For me too, Indrani! If I put myself in Sumo's shoes, I ask myself, "Why would I want to spend even half a day with a man who doesn't think twice before ranting at my self-respect.
And as Shravan, I shudder to think that I am married to a woman who finds pleasure in actually thinking up ways to hurt me at my most vulnerable places.
For both of them: Run while you still can - before you end up killing each other.