I am sorry- this is sooo unbelievable! - Page 4

Originally posted by: indranigupta

If he feels being used and victimised...why not back off?

Why scare and intimidate Sumo ? Why bother about SS past? when the joker cant understand the present

There is no justification at all for Adi's abominable behaviour

Originally posted by: Roshni2015

Mahaan, I don't think there's any scope left for that right??

Bcz you can't act mahan after trying to molest a girl..

Originally posted by: malikakas

I disagree, mate. Nirmala has no reason to think Adi would be troubling Shraman. Suman agreed to marry Aditya and as far as Nirmala knows there are no romantic feelings between Shraman. But she does have reason to think Shravan might want to take out his anger at her against Aditya and hurt himself in the process. It is very reasonable to have misgivings about involving him in the wedding. But she IMMEDIATELY negated the idea that Shravan would do anything to Aditya.

Its just the way most hindi serials write their monologues; they have the person question something then negate it. Nirmala is obviously wanting to give both her son's the benefit to the doubt.

But as for Adi, don't you think his behavior is justified? Both Suman and Shravan are making a fool out of him. I find what Suman is doing to him so incredibly wrong. Its one thing to think about moving on. But to not be honest about her past with Adi beforehand is just using him. The truth is she is not moving on-- she is just running away from the mess her life is in.

But if I were Adi, I'd think Shravan and Suman were playing games with me too. Shravan just wants to get rid of Sumo from his life but does he think about the implications of that on Adi? If he really feels like Suman is such a user why not tell the truth to Adi and let him decide. Why him keep him in the dark?

Originally posted by: malikakas

I disagree, mate. Nirmala has no reason to think Adi would be troubling Shraman. Suman agreed to marry Aditya and as far as Nirmala knows there are no romantic feelings between Shraman. But she does have reason to think Shravan might want to take out his anger at her against Aditya and hurt himself in the process. It is very reasonable to have misgivings about involving him in the wedding. But she IMMEDIATELY negated the idea that Shravan would do anything to Aditya.

Its just the way most hindi serials write their monologues; they have the person question something then negate it. Nirmala is obviously wanting to give both her son's the benefit to the doubt.

But as for Adi, don't you think his behavior is justified? Both Suman and Shravan are making a fool out of him. I find what Suman is doing to him so incredibly wrong. Its one thing to think about moving on. But to not be honest about her past with Adi beforehand is just using him. The truth is she is not moving on-- she is just running away from the mess her life is in.

But if I were Adi, I'd think Shravan and Suman were playing games with me too. Shravan just wants to get rid of Sumo from his life but does he think about the implications of that on Adi? If he really feels like Suman is such a user why not tell the truth to Adi and let him decide. Why him keep him in the dark?

Originally posted by: surochitadutta

Of course there isn't Roshni.. But if the cvs plans to show all these as plan of Aditya (which I find disgusting n disgraceful) then he will be tagged as Mahan..

Originally posted by: mayasingh

Oh no.. Suman is not playing any games and neither Shravan...

are they trying to get back to each other... no.. suman is keeping her distance and even shravan is doing the same...

but Aditya is acting crazy...

if there is something Aditya need to ask Suman as she is going to be his wife... he should not try to talk to shravan...

his approach shows he does not trust Suman or his love for Suman...

he is trying to find everything indirectly...

The way he is behaving with Suman...

He knows that his mother took the proposal and nanu agreed... he didnot give any time for suman to agree or asked her if she wants to marry him... he confided he loved her and expected her to reciprocate...

He is least bothered about her feelings...

it is all about him and him and him...

he simply declared about his marriage to her without asking her consent...

did she protest.. did she embarrass him... as she had said yes to nanu she kept quite...

That shows upbringing...

He still has no idea that Suman does not love him and it is arrange marriage for her...

Now look at Shravan...

when he came to know about Aditya truth.. did he shout at him, did he throw him out , did he insult him...

No he simply walked out and kept himself away from him... why because he was puskar friend and Shravan did not want to hurt his brother feelings...

And what did Aditya do.. next morning when he came to know the truth he went to Shravan room and behaved badly...

Also in today episode what Aditya did..?

He asked Shravan to leave them alone...

He himself said it was ok for Shravan to come for shopping... and then after sometime he insulted Shravan by asking him to go...

Suman was right in trying to make Aditya realize that what he did was wrong...

Aditya stayed in Shravan house for so many days.. and still today in a second without any thought he literally insulted Shravan by asking him to go...

No one does that... basic decency is lacking...

and he comes and says sorry to suman..

he should have apologized to Shravan...

Shravan is like a rough diamond... if it burns it will still shine... but it will always remain a diamond...

it will stay put in any situation, any storm...it will never change...

but Aditya is like a wood.. which is green and is becoming dry with jealously, doubts, insecurity and when it burns it would hurt others present around it... and it would ultimately turn into ash... which will blow away and be lost when we have strong winds or when storms come...

Aditya is full of himself...

we can see that for him Nirmala opinions also matter until they are what he wants...

if she has some other opinion then he ignores it and says my mother wants what i want...

Originally posted by: malikakas

But how can he back off without the truth? What's he going to say to everyone that he doesn't want this marriage now? Everyone will make him look like the bad guy for asking for marriage and then backing off. Why should he look like the bad guy when Shravan and Suman are screwing him over? And what if he's wrong-- then he loses out on a good match?

Sometimes people have a doubt but are desperate to find out the truth and until then they just can't let go. Adi basically laid that out to Suman today-- he is not sure if she wants to marry him and wants her to prove it to him. The thing is we know for a fact he has a right to doubt her. But until he has 100% proof he can't let go.

I've seen a lot of people like that in real life. Even recently someone I know-- was seeing a guy who kept making promises but in action she believed he was seeing other girls at the same time. But every time she would confront the issue he would make her feel like her concerns were unfounded, just like suman did to Adi today. So she was constantly left in doubt and it was driving her to do crazy things. She kept pushing him in ways to try to bring out the truth. At one point she even wanted to hire a private detective just to find out the truth. I kept telling her that if she has so much suspicion she should just move on. Its one thing to know for certain but its another when the person in front is always denying it.