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Posted: 9 years ago
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A beautiful and absolutely in depth analysis, especially loved:
<Because Shravan had a choice that he did not exercise. He could have analyzed and checked all the poison that Ramu was feeding him, he could have given Sumo the benefit of doubt.. But he did not. Why? Shravan is the product of his insecurities. What Ramu did, anyone could have done with Shravan and at some point he might have succumbed the same as Ramu did with his wife. He would have suspected Sumo because, he does not trust her. >

Yes he could have ruminated about her behaviour, listened and spoken with her but he chose not to.

While we can understand he was higher than high today, the bedroom scene was absolutely unessential- the CVs could have stopped it at the insults as vicious as they were. That bedroom scene just left a bad taste- kind of veered to a different tangent all together

Plus after this is Suman really going to be able to forgive him his words and behaviour, how much more of the hurtful taunts will she put up with. She's at the end of the tether as is, with nanu Aditya and a marriage looming up- she may just soon become indifferent to Shravan.

Moot point where is this all heading

Really would like for a marriage track but how will that pan out. Kamini seems the only hope since It may perhaps be too late in the day for Ramanth to reverse the damage he has inflicted on his son.


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: poppinss


Nothing new in Sumo being right. Marybarton, Darcyfan, Amulya and a few others have been saying it too.. Sorry that I dont remember your names and hence couldnt mention here...

It may look feminist for many but... Shravan had no right treating Sumo like his lackley at PCT and crying rivers after that. But that is beautifully tied to his childhood insecurities. He is not mean or bad, but his insecurities make him go that way. The boy needs to grow up to be the man 😃

Hey, even I liked today's episode... Shravan might've tried to show his embarrassing side to Sumo by taking another girl to his bedroom but still I don't believe that Sumo thinks that he's gonna do something bad of that sort... she believes in him and understands his pain too, so just left from MH without even confirming what's he gonna do... he rightly stood on her belief and din't allow some stranger into his life even when he's that drunk... the monologue of Sumo was not about his today's act but she fears on a whole about what's doing with himself, it felt like he was punishing himself as he's not the kind of person who wouldn't regret all this when in a sound mind.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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you have written so clearly .. loved reading it

yes shravan insecurities in the fore front .. even sumo doesnt understand how deep they were ... he has huge trust issues .. these combined, he thinks of worst when things doesnt go right ...
Sumo had always given him benefit of doubt .. even now she trusts him to do the right thing

in todays epi .. shravan does mean all the disgusting things he said .. now he is spewing it out without regards to anyones feelings .. thats y all r surprised and shocked by his actions .. he was always considerate to feelings ..

his views on women has always been pigeon holed by his experience as teenager .. it was always Sumo who was the exception .. it was her presence in his life that kept the darkness away .. now with her choosing someone else all his dark thoughts has come the fore front ..

i wonder how the cvs will take this forward .. the story keeps me guessing ..

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Posted: 9 years ago
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well explained!!! his insecurities are the reason he does not give her benefit of doubt... sumo has been stupid in so many ways but she has done absolutely nothing to deserve this much distrust...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I agree with every word you said.
It's the building of characters for the story. It's part of it and it was beautifully portrayed.

Yes it was irritating cause we had few expectations but that aside, it was a very nice episode. It will all tie up beautifully in the end I am sure.

Namik was phenomenal. Again, Jitna Kahun, utna kam hai.
In fact, Ronit wasn't bad today. Loving it😳
Edited by arshi21 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I don't know what to say ...I had said this n number of times , Today Shravan may be a hot shot successful lawyer, but he is same nerd & low confidence guy when it comes to Sumo, he just can't take another rejection from Sumo.
Coming to episode, thanks cvs for pulling the main twists so fast, now he is completely shattered and gonna torture sumo more about Aditya & Nirmala relation.
All hopes r on Kamini now , hope she shows some kalakari.
Coming to Shravan's actions , though I understand his Pain, i'm not gonna justify his actions.His dlgs r so cheap at certain level , but this is to show the downfall of Shravan, remember the more he falls the more he raises .
Yeah , i'm too hell excited for the things coming up
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Great post and it actually put many things in perspective..And u very rightly said about the insecurities...as that's has been the root cause of all his problems from the very start and now they r blown out of proportion with all things happening around him and the result is what we see... the so called New Shravan!
My feelings were a mixed bag of emotions today but after reading ur post I feel much better..And the tilt of feeling is more positive now! So thank u!
Though I still feel that bedroom scene and talk about keeping a man happy in bedroom dialogue was unnecessary and derogatory... I somehow could not take it even with a pinch of salt!!

But the rest of the episode was a good one.And most importantly a happening one!.. special mention of Namiks DDLJ dialogue with a twist and his stupendous look a drunken eye lift expression when Aditya maroed Ek Duje ke Vaaste dialogue.. it was something to die for.. Brilliantly enacted!
Edited by nancyrio90 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: PlainJane

Great post. I agree with you completely.😃

I think this episode was really vital. Shravan manhandling Suman, insulting every women, being mean to that chick shows us how much pain he is suffering. He is not himself. He feels rejected because Nirmala left him. He at least had Sumo and Sumo too betrayed him. He is completely broken and doesn't give a damn if he is being an a-hole. He is completely broken.😭

As you said, he needs to trust and respect Sumo again. Sumo also needs to know how to deal with him without losing her self-respect or she loses respect for him. Before that can happen, Shravan has to hit rock bottom. As he keeps getting shocks, he will keep on breaking. There is no helping that. I am disappointed but not astounded with his behaviour. We have seen even in past. Shravan lashes out in pain.

There is too much thorns in ShraMan's way right now. They love each other, but their love is tainted because of miscommunication, their egos and prejudices. To be in a healthy relationship, they have to put all their issues on the table, untangle all the knots in their current bitter relationship and start with a clean slate. They have to start with nothing again.

They have to rediscover their friendship.

Shravan is one of the most amazing characters I have come across on TVs. And Namik does full justice to the role.😳


Thanks Jane 😃
Shravan is his own enemy. In the end Ramu did not do much... it is Shravan eho blindly believe in ramu so easily. He was waiting for Sumo to fail. That is his insecurity at work. No question that he loves her.. But Isd love alone enough?

He thinks since other women have hurt him... he has the right to hurt any woman he wants... this is a vicious cycle... somewhere his actions are going to come back to haunt him.

He very easily criticizes people of their choices and decisions without hear3 then out and giving them a chance. What if he fumbled once with Sumo and very bsdly and sumo looses her respect and trust in him? Thks is where we are heading. The girl who was willing to give her life for him us going to give up on him. This would be the beginning of Shravan wanting to grow up. 😉
Edited by poppinss - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: KostinsQueen

I don't know what to say ...I had said this n number of times , Today Shravan may be a hot shot successful lawyer, but he is same nerd & low confidence guy when it comes to Sumo, he just can't take another rejection from Sumo.

Coming to episode, thanks cvs for pulling the main twists so fast, now he is completely shattered and gonna torture sumo more about Aditya & Nirmala relation.
All hopes r on Kamini now , hope she shows some kalakari.
Coming to Shravan's actions , though I understand his Pain, i'm not gonna justify his actions.His dlgs r so cheap at certain level , but this is to show the downfall of Shravan, remember the more he falls the more he raises .
Yeah , i'm too hell excited for the things coming up


Hasu rewatch the episode ... without the thought of romance. Sumo's dialogues are amazing. U will get ur answers. Even if all is honkey dory... it's just a matter of time that Shravan will fall again. Think of how volatile Shravan had been since he came back and how different he was as the teenager. He has always been friends, run away, friends, run away in cycles. Because of his fears. This in marriage will be terrible. He needs to grow up. He will realize that himself soon. It is not rejection from Sumo... his problem is his distrust of Sumo in particular and women in general.

If he married Sumo now without changing a new problem will make him judge her and accuse her. The change has to happen oi him. He needs to be a happy person. Simple. Without that how will he be able to love another 😆?
Edited by poppinss - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: noexcuse

So, marriage is still on?


Yes. Shravan is going to ruin Sumo's reputation and marry her and repent in leisure.

Symbolism... sumos dress tears he covers hervwith his dupatta. She returns it to him.
So... the marriage may happen but cvs cab change their minds too 😛

We are soon going to get the kickass sumo. Hopefully.
Edited by poppinss - 9 years ago

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