Aap sirf meri maa hai- Where Nirmala failed as a mother totally. - Page 3

Aditya ne jese nirmala ko shravan ko bhul jane keliye bola suman ko bhi shravan ko bhul jane keliye bolta agar usse suman and shravan ke relationship ke bare mai pata chal jata... I don't think he will ever unite shraman because ronit said in the interview that aditya from possessive became obsessive which are more dangerous than negative people...Glad that CVS ne aditya ko mahaan nahi dikhaya but showed the true color of an obsessive person who can go beyond any limits to get what he/she wanted otherwise he would never try to manhandle a girl...

Originally posted by: ...MonaCo...

Soup!

You stole words out of my mind and wrote it here. I somehow felt the same always. Aditya's response was very immature, childish and insensitive (as compared to the claims he has been making since he has arrived on scene). In fact this guy is a paradox - sugary and sweet on the outside but always doing as he pleases. He says he hates lies, but all he has been doing since he arrived is lie.

I can see how the forum is betting on him being mahaan and doing this only to unite Shravan who would not confess otherwise. I have a few problems with that track:

1. He becomes mahaan, and questions come on Shravan's parvarish versus Adi's which I personally dont like.

2. Nirmala is absolved, which for reasons you and others on this thread listed, she does not deserve to. She is in the wrong, and her actions have impacted Shravan and if we could fault Shravan for not finding innovative ways to help sumo during PCT debacle and laud Adi for the same, then I must say we can also fault Nirmala for not even trying once to reach out to Shravan, especially after the flashbacks that show they had such a strong bond.

3. I think her character is flawed as well, because she equated money making to respect, and her arguments with Ramnath did show that she basically disrespected Ram (and in the scene where Shravan is sick, how she had zero regard for her failures). Remember SRK - Preity in KANK? Preity or Nirmala were not wrong, and they rightly wore the pants in the house, but to look down upon the other, simply because of their lack of ability (not trying) is not the nice thing to do.

I am more excited to see that Adi was indeed gray - did something in the heat of the moment (dont make him ultra negative, please), and not someone who needs to butt his head in ShraMan business in only 7 days of knowing them so much that he decides to stage all this to bring them to confess.

For once, I want Suman to also realize that though Nirmala has a story to tell, Ramnath does to (every story has two sides right) so she can't form an opinion about Ramnath just by listening to Nirmala's version. I am not defending Ramnath - he was quite misogynistic, insecure and impulsive too, but his interest has always been protecting Shravan.

Originally posted by: Pravas007

Aditya ne jese nirmala ko shravan ko bhul jane keliye bola suman ko bhi shravan ko bhul jane keliye bolta agar usse suman and shravan ke relationship ke bare mai pata chal jata... I don't think he will ever unite shraman because ronit said in the interview that aditya from possessive became obsessive which are more dangerous than negative people...Glad that CVS ne aditya ko mahaan nahi dikhaya but showed the true color of an obsessive person who can go beyond any limits to get what he/she wanted otherwise he would never try to manhandle a girl...

Redeem Adtiya how?

Originally posted by: ...MonaCo...

Redeem Adtiya how?

And I agree Ramnath's remarks were cheap - but, two wrongs don't make a right... Just saying that the clashes of Ramnath and Nirmala were two sided, and you can not blame Ramnath alone... He was insecure, she too independent, and there were instances where she didnt priotize their son as he wanted. They had a major communication problem too like ShraMan where the question of one resulted in insults from the other...

My mom says the secret to a successful marriage is that when one person is mad, the other keeps cool and vice versa... something along that lines. I am not translating the thought well but you get the gist. NiRam clearly had ego clash and communication issues - and Nirmala played a role there which she cannot just blame on Ramnath. Sumo, for all her wiseness didn't for once thing even Ramnath may have a side/story...

In this show no one thinks about the "other" person's pov... just saying...