/maa beside her. Its natural that she wants to see her at least once before she goes in. She never said anything about wanting Viraat by her at that point of time. Reason? He was THERE! If you noticed closely, she did question him as to where was he going when he went to find VirIka right before the operation. So she did want him around her too. Before entering the OT, she hugged Jeevika and she held Viraat's hand tightly. She ONLY acknowledged Viraat and Jeevika. Doesn't that show the importance of these two people in Maanvi's life? On awakening, she wanted to see her Di. But the moment she saw her di and then the rest of the people, her eyes sought out Viraat. When he wasn't there, she asked for him. Doesn't that count?
In today's episode, we see how Viraat and Maanvi were back to their usual nok jhok and having their cute fights. Again, a few were upset that she told Jeevika aapke liye toh hazaar Viraat kurbaan. See, how much ever people may not like it, we've got to understand that the show is Ek Hazaaron Mein Meri BEHNA Hai. Not Ek Hazaaron Mein Mera Partner Hai. The main focus shall ALWAYS be on Jeevika-Maanvi's relationship. And while Jeevika may have not said it out loud, it is pretty evident that she would ALSO sacrifice her love for her sister. For Pete's sake, she sacrificed her BABY for Maanvi. Her baby is a symbol of her love for her husband. And she let that go to save her sister. And then we say Jeevika hasn't said anything of the sort? Somethings are to be understood, not said.
Lastly, if everyone is accusing Maanvi of disrespecting Viraat now, why didn't these accusations/allegations pop up earlier? During her roka, when Viraat fooled around, asking Maanvi to call him ViraatJee, she retaliated by saying jee bulaaye meri joo-. No one said anything about that. That was pretty humiliating as well! During the VirMaan phone call right before the roka, Maanvi is like tum mere husband banne waale ho, matlab main has has ke tumhaari baand bajaaongi. That was pretty disrespectful as well! No one said anything to that! Heck, during her engagement, she refused to get officially engaged till Viraat didn't do anything special for her. And she said this in front of a HUGE party. How utterly humiliating it must have been? Why didn't we see this outcry for Viraat's self respect back then?
We have to understand the dynamics of the foursome here. The Vadhera brothers know that for their partners, their sisters will ALWAYS come first. Viren has said this a couple of times to Jeevika as well. The story is about the sisters and their immense love for each other. Everything else is secondary to the two of them, be it their kid or their partner.
I hope you don't take my post in a negative light. I'm just trying to put Maanvi's perspective out here. Lets not bash any characters out here. I'm sure cancelling the impending wedding is NOT what anyone wants here.
Peace!
