Hum insan ke andar jakhna jaante he.....

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I know yesterday's epi was horrible.. and I was shocked.
And And all are angry with shravan's words and his such mean thinking about women.

Everybody is saying that sumo has given right answer to shravan... Yes she has given right answer to him... She said about not framing people in categories and the most imp line she said was - HUM INSAN KE ANDAR JAKHNA JAANTE HAIN.. YAHI FARK HE AURAT AUR MARD ME...

WELL SAID SUMO...

BUT

BUT

BUT

She ONLY said to answer back to shravan. Does she really mean it?

Kya usne shravan andar jhankha.. Does she ever tried to understand his thinking.

Yes his thinking is wrong. I agree totally wrong and the everybody's personality is developed by their thinking. U said right sumo..

But why his thinking is developed like this. Girl I know u are sacrificing ur love for ur nanu. But ur thinking is limited only to other people and not shravan...

Sumo knows shravan's past and she knows that in which environment he is living.

I know sumo is orphan and always has to sacrifice her choices for her family but she got some love from her mamaji and the great her nanu.. He was there to teach her what is right and wrong.. and sumo got love in her life from her family members. Even though her mami always taunts her then also at the time of accident she supported her so much and gave her so much love like a mother.

But shravan is not orphan.. then also his life is like an orphan more than sumo. He stayed in london alone. Nobody was there to love him. His father always teaches him wrong gyan. and does not give him that unconditional love what shravan wants.

Imagine that if in the place of sumo shravan's accident happened then from whom he would get love???? Can he get the love what sumo's family members gave her...

The answer is NO a BIG NO. He can only get some love from his father and pushkar.. All others are just selfish. And ya somewhat love and himmat from lalaji

So I just want to conclude that in yesterday's epi shravan was justified.

THE RIGHT OUTPUT COME WHEN THE INPUT IS RIGHT.
In shravan's life the input is wrong and so the output is also wrong...
I m not at all blaming shravan for his behaviour

I m just requesting to CVs not to ruin sumo's character. She does not do what she says. She says she loves shravan.. Love is not like this baby... Shravan has always supported u whenever u r in pain... This time shravan needs her support and she is telling that itna mat giro shravan. I mean really??????

CVs its a genuine request that plz improve sumo's character. Let her try to understand shravan's pain. Its the right time to show what sumo told - HUM INSAN KE ANDAR JHAKHNA JANTE HAIN. To prove shravan and also the whole world that yes Women can see the inner side of the person.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I do not want to take sides because Shravan did somethings which were really really demeaning... And he is doing all this like a child, who says no to something but then keeps trying to get attention for the same. But I have a few issues with the way this story is going:
1. Suman is not reflecting even once on WHY suddenly shravan is behaving like he is. She herself did a 180 (from being nice with him to being rude with him overnight) and there was a reason for it... Ramnath's blackmail... so shouldn't she for once think WHAT HAPPENED TO SHRAVAN?


2. Shravan has loud and clear said he is feeling hurt, he puts Suman in a selfish category etc., but she keeps mum when those allegations are hurled at her, not even once questions WHY? When Shravan had already told her that he does not think of her like other women, and that he wanted to tell her something special at the coffee shop (which at that time she assumed was love), wouldn't just general curiousity make you think what made this person change overnight, except his own insecurities?

3. Between Adi, Shravan, Nanu, Nirmala, Ramu, Preeti, ROF, Suman is the only one who knows everything. She has the most knowledge. Other people do not know something important or key. Nirmala doesn't know Shravan-Sumo relationship, nor does Adi. Adi even commented yesterday that ShraMan friendship is strange because although everyone says they are BFFs they do not look like one. No one knows about the blackmail. Sumo also knows about Adi lying regarding the lehnga and was already forewarned by Shravan about his intentions, now when Shravan's suspicion as she called his come true, why is she plain blaming Shravan for being insecure. If my best friend told me that a guy is interested in me and even if I dismissed him in the beginning as being jealous I will rack my brain later when he proposes to me... The key issue is Suman knows the most, but she has rented her intelligence at this point to someone so she is not using that knowledge to piece everything together, although everything is out loud and clear. Shravan has practically said everything except the three words I LOVE YOU to her.

4. Last but not the least, yesterday too, Sumo made it about "You don't understand about women, tumhein sach pata chalega to.." she knows Shravan is behaving or forming this opinion about others because he does not know the truth, yet she is angry with him, disgusted, and talks about him losing her respect... not empathy. She is not worried what is happening to my friend. Which is sad.

When I read the update I was very upset and riled up, but when I saw the episode actually, somehow I didn't get that angry at Shravan (except for the whole bed and bedroom thing...). That whole warm someone's bed and be quite was unnecessary - and very distasteful, and should have been avoided. Everything else other than that, it ached my heart to see that no one is seeing Shravan's pain, not even Suman who claims that wo logo ke andar jhaank sakti hai, not adi who has this unbelievable sixth sense and not even Ramnath. Only Kamini does, but she is using Shravan for her selfish interest, sigh...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: PprEDKV

I know yesterday's epi was horrible.. and I was shocked.

And And all are angry with shravan's words and his such mean thinking about women.

Everybody is saying that sumo has given right answer to shravan... Yes she has given right answer to him... She said about not framing people in categories and the most imp line she said was - HUM INSAN KE ANDAR JAKHNA JAANTE HAIN.. YAHI FARK HE AURAT AUR MARD ME...

WELL SAID SUMO...

BUT

BUT

BUT

She ONLY said to answer back to shravan. Does she really mean it?

Kya usne shravan andar jhankha.. Does she ever tried to understand his thinking.

Yes his thinking is wrong. I agree totally wrong and the everybody's personality is developed by their thinking. U said right sumo..

But why his thinking is developed like this. Girl I know u are sacrificing ur love for ur nanu. But ur thinking is limited only to other people and not shravan...

Sumo knows shravan's past and she knows that in which environment he is living.

I know sumo is orphan and always has to sacrifice her choices for her family but she got some love from her mamaji and the great her nanu.. He was there to teach her what is right and wrong.. and sumo got love in her life from her family members. Even though her mami always taunts her then also at the time of accident she supported her so much and gave her so much love like a mother.

But shravan is not orphan.. then also his life is like an orphan more than sumo. He stayed in london alone. Nobody was there to love him. His father always teaches him wrong gyan. and does not give him that unconditional love what shravan wants.

Imagine that if in the place of sumo shravan's accident happened then from whom he would get love???? Can he get the love what sumo's family members gave her...

The answer is NO a BIG NO. He can only get some love from his father and pushkar.. All others are just selfish. And ya somewhat love and himmat from lalaji

So I just want to conclude that in yesterday's epi shravan was justified.

THE RIGHT OUTPUT COME WHEN THE INPUT IS RIGHT.
In shravan's life the input is wrong and so the output is also wrong...
I m not at all blaming shravan for his behaviour

I m just requesting to CVs not to ruin sumo's character. She does not do what she says. She says she loves shravan.. Love is not like this baby... Shravan has always supported u whenever u r in pain... This time shravan needs her support and she is telling that itna mat giro shravan. I mean really??????

CVs its a genuine request that plz improve sumo's character. Let her try to understand shravan's pain. Its the right time to show what sumo told - HUM INSAN KE ANDAR JHAKHNA JANTE HAIN. To prove shravan and also the whole world that yes Women can see the inner side of the person.




i am sorry to say cvs showing her just words and dialouge in front of sharvan... she doesnt mean anything... inside dekhtay hain seriously then why not seeing sharvan?? i am so done with this lame brainless girl
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Posted: 9 years ago
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This line had me fuming!
Honestly, what was she thinking saying that with such audacity!
You see the man you love destroy himself before you, literally...
You dont need to jhakao in anything for it, it's so obvious...
But you do what? Nothing!

Slow claps!

I'm not taking sides, or saying one is wrong other is not...
Both have their hands full...
But!
This line, irked me!

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Same thoughts ... i m so irritated wid them ... both need 2 introspect abt d odr n wat dey say
Sumo needs a lot of introspectn n as she told Ramu Kaka dat wen Lambu is in pain ... she wud b der for him ... but v dnt see dis happening ... all she is being is a statue n quiet n sayng dialogues


Lambu shd also try n understand abt d Majboori she said n needs 2 change his way of lukng at thngs ( as Aditya said in yesterday's epi)

N seriously someone needs 2 put some brains n logic in their head ...


B/w i seriously dnt understand wat kind of LUV is dis ... dey dnt fight 4 each odr ... see no ways of gettng 2gethr of take help or talk ... only fight wid each odr ... atleast if she thinks Aditya can understand n help , talk 2 him n find solutn rathr than being all sacrificial lamb 😡😡
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: ...MonaCo...

I do not want to take sides because Shravan did somethings which were really really demeaning... And he is doing all this like a child, who says no to something but then keeps trying to get attention for the same. But I have a few issues with the way this story is going:

1. Suman is not reflecting even once on WHY suddenly shravan is behaving like he is. She herself did a 180 (from being nice with him to being rude with him overnight) and there was a reason for it... Ramnath's blackmail... so shouldn't she for once think WHAT HAPPENED TO SHRAVAN?


2. Shravan has loud and clear said he is feeling hurt, he puts Suman in a selfish category etc., but she keeps mum when those allegations are hurled at her, not even once questions WHY? When Shravan had already told her that he does not think of her like other women, and that he wanted to tell her something special at the coffee shop (which at that time she assumed was love), wouldn't just general curiousity make you think what made this person change overnight, except his own insecurities?

3. Between Adi, Shravan, Nanu, Nirmala, Ramu, Preeti, ROF, Suman is the only one who knows everything. She has the most knowledge. Other people do not know something important or key. Nirmala doesn't know Shravan-Sumo relationship, nor does Adi. Adi even commented yesterday that ShraMan friendship is strange because although everyone says they are BFFs they do not look like one. No one knows about the blackmail. Sumo also knows about Adi lying regarding the lehnga and was already forewarned by Shravan about his intentions, now when Shravan's suspicion as she called his come true, why is she plain blaming Shravan for being insecure. If my best friend told me that a guy is interested in me and even if I dismissed him in the beginning as being jealous I will rack my brain later when he proposes to me... The key issue is Suman knows the most, but she has rented her intelligence at this point to someone so she is not using that knowledge to piece everything together, although everything is out loud and clear. Shravan has practically said everything except the three words I LOVE YOU to her.

4. Last but not the least, yesterday too, Sumo made it about "You don't understand about women, tumhein sach pata chalega to.." she knows Shravan is behaving or forming this opinion about others because he does not know the truth, yet she is angry with him, disgusted, and talks about him losing her respect... not empathy. She is not worried what is happening to my friend. Which is sad.

When I read the update I was very upset and riled up, but when I saw the episode actually, somehow I didn't get that angry at Shravan (except for the whole bed and bedroom thing...). That whole warm someone's bed and be quite was unnecessary - and very distasteful, and should have been avoided. Everything else other than that, it ached my heart to see that no one is seeing Shravan's pain, not even Suman who claims that wo logo ke andar jhaank sakti hai, not adi who has this unbelievable sixth sense and not even Ramnath. Only Kamini does, but she is using Shravan for her selfish interest, sigh...



Agree in all the points... I m also not taking sides
I also hated that bedroom part... Yuck.,... Except that he was right in his perceptions.
but I m just wondering that sumo says she loves him but is this really love??.. I mean not only in love but as best friend she should try to understand his behavior...

If my best fried behaves this much strangely to me.. I would wonder that what is the problem?? and also take him/her out of that pain bcoz I know the reason of his/her pain... Thats a simple human behavior...

I don't know why CVs are just making it dramatic like EK serials... Seriously very disappointed...
The fact is she cares for the whole world except shravan.. She takes him granted.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: ice _girl

Same thoughts ... i m so irritated wid them ... both need 2 introspect abt d odr n wat dey say

Sumo needs a lot of introspectn n as she told Ramu Kaka dat wen Lambu is in pain ... she wud b der for him ... but v dnt see dis happening ... all she is being is a statue n quiet n sayng dialogues


Lambu shd also try n understand abt d Majboori she said n needs 2 change his way of lukng at thngs ( as Aditya said in yesterday's epi)

N seriously someone needs 2 put some brains n logic in their head ...


B/w i seriously dnt understand wat kind of LUV is dis ... dey dnt fight 4 each odr ... see no ways of gettng 2gethr of take help or talk ... only fight wid each odr ... atleast if she thinks Aditya can understand n help , talk 2 him n find solutn rathr than being all sacrificial lamb 😡😡


Ya not someone but CVs need to some brains n logic in their head...

They should know that the audience of this show are notthat typical saas bahu anties...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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This line had me fuming!
Honestly, what was she thinking saying that with such audacity!
You see the man you love destroy himself before you, literally...
You dont need to jhakao in anything for it, it's so obvious...
But you do what? Nothing!

Slow claps!

I'm not taking sides, or saying one is wrong other is not...
Both have their hands full...
But!
This line, irked me!

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She only says but do nothing and only in front of shravan not anybody else... In front of other she become abla naari
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: farial100




i am sorry to say cvs showing her just words and dialouge in front of sharvan... she doesnt mean anything... inside dekhtay hain seriously then why not seeing sharvan?? i am so done with this lame brainless girl


Ya CVs have ruined her character...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: PprEDKV

Agreed!
Why the double standards..?
You are a badass independent opinionated girl, be one in front of everyone please...

To both of them, be who you are, uninhibited...
That would be fun to watch!

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