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Posted: 11 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: atominis

Sadly parents like this exist who pamper kids to no limit, never point them out for anything, do not impart them any education, morals, values, cover up all their mistakes.

There was a case in Punjab once, in which a father-son duo made a principal drink acid and assaulted him at his home after he expelled the son from school. You have these crazy people defending their sons to no limits and attacking others even for scolding their kid or giving him low marks in exam.

This kind of blind pampering is especially there in case of a son. Son is key to power. Son is God's heaven sent gift.😡

It is not at all correct or justified. This is not love. This is not duty of a parent. In this process they spoil not only their kid but also the society.

People like Sakshi are like King Dhritrashtra and Gandhari. They will keep giving excuse of santaan ka moh even if santaan's deeds destroy everything.

This "boys will be boys" stupid phrase has also stemmed from overdose of freedom, leeway, preference given to males by their families and society.🤢

Sakshi's justifications are BS. If you love your son then give him right values that will guide him throughout his life and keep him safe. As a mother she is a failure.

I hope they get destroyed like the Kuru dynasty in MB.

I agree with everything you've said:) and the boys will be boys remark! 😡 I cannot believe someone can think something like this let alone say. People like them are Bigger criminals!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: atominis

Sadly parents like this exist who pamper kids to no limit, never point them out for anything, do not impart them any education, morals, values, cover up all their mistakes.

There was a case in Punjab once, in which a father-son duo made a principal drink acid and assaulted him at his home after he expelled the son from school. You have these crazy people defending their sons to no limits and attacking others even for scolding their kid or giving him low marks in exam.

This kind of blind pampering is especially there in case of a son. Son is key to power. Son is God's heaven sent gift. 😡

It is not at all correct or justified. This is not love. This is not duty of a parent. In this process they spoil not only their kid but also the society.

People like Sakshi are like King Dhritrashtra and Gandhari. They will keep giving excuse of santaan ka moh even if santaan's deeds destroy everything.

This "boys will be boys" stupid phrase has also stemmed from overdose of freedom, leeway, preference given to males by their families and society.🤢

Sakshi's justifications are BS. If you love your son then give him right values that will guide him throughout his life and keep him safe. As a mother she is a failure.

I hope they get destroyed like the Kuru dynasty in MB.


You are correct that sadly parents like these do exist . And this need to have a Son
and then defend him to protect their lineage is not only sending the wrong messages to Son's but that ripple effect affects the whole society.

We need licence to Drive , to Fish, to Hunt but there is no licence or Test for would be parents. Once married , you produce a Son and everyone is happy.

Where has the discipline and " Sanskar" gone that was the pride of India ??

And you are right the Goenka's are going down just like the Kuru Dynasty.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#23
Supporting a criminal is a bigger crime than the one who committed it
Today they showed something that happens in real life as well. A mother will always support her child no matter what he does even if that's a heinous crime like rape!
This for me was message to all the mothers out there, ' crime is crime no matter who does it'.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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durga ne bhi kaha tha
'ek maa uske bete ke saath de sakti hai par uske jhoot ki nahi'
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Anvijanya

Supporting a criminal is a bigger crime than the one who committed it
Today they showed something that happens in real life as well. A mother will always support her child no matter what he does even if that's a heinous crime like rape!
This for me was message to all the mothers out there, ' crime is crime no matter who does it'.



I agree aiding and abetting a crime is also a crime that cannot be forgiven.

Some mothers might go as far as supporting a heinous crime of Rape for their son but as you stated ..." A Crime is a Crime no matter who does it "

And Shakshi cannot be excused for the rampage she went on for a spoilt rotten son no matter how much she loves him.

Here's hoping good mothers know what to do in REAL LIFE.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: virmanxyz

durga ne bhi kaha tha
'ek maa uske bete ke saath de sakti hai par uske jhoot ki nahi'


Durga was right... A good mother supports her son when he does her proud not for
a heinous crime as Rape and then to top it off with bribing and blackmailing everyone
around to set free a known criminal.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#27
I think in real life too so many rapists' parents support their sons, even producing false age certificates to show that they are minors. Bloody Indian law.😡
I think if all parents raised their kids well, Then we would live in a Utopian world. Like you said, they should first be given a licence if they are deemed good enough people to become parents. 😆
Edited by severus1 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: severus1

I think in real life too so many rapists' parents support their sons, even producing false age certificates to show that they are minors. Bloody Indian law.😡

I think if all parents raised their kids well, Then we would live in a Utopian world. Like you said, they should first be given a licence if they are deemed good enough people to become parents. 😆


True if all parents brought up all their kids properly then surely it would be an Utopian World. And that is not likely.

It does take all kinds to make this world.

Many couples about to be married now get counselling before marriage so that they can go into the marriage well prepared.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#29

Originally posted by: Dolly-heart


True if all parents brought up all their kids properly then surely it would be an Utopian World. And that is not likely.

It does take all kinds to make this world.

Many couples about to be married now get counselling before marriage so that they can go into the marriage well prepared.


very true.. people from every age should learn importance of peace and discipline in society... sadly in this country, v are a=not able to control people behaviour. it is thus important that girls also fight back.. be brave.. learn their importance.

payal was weak.. if she would got a moment chance she should hav saved herself..
may be its not easy.. as easy as i my typing.. but ..

girls got to be brave..

parents turn blind.. in front of love for kids.. they forget the real importance of human life.. about this temporary world...😭.



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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: mithilarids


very true.. people from every age should learn importance of peace and discipline in society... sadly in this country, v are a=not able to control people behaviour. it is thus important that girls also fight back.. be brave.. learn their importance.

payal was weak.. if she would got a moment chance she should hav saved herself..
may be its not easy.. as easy as i my typing.. but ..

girls got to be brave..

parents turn blind.. in front of love for kids.. they forget the real importance of human life.. about this temporary world...😭.





I agree that women need to learn self defence as rape and violence against women is getting way out of hand.

Payal was overpowered by four men and I am sure many would have panicked in a situation like that.

But I agree with you that women in this day and age need to be brave and be strong
because it is hard to know about all the creepy men out there.

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