Should Nandini be shown sympathy for playing victim card

See I am playing Devil's advocate here. I am a woman and also a professional. I am putting this post because in yesterday epi Sagarika says there is no mistake of Nandini and her mom kind of shuts up Sagarika asking her to think about Nandini's reputation.

Originally posted by: shruthiravi

See I am playing Devil's advocate here. I am a woman and also a professional. I am putting this post because in yesterday epi Sagarika says there is no mistake of Nandini and her mom kind of shuts up Sagarika asking her to think about Nandini's reputation.

So I want to ask does Nandini's reputation really matter. Whether she was poor or under coercion what she did with Ganguly was consensual. We see many times that because woman like Nandini give away to such pressure , the genuine poor ladies who refuse such things are harassed. If a rape is reported in the corridors of corporate offices mostly it is told that till promotions were coming the lady had no problem, now since sexual favours are not yielding promotions she is accusing rape.

The reason these accusations fly is because woman like Nandini exist. It is because they succumb to pressure and then play victim card genuine victims are deprived of justice. They are also bracketed Nandini's.

So what do you say. Should Nandini escape with the victim card or she should also bear the brunt of punishment for the wrong she is indirectly doing to the society

Sorry. Nandini is educated.

She was no illiterate ignorant village belle who could have given in to pressure or else committed suicide.

If she was in tough financial conditions then she should have taken tuitions or some part time job than give sexual favours to a man.

If that man was harassing her she should have changed her college or left it to finish studies by correspondence.

I can't accept an educated girl sleeping for grades.

I know it happens.

But one cannot excuse it in every case.

That said I understand why Mrs. Ganguly talked about her reputation. In such a situation anyone would call the girl loose character than point fingers at the man. It's a tricky situation.

But Nandini is escaping with Victim card. Dr Dayal is giving her job with all facilities. It would have been nice if they show her repenting.

Originally posted by: shruthiravi

But Nandini is escaping with Victim card. Dr Dayal is giving her job with all facilities. It would have been nice if they show her repenting.

I hope so. Being bechari is going as a style statement as far as HIndi tele- shows are concerned. This thing needs to change.

Originally posted by: shruthiravi

But Nandini is escaping with Victim card. Dr Dayal is giving her job with all facilities. It would have been nice if they show her repenting.

thats the TRAUMA of society..considering women as "ABLA-NARI"!!

That was a great point put forward by TM!!!