Missing Links (Part 2)! Height of Confusion... - Page 2

Originally posted by: ayesha_80

@ RFL: Good to see u girls here...at this new adda. 🤗

And Resham madam...where's ur take after reading my looong rant? You can't skip it, dude 😉 I'm waitinggg...

Originally posted by: reshamc

Ayesha🤗 I wanted to hug u first, so haven't still read your vent.

Huggg to u too, friendy 🤗🤗

Wow...it looks pretty long😆 You were too late in making this post, so I vented on our previous adda. I am sure we disagree with the CV's on the same points. Let's see...going for a read now😊

I saw ur take after making the thread. LOL...we normally disagree on the same points...n this time too was no exception 😉😆 The only difference is, u said u liked the epi...i didn't...otherwise, ye aadhi kitaab na likhni padhti 😉😆
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Also, I am copy-pasting my whole rant from that thread over here.

Great that u posted it here...i couldn't reply it on our purana adda yesterday 😃

Humaare show mai story naam ki cheez to hain nahi...so I am putting this take in regard of the characters.

WARNING : This is going to be super-long. Venting at it's best😆

Super long is super fun...😉

MAANVI

Kya hoga iss ladki ka...no words to sayShe is proving to be the living example of the words "Emotional Fool".

WHO in their right mind lies to a doctor???? Only so that J is not worried, she lies about her symptoms😲 I am sorry, but it felt that as if M is not interested in treating herself. Living each moment as you live and all that badi-badi baatein is good to hear...but has she ever thought that she has every possibility in the world that she may DIE. It may sound harsh when I say that...but it's a fact. A Cancer patient can die if not treated well.

Very very true, Resham. Chalo...i understand that in front of other's she hides everything behind her chirpiness, and is always in that bindaas...masti kinda mood...but even when she's alone...doesn't she ever think that what might happen to her? It is NOT possible that her fears don't come to the forefront...i cannot buy this point! And now toh even Jeevika knows...so its unbelievable that M doesn't share her thoughts, her fears wid her sister.

And over here, Maanvi's treatment has been disastrous from the start.

1. It was delayed first coz Beeji could not muster up the courage to tell her that she needed treatment.

2. When M knew after 3 weeks of dragging...she wanted to attend that Maya-Virat party, coz somehow it was more important than starting the treatment and saving her life😡

3. In between she had 2 chemo sessions...and then she came to Chandigarh.

4. We still don't know what exactly have Viren and Jeevika done to exactly take care of her??? Swamini Bua had said M will get better medical facilities in Chandigarh as compared to Rishikesh...which is true, But have they ever taken Mannu to a hospital there??? We saw J asking Dr. M to give contact details of Dr.Bakshi...but has she done a follow-up on that???

5. IF really JV marriage has completed 1 year...M has cancer for over a year now. That is a REAL scare.

All ur points are BANG ON, Resham. Like i said in my main post...if CVs can't maintain the sensitivity of a disease like cancer..they should just stop this mockery of it. Its nothing but a mere joke what they are doing with the illness...there hasn't been ANY sensible handling of the track.

Now what good will this Mumbai trip do if M hides such imp facts of her disease from the doctor?????

Arey bhai...Mumbai trip is for Mumbai darshan...party sharty..fun, masti...who cares abt cancer? The doc has 995 success rate...n J said, kuch hi dinon ki baat hai, M theek ho jayegi...so, why fear from cancer? *head desk*

JEEVIKA

1. She is disappointed to hear the appointment is cancelled. She reasons out with Virat we cannot waste a day...so he has to do something. Virat goes to meet his friend and she sits on the sofa.

2. Now when both the sisters were observing V from a distance with the friend...M had thw weird look coz apparently she is jealous. BUT why was J looking at them like that???? As if secretly cursing V...bolta to hai ki meri Mannu se pyaar karta hai, par dekho kaise dusri ladki se gale mil raha hai. I am sorry but that look with rounded eyes and observing them like that with those shifty eyes...it gave me that message

3. Finally when she is introduced to that Seema...J could ask some questions to her. She is also a doctor working in a Cancer institute, surely she will know something. Also, she is Virat's frnd, so you can approach her more freely. Ask some damn questions! Does she has no fear in her mind that M's treatment may not go very smoothly?????

Hi5...i wrote the same thing. Jeevika should have talked to the doc...ask her generally abt cancer, its treatment...but like u said, she looked more interested in assessing the kinda rapport Virat-Seema shared. *head desk*.

4. Finally J knows Cancer is not an easy disease. Even after giving M all that boiled food, she has problems.

But koi faida nahin hone vala is ka. I really dunno what she has been searching on the net. 😕 Gosh...why are the CVs doing this to Jeevika's character?? Its sooo sooo bad!!!

Jeevika - Maanvi

1. M hid her b'day body pain from her, J didn't question her.

2. M lied about the body marks being summer rashes, J didn't feel the need to check it herself.

3. M has pain in her gums while brushing and sometimes even bleed, and J didn't create any emotional crying scene.

Is this the same Jeevika who created such a huge uproar in her Chooda ceremony???? Just coz M was a li'l late in telling her about an attack. Noo, I am not asking for a shouting J...but some reaction would be appreciated.

WHY THE HELL are they sleeping in different rooms???? J wants pal-pal-ki-khabar of M, what better way than sharing a room!! She leaves her husband to see her sister in the middle of the night...and here, she willingly goes and sleeps in a separate room😲

Has J lost all her sense😡

Resham...buddy...ur's is alos a questionnaire. Sighhh...only if i had answers to all these! I'm seriusly on the verge of giving up on this show...it really doesn't seem to be my cup of tea anymore.

Jeevika - Viren

The phone convo...Perfect😳

The timing...couldn't be more worse👎🏼

She is still IN the hospital. She has just known some hidden information about her Mannu's Cancer. And she is busy cooochie-cooing with Viren 😲 😲

The scene was utterly cute😛 Who can say they have been married for a WHOLE year?? J was blushing like a one-day old bride...KD's cheeks were actually full red😳 And Viren senses that her wife has turned into a bottle of ketchup and keeps the phone...aww😃

I was smiling like a goof the entire time😆

This "sweet-cute-awww" kinda JV talk in the hospital was a big put off for me. I really fail to understand, why the CVs are doing this wid JV. When was the last time they had a mature convo??

VIRAT

The only sensible guy in the whole fiasco. Pleeeasee remain sensible. No need to turn into a full-time sevak of Maanvi madam.

hahahaha...lets see what happens now. Coz the main aim of this Mumbai trip now seems to be...bringing MV closer.

M has a doting elder sis, who more than loves to take care of her. Let J do that.

STOP giving M each and every room in the house she wishes for. You are not a genie...that you have to fulfill her every wish. At this rate, you may have to sleep in the living room very soon.

Whatever the doc said about the medicines...share that with your Bhabhi. Yes, we know she is not bothered. But she has a right to know. Go tell her.

We like you Virat. And we know you love Maanvi. BUT please, pretty please, in your own words...you are just a friend of hers! Be that. Stop giving her medicines and stuff...that's the job of Fikkar Minister😆

Arey, Fikar minister has amnesia, dude. Agar medicines dena bhool gayi toh Manvi ka kya baney ga? 😉😆
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Finally, I have to say, Welcome back Dadaji and Inder Chachu. We missed ya🤗

So, apparently, they know about M's Cancer. And Dadaji is sure M will overcome this difficult phase of life with her strength and liveliness. Awww...Dadaji adores Mannu😳

Yes...it was good to see Dadaji n Inder back. Hope they are there to stay now.

Originally posted by: fairyland13

ayesha its good to see a post from u ...so this is our new venting place? lol...

Its good to see u here too. 🤗 RAFL is more like..."tu jahan main vahan.." 😉😆 Well, yep...lets' make this our new adda...wat say?

n thats a long post!!...ayesha i did nt watched yesterdays full episode..watched the jv phone convo n some random parts...but i read the whole of ur post...really...n u made complete sense..well when u dont??...anyways coming to the show this is not my show...this is not the show which had kept me glued to its episodes n made me join the forum..we have been discussing this n even now i write that the show has lost its feel ,its magic, its sense n logic...😔...

Sad, but true, Fatima. You know when i write all this about Jeevika..i really feel bad. Coz Jeevika used to be my fav character...both Viren n her got me hooked to the show. And now, writing how senseless her character has become...its very disheartening.

You're right...EHM has lost its magic...i don't see it coming back. But well...CVs are getting those darned TRP's, so even if u n i quit...its NOT gonna make any difference.

ok coming back to the post..👏..agree with all your points..

.no you r not wrong ayesha,..this is the same person who guided virat to this hospital..n yes the meeting was extremely disappointing...i already said in your other post that it looks like a trip than for treatment,..the cvs are not realising the seriousness of cancer.,,.n its really sad...they should not show it when they cant handle it..n gor gods sake they did nt even inform her former doctor or mannan...i had thought that it is gonna be realistic but the way they are handling the cancer track is disgusting..this track is very disappointing n dont know how i am going to bear this track...n i dont see it ending any soon..

Agree wid u...this is more like some fun trip! No one's bothered abt the cancer. How lame is that. LOL...that Dr. Bakshi was the kinda doc Manvi should've had. I don't understand why Jeevika never contacted him...despite him having a clinic in Chandigadh itself. And Dr. Mannan clearly told her that its not advisable to change doc during the course of the treatment. But it seems...Jeevika ko kuch samajh hi nahin a raha hai. She's living in some other world these days...and the only thing she remembers is...to blush like a newly wed, at every interaction wid her hubby!

Logically speaking...this cancer track CANNOT and SHOULD NOT end anytime soon. The nature of the disease is such which doesn't have an over-night cure...besides, a lotta things are connected wid it. But the handling of the track makes me join u in hoping that it ends ASAP!

coming to the sisters..i like the sisters but they are definitely not my fav.. i could never relate to their bonding...but still the sisters scenes had a charm but unfortunately it has lost its charm now...atleast for me,,..their scenes look repetitive to me..even the scene where jevika tried to convince manvi to stay back did not go well with me..n what sort of khoon ka rishta is this where they cant even talk openly with each other..i know sisters share everything n is really open to each other..i felt like banging my head somewhere when i read that she had hide her symptoms..has she lost her mind??..i am sry but no person in their sense is going to lie abt the symptoms of cancer..n.pls dont tell me that this will again lead to a misunderstanding between the sisters...

LOL...u read it right, buddy. Manvi didn't tell the doc abt her side effects...coz she was worried abt Jeevika. Dunno where this all is heading to, yaar! Nothing's making any sense

jevika's characeter...hmmmh..what should i say??...she did nt even checked the symptoms which she read abt..she is really bad at multi tasking but atleast do one task well...but how can we blame her..she is like the cvs...who can only concentrate one thing at a time...like the cvs are concentrating on love story so all things are forgotten...i am not even liking how manvi is with her disease..it seems like she dont want to live...

I've ranted sooo much abt Jeevika already. You know how disappointed i am with the way her character is being shown. I want the OLD Jeevika back!!!

virika...my fav couple which is the reason for my watching the show..what have they done to virika ...???they were supposed to be the matured couple..when resham said that there was a phone convo i was so excited..i immediately watched it..it was really sweet...i liked their convo but the timing could not have been worse...i agree this was supposed to be a late night convo not at the hospital..n sadly i dont see any progress in their relationship...i agree that the cvs are concentrating on other things but atleast show some sensible things..they are just trying to satisfy the fan base..will we ever get to see a matured sensible virika track??...😔

Exactly...there couldn't have been a more stupid time for this call. And J clearly told V that they've come out of the doc's room...n the man is least bothered abt that. All he's worried abt is..."u not missing me"? *head desk*

I'm not hoping for any sensible Virika track...that's beyond these CVs. Even after having kids...Virika will be like this only!!!

n yes the mystery remains who is bearing the expense of the treatment..dont think much ayesha we will never get our answer...they forgot the dinner thing just like the fast,..they should call dr mannan..i miss the guy..

Arey...the mystery is solved. Credit goes to Loveleen...she's pakka sure that Vadhera's have a gold mine...hence, money money no problem. 😆

Yes...even i want Dr. Mannan back...n Dr. Bakshi too. He's the best doc for treating Manvi.

OMG ayesha look at the length of my post... ..,thank god i too did nt watch the whole episode..

hahaha...i LOVE long posts...and glad that u also vented. 😃

in short m very disappointed with the show..first the insensible handling n on top of that karan is not there...what is there to look forward to..

Now that IIFA is over...i guess, Tacker would be back soon. And i have a feeling...the joru ka ghulaam that Viren is...he'll also head to Mumbai. Phir instead of any serious handling of cancer...romance will be in the air! *head desk*

My heads hurting after all continuously banging it on the desk 🤣

Thanks for commenting, Fatima...cya around 🤗

Originally posted by: misaki

ok ayesha...

first thing first...this whole missing links thing difinetly not goin2 stop !!!..its goin2 go on as long as the soap does...soap esp hindi one nd logic never seem 2 go hand in hand!!!

nd the wrst thng is that ppl seem 2 ignore these huge blundrs all the time..sometimes i thnk its the veiwers fault fr puttin up with such crap!!!

Agree with u, buddy! Its defo viewer's fault...but what i don't get is...WHY do these PHs give in to the demands of fan groups? Is it only coz of the TRP's?? But if that's the case...they go to the extent of ruining their own brain child? Beat me!

Well...anyway...these days, its just quantity over quality, and as per me...THIS is the main problem.

well addin 2 ur pnts..since i saw the entire epi...

1.virat asked the doc abt the effect her treatments goin2 have...but wen jeevika (finally madam got the time 2 thnk abt her sis)...he shrugs it off nd tells her 2 frget abt it!!...im sorry but y is he hidin such an important fat abt her treatment frm her??...i mean why is it such a big secret??..watl happen if u jst tell her?..dont knw y tr makin this huge deal abt jeevika not able 2 handle stff..wen clearly all they shud be thnkin nd doin nw shud be only fr manvi...seriously wats the POINT!!!...im rackin my brain tryin 2 thnk a reason fr it!..(dont thnk tr is one)!

Exactly...what's the point of this hide n seek? There was a major MU recently...n even after that, Virat didn't tell Jeevika what the doc said? What's the point of bringing her along? She should've stayed back...and worked in the kitchen 24x7.

2.is this the same jeevika that said she wud wn2 knw wat manvis doin evry sec..evry min...

cz i dont see that j anymre??...like u pointed out..she was the least bit concerned 2 ask wat manvis goin thru..(ya seriously isnt bein sisters all abt sharin ur biggest fears nd ur pain with each otr?)...she has no idea abt her side effects..hws that possible?..u can clearly see it!!..unless shes blind!..again shes not concerned abt wat the doc has 2 say!..its like virats mre cncrned than she is...hated the whole phone convo...ur sis is here in the cancer hospital nd u r thnkin abt romance??!..who does that?...stupid cvs..seriously change ur script writers...!!!tr gettin on my nerves..tr not small stf that u cn ignore anymre...

U bet...i'm really mad at the CVs for ruining Jeevika's character. She was never a weak girl...she knew how to stand up for hersefl n Manvi...and now, its like she has lost all her capability to think n act.

As for the dilaogues...one of the BIGGEST problems i have with the show now is the writer. My friends can vouch for it. Whoever has the pen in his/her hands...is a completely confused soul. The dialogues are LAMEEE!!

3.again virat ws shown bein concerned mre abt manvi..he gets her evrytn she needs..all j does is tell manvi it ws virat who had done it not her...!..i thot the show ws EHMMBH!..

...nw finally the main point..is it nly me did anyone find it wierd that jeevs slept in anotr room while manvi slept byherself..remember the n8 wn jeevs insisted on sleepin with manvi against virens wish??..nw that she finaly has the oppurtunity y dint she decide 2 do it??..manvis sufferin frm cancer she lready knws that she had trouble breathin sometime back..bein a concerned sis..mre like OTT concerned mother..wudnt u be scred if that wer 2 repeat again..??..if i was..ok if anyone wer in that position they wud definetly nevr leave manvi alone in a room..esp knwin anytn cud happen at anytime...

so that ws the main thn that kept buggin me after watchin the epi..

This whole Mumbai trip is mainly to show MV getting close. Treatment seems to be something secondary here. Whereas, it should have been the other way round.

As for the sisters sleeping in seperate rooms...it doesn't make ANY sense, buddy. Like a friend pointed out in this same thread...that a few days back J had such a scary dream abt Manvi...n now, she's so very comfortable in sleeping alone. I tell u CVs amnesia is rubbing to Mrs. Vadhera also. She celarly doesn't remember ANYTHING!

oh nd i 2 thot that doc was bein stupid!..maybe the actors fault!..watevr it ws...seemed like he dint care..indifference was written all over his face!...i already posted it on IF..seems like except me nd u no one lse thot he ws wierd!...

You bet...that doc was very rude. I liked Dr. Bakshi...n i want HIM to get involved in Manvi's treatment. This doc is so very weird. Glad to kno that u also found him like that...😉

again good post!

Glad that u liked the post. Thanks for commenting 😃

Originally posted by: ita_04

i'll just stick to these two points in ur post...

jeevika was almost officially killed yesterday...first through the timing of her lovey dovey talks with viren n second her absolute interest in shopping when the doctor specifically asked about symptoms n manvi was in a visible unease speaking about them...
even after manvi did mention about the marks...the next thing we see is jeevika blushing over "i miss u virenji"

the phone over..she cums back home...is seen relaxing...then jumping up n down over the prospect of mumbai darshan...
not so long ago she was livid about not being informed about manvi's symptoms...today she never utters a word of complaint even after virat tells about the b'day incident about which jeevs obviously had no clue

i guess the virika convo was in quest of pleasing fans so all we get is "i luv u" n "u luv me" stuff...[sorry its not about mature people who admire the couple]

I really am confused abt the way CVs have twisted Jeevika's character. She was NOT like this! And it feels sooo bad when i have to point out the flaws in her character...which, sadly are the only thing left in her CS. What happened to that old, strong Jeevika? Where is the girl who almost raised Manvi...like an elder sister, a friend, a mother? This girl cannot balance b/w her in-laws, hubby n her sister...so, what else can we expect from her?

I thankfully haven't seen her jumping around at the mention of shopping...or w/e it was. The lovey dovey convo with Viren, soon after she came out of the doc's room...where she heard the dire effects her sister's body is having...that was the limit for me. I couldn't watch the epi after this.

If the CVs think that they pleases Virika fans in that phone convo...i myself am a JV fan, who is utterly disappointed...and its been 2 days, i'm yet to see a fan who liked the convo. No one could justify the cheesy romance at such a crucial time. CVs better wake up n pull up their socks..

n not 2 mention the doc...who has a miraculous 99% success rate😲...but doesn't even care to cross check what treatment the previous doc had been following..coz as far as i know..no one ever met dr.bakshi n the updated reports were never taken from him...in fact i've no idea what those reports,which this doc was checking,actually could be,considering these people never bothered to have a chat with either manan or dr.bakshi...n getting the details of her ongoing treatment...

Very true, buddy! Dr. Mannan categorically told Jeevika that its not advisablt to change the doc mid-way...and it was a blessing for them that Dr. Bakshi had a clinic in Chandigadh also. Then WHY didn't Jeevika or anyone else bother to discuss the case with him?

And what in the world are the Chaudhry's doing? Have they completely forgotten abt M's cancer...or they've shifted all their worry n responsibility on the Vadera's...n are now least bothered?

I've already written abt the doc in my main post. So very disappointing!!

i just give this track one more chance to salvage itself...after all the mumbai darshan while the doc is on break...i hope the so called tests get done n manvi actually seems lyk a terminal ill patient...
Hope so too...but tell u what...i'm trying to keep my hopes to the minimum. I don't think logic will make its re-entry in this show.

Thanks for reading n commenting, dear. Its always great discussing the show wid u. 😃