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Deboleena Chakraborty

@Deb_05

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Posted: 9 years ago

#31

Originally posted by: avni01

Oh yes !!Nanu in his Hay days must have been a smart ass lawyer. I hate him ever since he forced sumo to agree for the marriage knowing adi is Nirmala's son. This man is ridiculous!!
Whatever happened to sumos challenge to Ramnath that she will be by shravans side of he is in trouble...Shravan's love for sumo has been played out a lot of times till now but sumos love for shravan has really not been given that much space. At most or looks like a crush from sumos side.2 months of ridiculous wedding of 2 most dumb ppl and now suddenly all these things feel so rushed that no one looks convincing.
Lost my brain watching this show.

Hahaha! I'm going to assume that more than half of the members here have become insane after watching this show. Logic doesn't exist on-screen. Lol.

And I know! Nanu has played a very sly game. He thought he would quietly get Suman and Aditya into the wedlock and malhotras wouldn't come across the truth? I think he forgot that truth always prevails. One can't suppress lies for long!

Regarding the challenge, that was stated for the sake of stating something. Not because it had meaning. I mean, it surely could've been developed into something intruguing. But, the great minds of this show, chose to create a whirlpool of rubbish. They really don't understand that actions speak louder than words. Dialogues place an impact; however, they need to develop into complimenting actions, not contradictory ones, of course. Haha.

I also feel Suman was simply infatuated by him. I think after the case of Khosla, she was smitten. Whatever preeta said, caused her feelings to transform into infatuation. She never really displayed true love for him, in any manner, after that.

And OMG the wedding! What was the purpose of dragging it so long? I mean, nothing major happened during that ceremony. The two fools ended up getting married happily. Smh!

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Deboleena Chakraborty

@Deb_05

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Posted: 9 years ago

#32

Originally posted by: Shreeswathy
Why should we expect others to show concern towards him, when his own mother doesn't have concern for him?

You're right! When his own mother doesn't value his existence, why will anyone else? Nirmala has given others the liberty of acting indifferent with him. 🥱

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QUIRKY333

@QUIRKY333

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Posted: 9 years ago

#33

@Deb - thank you for the post.

Shravan has mouthed some disgusting things off late and he does have some serious perceptional issues that needs some psychological attention

BUT - the insensitivity thrown at him by nanaji - whom he has been so close to since childhood and supposedly had a special and exclusive bonding; the mother - who honestly could not care less - is mind boggling. I do not know what has made the CVs take these two characters to such extent so that any amount of reasoning cannot plug these big loopholes.

As for suman - for me she has been cancelled 😆. Yes she initially did what she did because she had no choice - but she never gave it a second thought about how would a shravan deal with her sudden change in behavior. She never FOR ONCE thought about how the nirmala-adi connection would affect shravan - and the latter is inexcusable for me. you do not do that to your best friend - you cannot brush everything aside just because you feel it is right.

If you do that then accept that you are selfish and self-centered - particularly when it comes to certain people. In this case suman did take a huge liberty with shravan and she cannot expect him to not react. If she does, then she is stupid too.

and nanu and suman - are very alike - they both are selfish - no matter what. they do become insensitivi as per convenience and that's disheartening to see.

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Deboleena Chakraborty

@Deb_05

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Posted: 9 years ago

#34

Originally posted by: QUIRKY333
@Deb - thank you for the post.
Shravan has mouthed some disgusting things off late and he does have some serious perceptional issues that needs some psychological attention

BUT - the insensitivity thrown at him by nanaji - whom he has been so close to since childhood and supposedly had a special and exclusive bonding; the mother - who honestly could not care less - is mind boggling. I do not know what has made the CVs take these two characters to such extent so that any amount of reasoning cannot plug these big loopholes.

As for suman - for me she has been cancelled 😆. Yes she initially did what she did because she had no choice - but she never gave it a second thought about how would a shravan deal with her sudden change in behavior. She never FOR ONCE thought about how the nirmala-adi connection would affect shravan - and the latter is inexcusable for me. you do not do that to your best friend - you cannot brush everything aside just because you feel it is right.

If you do that then accept that you are selfish and self-centered - particularly when it comes to certain people. In this case suman did take a huge liberty with shravan and she cannot expect him to not react. If she does, then she is stupid too.

and nanu and suman - are very alike - they both are selfish - no matter what. they do become insensitivi as per convenience and that's disheartening to see.

I agree! He has been insensitive towards "females". However I really don't blame him. He tried to believe in that one girl. And that didn't progress properly due to respective circumstances. I really wonder why every female in his life is filled with conceit? Even Urvashi wasn't a naive girl.

I cannot comprehend why CVs have chosen to destroy every vital character. This whole situation is quite alarming! I mean, nanu, he has such a respectable and an amiable bond with Shravan. He is literally like Shravan's grandpa. I've never seen a grandpa act in this manner. The convivial image of nanu was butchered yesterday. And Nirmala, she is the most selfish mother I've ever scene. CVs successfully destroyed the pure bond that exists within a mother and her son. The relation that a father has with his son, is being displayed with wickedness. No genuine acts, from the father's side.

Suman...I agree that initially she was pressurized to act a certain way. However, she was really never asked to behave brutally and ruin her friendship. I had imagined that her monologues will display her inner conflict and the struggle she is having in maintaining her distance from Shravan. However, she barely had any monologues. Whatever came after, were about herself or about her image and her so called embarrassment. Is she forgetting that Shravan fell in love with sumo? The girl from high school. A girl who wanted to fit in everywhere, become popular for all the wrong reasons and didn't really have her own identity. Now isn't that embarrassing? He chose to sustain his love for years. Even today, he loves her; even after witnessing her hypocritical attitude, since high school, heis not embarrassed. This is true love that is filled with warmth! Not infatuation composed of selfishness, that suman has, rather had. Previously, I used to wonder where she got her awful behaviour from. But, today, I'm sure it's from nanu and his seekh. Their resemblance was quite astonishing. But now, I'm not very shocked anymore. When her family has such values, she won't be any different.

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QUIRKY333

@QUIRKY333

Dazzler

Posted: 9 years ago

#35

Originally posted by: Deb_05

I agree! He has been insensitive towards "females". However I really don't blame him. He tried to believe in that one girl. And that didn't progress properly due to respective circumstances. I really wonder why every female in his life is filled with conceit? Even Urvashi wasn't a naive girl.

I cannot comprehend why CVs have chosen to destroy every vital character. This whole situation is quite alarming! I mean, nanu, he has such a respectable and an amiable bond with Shravan. He is literally like Shravan's grandpa. I've never seen a grandpa act in this manner. The convivial image of nanu was butchered yesterday. And Nirmala, she is the most selfish mother I've ever scene. CVs successfully destroyed the pure bond that exists within a mother and her son. The relation that a father has with his son, is being displayed with wickedness. No genuine acts, from the father's side.

Suman...I agree that initially she was pressurized to act a certain way. However, she was really never asked to behave brutally and ruin her friendship. I had imagined that her monologues will display her inner conflict and the struggle she is having in maintaining her distance from Shravan. However, she barely had any monologues. Whatever came after, were about herself or about her image and her so called embarrassment. Is she forgetting that Shravan fell in love with sumo? The girl from high school. A girl who wanted to fit in everywhere, become popular for all the wrong reasons and didn't really have her own identity. Now isn't that embarrassing? He chose to sustain his love for years. Even today, he loves her; even after witnessing her hypocritical attitude, since high school, heis not embarrassed. This is true love that is filled with warmth! Not infatuation composed of selfishness, that suman has, rather had. Previously, I used to wonder where she got her awful behaviour from. But, today, I'm sure it's from nanu and his seekh. Their resemblance was quite astonishing. But now, I'm not very shocked anymore. When her family has such values, she won't be any different.

THIS + infinity

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shivaniballa

@shivaniballa

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Posted: 9 years ago

#36

Originally posted by: QUIRKY333

THIS + infinity

And to add to this, her actions and words are poles apart.

She is chalti phirti brainlessness ki dukan.

Here Shravan is at fault, coz frm the beginning... no matter how wrong she was, he always made things upto her needs. This increased her trust on him so much that she had apparently taken him for granted, and felt that no matter however I behave with him, at the end of the day he will get back to me.

Thus, she did all that drama after ramu's deal.

But in all this she forgot that even he has a heart, it breaks, it pains.Even he is a human, has feelings right?!

Shravan gave her unconditional love which backfired him,unfortunately.

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Samridhi

@BinKuchKahe.

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Posted: 9 years ago

#37

Great post.

I completely agree with you on your views regarding the Tiwari family. They're all shallow people who are on the side of whoever benefits them. Until they needed Shravan's help, he was the go-to for every problem & today when they're well-settled in their lives, its so easy to throw Shravan out. Very convenient.

Yes, Shravan is still the gentleman who would do everything for the person he loves. And he has been hurt deeply. He's not wrong in the judgement he came to regarding the women in his life, because he hasn't seen any better. But at the same time, that doesn't excuse some of the misogynistic remarks he's made, esp the one during the 'dance' where he told Suman that her only job as a woman is to please the man. That was below the belt. And yes, he was hurt, but that butchered Shravan's character to some extent. Putting that aside, Shravan has never truly understood Suman IMO. Yes, he was always there for her & very patient with her despite her rejections. But at the same time, he, too was always quick to judge her & throw tantrums. And Shravan's constant anger at Suman's refusal to seek his help, showed that. He was quick to mock her so called self-respect, or get angry at her not giving in to him, but he never tried to understand her situation. The fact that she's grown up without parents in a family where she constantly has to give account of the money etc & he knows it. You would expect more sensitivity from him.

Coming to Suman, yes she's been a disappointment. She was a character I liked, but I don't think I can say that anymore. But at the same time, I disagree with you in that she doesn't love Shravan. Problem is she, too, never trusted Shravan or gave him that equal right in the relationship to make a decision as to whether he wanted to believe in her & be with her, or break up with her & believe in his father. Another issue is her own ego - on one hand, she wants to distance herself from him, but on the other hand she's waiting for him to confess. She is such a confused character & I blame the CVs for this. She is so far from reality if she actually thinks that this guy will keep coming back to her, after she treats him so coldly. Clearly, she takes him for granted. I wish the CVs handled Shravan's letter better. Wasn't that letter a confession of this guy's unconditional love for her. What was the point of Suman reading it if it did not give her the courage to fight for her love.

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OMA

@OmaRamdass

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Posted: 9 years ago

#38

Great question

Two people know and it's like they don't Care

Preeti knows also and I didn't see any concerned reaction from her

Edited by OmaRamdass - 9 years ago

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LIKEDMG

@LIKEDMG

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Posted: 9 years ago

#39

Originally posted by: shivani_balla

And to add to this, her actions and words are poles apart.
She is chalti phirti brainlessness ki dukan.
Here Shravan is at fault, coz frm the beginning... no matter how wrong she was, he always made things upto her needs. This increased her trust on him so much that she had apparently taken him for granted, and felt that no matter however I behave with him, at the end of the day he will get back to me.
Thus, she did all that drama after ramu's deal.
But in all this she forgot that even he has a heart, it breaks, it pains.Even he is a human, has feelings right?!
Shravan gave her unconditional love which backfired him,unfortunately.

my god I m thinking same..Wht suman does n wht she thinks n wht she talks ..all r pole apart...She is chalti phirti brainlessness ki dukan. 😆

this is the hard truth...

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Chaits_04

@Chaits_04

Voyager

Posted: 9 years ago

#40

What a post! Good question!

Yeah, though I could understand what nanu was trying to say, to shravan to stay away from the wedding arrangements as the case was not as thought, since nanu didn't know that shravan was aware of the fact that adi was nirmalas son!

But I was thinking weren't they going to invite malhotras for sumo's wedding? Aren't they their family now? Through preethi!

Tiwaris didn't want Nirmala to attend peekar wedding because they didn't want any MUs! Now that her wedding is over bhaad me jaye! Now get Sumo's wedding done! Party badlu according to their convenience!

Yes you pointed out correctly, tiwaris specially nanu reached out to shravan and ramnath when ever they had problems, like during the khosla track and during sumo's accident? Ramu also had taken the responsibility of getting sumo married! Then isn't it naanu's responsiblility to be frank & clear with malhotras!

How mami used to be vocal when it was preethis marriage and now it is only naanu's decision that they are going to follow! Least bothered!