My take on today's episode - For Better or For Worse - Page 8

Roshni, it does not matter if he protects her or endeavors to do so going forward. The point is, rather than protecting her from the fire he threw her into it. He pushed her into the lion's den knowing that lion's are wild dangerous animals. So how he repents and how much he repents is besides the point and has no bearing on their future. Some acts done in malice and spite offer no redemption. It takes years to build a relationship, especially one as deep as theirs, it takes a moment to break it- and he has thoughtlessly broken it a few times. But this time he went too far, took a one way street to end their relationship and there is no turning back. Of course, as humans we err and learn from our mistakes and grow as individuals too as we learn in life. But somethings are unpardonable. What he did will be at the back of Suman's mind no matter what. He has exposed her,naked,to a judgemental society which stands as judge and jury on matters of love and chastity of women. Most judgements are unjust and skewed in favor of the male species. Though I think matters such as this are an individual's choice, and a girl has the right to choose to do what she is comfortable with, Indian society is antiquated in its notions of honor and does not look kindly upon a young girl who is intimate prior to marriage. What Shravan has done is that he has walked a blindfolded Suman into a room full of hungry wolves waiting to pounce on their next victim. And it is not about Aditya's right to question her either. What Shravan did was wrong, especially since there was no truth in his claims. If it were to happen in real life, no girl, no matter how forgiving, would ever accept the friendship of a man who has betrayed her like so. But of course, this is a show, on Indian TV nonetheless, and Suman will definitely forgive him and overlook this 'minor' matter and we will be shown Shravan trying his best to redeem himself. But I ask, why do something that requires you to redeem yourself?

Originally posted by: chicksoup

His parting words were to Nirmala Ahuja...There was no concern for Suman in his celebrations...

Originally posted by: Roshni2015

Originally posted by: beagleboy

Roshni, it does not matter if he protects her or endeavors to do so going forward. The point is, rather than protecting her from the fire he threw her into it. He pushed her into the lion's den knowing that lion's are wild dangerous animals. So how he repents and how much he repents is besides the point and has no bearing on their future. Some acts done in malice and spite offer no redemption. It takes years to build a relationship, especially one as deep as theirs, it takes a moment to break it- and he has thoughtlessly broken it a few times. But this time he went too far, took a one way street to end their relationship and there is no turning back. Of course, as humans we err and learn from our mistakes and grow as individuals too as we learn in life. But somethings are unpardonable. What he did will be at the back of Suman's mind no matter what. He has exposed her,naked,to a judgemental society which stands as judge and jury on matters of love and chastity of women. Most judgements are unjust and skewed in favor of the male species. Though I think matters such as this are an individual's choice, and a girl has the right to choose to do what she is comfortable with, Indian society is antiquated in its notions of honor and does not look kindly upon a young girl who is intimate prior to marriage. What Shravan has done is that he has walked a blindfolded Suman into a room full of hungry wolves waiting to pounce on their next victim. And it is not about Aditya's right to question her either. What Shravan did was wrong, especially since there was no truth in his claims. If it were to happen in real life, no girl, no matter how forgiving, would ever accept the friendship of a man who has betrayed her like so. But of course, this is a show, on Indian TV nonetheless, and Suman will definitely forgive him and overlook this 'minor' matter and we will be shown Shravan trying his best to redeem himself. But I ask, why do something that requires you to redeem yourself?

Originally posted by: chicksoup

But this is the girl he has already warned him about..He talked about the girl who broke his heart...then the taunt at the shop about Sumo...aur kya kya dekhna baaki hai...and then this..Presents a complete picture...

Aditya lashed out violently because he felt she was using him..and that was courtesy Shravan's confession that nailed his suspicions...

Aditya wanted answers. Shravan seemed to be playing a game when he forced himself on the wedding..Aditya was curious to know what the game was..he irked Shravan enough to get him here...

But what was Shravan doing in the wedding in the first place?

I don't think we can glorify our lead by calling Aditya black...and entirely accountable for his actions..he believed a tale..just like Shravan believed his dad's tales...

He became a bakraa..a black or grey bakraa..or a polka dotted one...😆

But he is Nirmala's son..he will be sorted out soon too...and we don't give a damn what colour he wears, right?

Originally posted by: chicksoup

This is not about Aditya at all...Aditya can throw acid at Suman for turning down his proposal...that is how insignificant he is...and he needn't have dragged this till the wedding day..he should have backed out..But who is bothered about his character!

Point is, Shravan gave him a weapon..and turned him into a maniac..Not mindful of the repercussions...

This shouldn't have been about Nirmala and Aditya and Shravan...This was about Suman and Shravan..

He thought of ONLY HIMSELF there..HIS REVENGE on Nirmala...Suman was nowhere in the picture!

He was sending Adi to marry her, with that knowledge! He didn't think even for a nano second about how her life would be after that with a guy whose eyeballs popped out when he heard this?

And there she was... feeling uneasy...wishing Shravan was around her..

And what kaand Aditay can create after this...I hope the Cvs don't make him that black! 🤢

Originally posted by: beagleboy

Roshni, it does not matter if he protects her or endeavors to do so going forward. The point is, rather than protecting her from the fire he threw her into it. He pushed her into the lion's den knowing that lion's are wild dangerous animals. So how he repents and how much he repents is besides the point and has no bearing on their future. Some acts done in malice and spite offer no redemption. It takes years to build a relationship, especially one as deep as theirs, it takes a moment to break it- and he has thoughtlessly broken it a few times. But this time he went too far, took a one way street to end their relationship and there is no turning back. Of course, as humans we err and learn from our mistakes and grow as individuals too as we learn in life. But somethings are unpardonable. What he did will be at the back of Suman's mind no matter what. He has exposed her,naked,to a judgemental society which stands as judge and jury on matters of love and chastity of women. Most judgements are unjust and skewed in favor of the male species. Though I think matters such as this are an individual's choice, and a girl has the right to choose to do what she is comfortable with, Indian society is antiquated in its notions of honor and does not look kindly upon a young girl who is intimate prior to marriage. What Shravan has done is that he has walked a blindfolded Suman into a room full of hungry wolves waiting to pounce on their next victim. And it is not about Aditya's right to question her either. What Shravan did was wrong, especially since there was no truth in his claims. If it were to happen in real life, no girl, no matter how forgiving, would ever accept the friendship of a man who has betrayed her like so. But of course, this is a show, on Indian TV nonetheless, and Suman will definitely forgive him and overlook this 'minor' matter and we will be shown Shravan trying his best to redeem himself. But I ask, why do something that requires you to redeem yourself?

Originally posted by: Roshni2015

You are right, whatever colour Aditya wears... Doesn't matter.

Polka dotted 😆

I have a question... Is Aditya a bakra? Or a wolf in sheep's clothing??

I'm not glorifying Shravan n not calling Aditya black for that reason...

The question in bold... If we let go of anything else... Shravan would be there coz its his bff's wedding...

Whatever Aditya got he asked for it...

I agree he was not concerned with Sumo in all this.. Where it should have been his primary concern... But well sometimes our better judgement is clouded...

Originally posted by: chicksoup

He is not a wolf..That is for sure.

Because he asked her in every possible way...if he had got something from Suman or Shravan he would have backed out...

That is where his frustration comes from..He asked Shravan...You all knew I was falling for Suman..Why didn't U stop me? (A Q that Pushkar should answer..and he is conveniently out of town!)

From then he has been living on speculations...and he wants a solid answer from one of them..and this is the solid answer he gets from Shravan..Guy should have cancelled the wedding that very same night...I bet he goes and asks Suman nicely again..Is there anything at all U want to tell me about your past relationships...The man entering Tiwari Killa is a defeated man...broken...apparently she is the first one he has fallen for...

And when she answers in the negative, that is when he is going to build up his fury from...

The final taunt will come at the wedding...he is just spitting back the venom Shravan spat at him..

Originally posted by: spshastr

chick do you think aditya will speak up in front of everyone?