My take: Trust and Respect - Page 3

Originally posted by: Fernweh

A beautiful and absolutely in depth analysis, especially loved:

<Because Shravan had a choice that he did not exercise. He could have analyzed and checked all the poison that Ramu was feeding him, he could have given Sumo the benefit of doubt.. But he did not. Why? Shravan is the product of his insecurities. What Ramu did, anyone could have done with Shravan and at some point he might have succumbed the same as Ramu did with his wife. He would have suspected Sumo because, he does not trust her. >

Yes he could have ruminated about her behaviour, listened and spoken with her but he chose not to.

While we can understand he was higher than high today, the bedroom scene was absolutely unessential- the CVs could have stopped it at the insults as vicious as they were. That bedroom scene just left a bad taste- kind of veered to a different tangent all together

Plus after this is Suman really going to be able to forgive him his words and behaviour, how much more of the hurtful taunts will she put up with. She's at the end of the tether as is, with nanu Aditya and a marriage looming up- she may just soon become indifferent to Shravan.

Moot point where is this all heading

Really would like for a marriage track but how will that pan out. Kamini seems the only hope since It may perhaps be too late in the day for Ramanth to reverse the damage he has inflicted on his son.

Originally posted by: poppinss

Thanks Fern.

Sumo talks to adithya... what did she talk? Pct investors... adi is going to get from her too. Shravan is going to go to an extreme to tarnish her image and marry her. Both will grow to together from there... Sumo would lose her trust in Shravan too.

So they will stumble and fall but will learn to walk again. 😃

Originally posted by: --BLRbabe--

you have written so clearly .. loved reading it

yes shravan insecurities in the fore front .. even sumo doesnt understand how deep they were ... he has huge trust issues .. these combined, he thinks of worst when things doesnt go right ...

Sumo had always given him benefit of doubt .. even now she trusts him to do the right thing

in todays epi .. shravan does mean all the disgusting things he said .. now he is spewing it out without regards to anyones feelings .. thats y all r surprised and shocked by his actions .. he was always considerate to feelings ..

his views on women has always been pigeon holed by his experience as teenager .. it was always Sumo who was the exception .. it was her presence in his life that kept the darkness away .. now with her choosing someone else all his dark thoughts has come the fore front ..

i wonder how the cvs will take this forward .. the story keeps me guessing ..

Originally posted by: poppinss

Thanks Jane 😃

Shravan is his own enemy. In the end Ramu did not do much... it is Shravan eho blindly believe in ramu so easily. He was waiting for Sumo to fail. That is his insecurity at work. No question that he loves her.. But Isd love alone enough?

No, Love is not enough. But I think love is the reason why he can never let go of Suman and why somewhere in his heart he hesitantly wants to still pursue happiness and give life a chance. And yes, he trusts Ramnath a lot. His insecurities are adversely affecting him. The only way he can break out of his unhappiness is if he can overcome his prejudices. That can happen only when he can love Sumo with respect and trust, which has to be earned. Is love enough? Absolutely not. They have abundance of love for each other. Friendship and trust is the key. And lowering their fragile egos would also be nice.😆

He thinks since other women have hurt him... he has the right to hurt any woman he wants... this is a vicious cycle... somewhere his actions are going to come back to haunt him.

He very easily criticizes people of their choices and decisions without hear3 then out and giving them a chance. What if he fumbled once with Sumo and very bsdly and sumo looses her respect and trust in him? Thks is where we are heading. The girl who was willing to give her life for him us going to give up on him. This would be the beginning of Shravan wanting to grow up.

This vicious cycle will end at some point. I wonder how he will apologize then. I just hope Sumo doesn't give up on him by then.

Originally posted by: --Amulya--

Hey, even I liked today's episode... Shravan might've tried to show his embarrassing side to Sumo by taking another girl to his bedroom but still I don't believe that Sumo thinks that he's gonna do something bad of that sort... she believes in him and understands his pain too, so just left from MH without even confirming what's he gonna do... he rightly stood on her belief and din't allow some stranger into his life even when he's that drunk... the monologue of Sumo was not about his today's act but she fears on a whole about what's doing with himself, it felt like he was punishing himself as he's not the kind of person who wouldn't regret all this when in a sound mind.

Originally posted by: noexcuse

I liked the episode too. I was not too bothered by shravan's meanness. If someone drinks that long he is bound say things he doesn't mean too. Yes , probably he has those believes in the worst of his times but he wouldn't have let himself cross those limits if wasn't really really drunk.

The best part for me was Nir truth coming out. One more pain he is done with.

But, still I have no idea which way story is going.

NP was right. A lot happened today. One of the two biggest secrets came out.

Radha- you are right they tied up the story very well. They will also show sumo right by showing only when his misconception about his mom clears he will be able to trust women again.

The last question_ what happens after ramu truth comes out??