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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: penganga

awesomely written!
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especially the part about unsaid convos, expectations like that from his mother..
He himself most of the times behaves brotherly with her...protective, caring...and stops at that...like he said duing accident...main tumhe aise nahi dekh sakata...kyon ? no answer
again when he warned her about Aditya...muze lagata hain ki Aditya dosti ki hade paar karke aage badh raha hain...baat khatam...he could have also added...aur muze yeh pasand nahi...but no...
i hope alcohol wil make him say all these kyon farak padata hain things...
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Good points, that's why the best friend struggle feels harder, he's very hesitant to say his interest is more physical and hormonal than a brotherly, protective kind. When he tried to find her a guy, he was the best friend, when a guy finally came and he lost his mind, he should have realized and made it known. Sumo can't have a best friend/brother/lover all in one. It needs to SHIFT. That's why best friends struggle a little moving into a relationship even through their trust, etc, knowing the other person is all done (like the above poster said - cute story! I want a guy to tie my shoe laces/stiletto straps on my part).
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Posted: 9 years ago
#22

Originally posted by: Wiccamaya

Aha, beautiful analysis and equally good replies. I am married to my childhood best friend and though we never have to face this much trouble as there was no one else like Aditya but he proposed only after my parents started searching match for me... And even after a yes I never got flowers or gifts ... Which he used to give to his all infatuations... Ha ha
We never felt jolt or spark
In holding hands ... But we were very comfortable all the way long and still he tie my shoe laces in malls or any where which is practically not possible in any other kind of relationships.
With friendship comes a hot chocolate kind of feel which smooths you and make you sleep peacefully.
* took us long time to take it to another level. Ha ha ha
It's a strange journey ... But beautiful one so far ..



Exactly what you said about the struggle is what the CVs need to highlight. They showed the hesitation, but not the why of the hesitation that has more to do with the shift in their relationship. This is why I keep saying that to progress from the best friend brotherly type bond to something more there needs to be a break.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#23

Originally posted by: peachesandcream


Sumo thinks she belongs to him. She is uncomfortable when Adi gets close to her. I think at this point Sumo is overwhelmed due to circumstances and she is taken aback by Shravans uncharacteristic behaviour. He used to be her support and now he is hurling taunts at her. She is dealing with the situation by just not responding since she may think he is not ready to listen.


I think Shravan needs to ask Sumo... talk to her. He broke all ties with her and during the marriage acted like her touch repulsed him. Extreme behavior. He was trying to prove to himself that she was no one and he can be happy without her. But he failed miserably! Both before and after the engagement announcement. Yes they both know that they belong with the other and can never be happy with anyone else. There was doubt in both their minds But somehow Shravan has broken that barrier with Sumo's engagement announcement. He has not vocalized it yet... but it is there for Sumo to see. Too little too late.

I am sure Sumo is going to talk today. But they both are beyond communication now... both are scared and heartbroken that they are going to be lost to each other forever. One of them needs to reach the breaking point and soon. Hopefully that would be Shravan. He wants to be Sumo's hero... I hope he becomes one under the guise of revenge.

We are in for some Sumo talk and a passionate moment followed by Chachi.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Wiccamaya

Aha, beautiful analysis and equally good replies. I am married to my childhood best friend and though we never have to face this much trouble as there was no one else like Aditya but he proposed only after my parents started searching match for me... And even after a yes I never got flowers or gifts ... Which he used to give to his all infatuations... Ha ha
We never felt jolt or spark
In holding hands ... But we were very comfortable all the way long and still he tie my shoe laces in malls or any where which is practically not possible in any other kind of relationships.
With friendship comes a hot chocolate kind of feel which smooths you and make you sleep peacefully.
* took us long time to take it to another level. Ha ha ha
It's a strange journey ... But beautiful one so far ..


How nice of you to share!
What lovely story.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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They need to talk it out. After asking her to get lost...what gives him the right to act cheated.
Suman instead of making all those helpless expressions needs to open her mouth and talk and ask him a few questions.

Too much non sense has been said and the relevant stuff unsaid.



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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: poppinss


I think Shravan needs to ask Sumo... talk to her. He broke all ties with her and during the marriage acted like her touch repulsed him. Extreme behavior. He was trying to prove to himself that she was no one and he can be happy without her. But he failed miserably! Both before and after the engagement announcement. Yes they both know that they belong with the other and can never be happy with anyone else. There was doubt in both their minds But somehow Shravan has broken that barrier with Sumo's engagement announcement. He has not vocalized it yet... but it is there for Sumo to see. Too little too late.

I am sure Sumo is going to talk today. But they both are beyond communication now... both are scared and heartbroken that they are going to be lost to each other forever. One of them needs to reach the breaking point and soon. Hopefully that would be Shravan. He wants to be Sumo's hero... I hope he becomes one under the guise of revenge.

We are in for some Sumo talk and a passionate moment followed by Chachi.


i miss the shravan during goglu times 😆 i don't want him to get carried away in his ego.. i am afraid he will... can you imagine how he is going to react when he finds out aditya is nirmala's son and sumo agreed to marry him 😕 god save sumo, but if he acts this possessive and aggressive she should really run away from him..
for a change i would like to see a hero who tones down his aggression for the girl.. it would be refreshing...
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Posted: 9 years ago
#27
I thought both of them were acting like husband and wife. Shravan angry with Suman...haq se showing her that he is furious with her. Suman quietly listens because she too felt like she let him down.
I have always left their chemistry was not in the intimate moments but the way they think about each other and behave with each other. Like they are already in a relationship. So, I can't fault Shravan for thinking the same.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#28

Originally posted by: Marybarton




Good points, that's why the best friend struggle feels harder, he's very hesitant to say his interest is more physical and hormonal than a brotherly, protective kind. When he tried to find her a guy, he was the best friend, when a guy finally came and he lost his mind, he should have realized and made it known. Sumo can't have a best friend/brother/lover all in one. It needs to SHIFT. That's why best friends struggle a little moving into a relationship even through their trust, etc, knowing the other person is all done (like the above poster said - cute story! I want a guy to tie my shoe laces/stiletto straps on my part).


But I think in this case, Suman has already crossed that barrier. She was ready to be his girlfriend from the day he returned from London. The way she was dressed up on the first day, then during reunion party time, she always thought ke he is trying to patao her...even in that party she said muze aur kisi ke saath dance nahi karana..
then khosala case happened...he cancelled his London trip for her...and she was all set to kiss him ...on the terrace of her house...
and what he asks for..FRIENDSHIP..

so Suman is all ready to learn quantum physics, but Shravan wants to revise Newton's laws of motion...again and again...
imagine her frustration...:D
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Posted: 9 years ago
#29
Not just sharvan but even sumo thinks that they are in relationship even though they never vocalised it , it was very clear as sharvan feel cheated and sumo somewhere also feel that she cheated sharvan that is why she was nodding no to him, not able to face him and giving those sorry looks...
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Posted: 9 years ago
#30
I am so furious at Suman..from the beginning she made an image of a self respect waali independent girl, now suddenly all this abla naari act. Is it so difficult to understand why is Shravan angry? And the faces she makes in front of that chomu Aditya is damn irritating. I have no sympathy for her character.
Poor Shravan
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P.S- sorry TM I clicked on your profile quite a lot of times by mistake when I was trying to open this topic. Using phone, that's why. Not stalking 😳
Edited by JollyRancher. - 9 years ago

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